=Two sides exist; good and evil
-love comes from good=subcategory:love
-hate comes from evil=subcategory:hate
Both are verbs, which are actions, which are things that can be done and seen; felt and described.
-PURE EXAMPLE-
Your marine buddy is in trouble, he is caught in a land mine explosion and is unconcious. Since you are the leader of the squad and the only one left alive besides your 'guy' who just got smashed by a mine but is still alive.
1. you leave him because you hate him
2. you save him because you love him
-Why? you can hate what he's done in the past, played pranks on you when you were eating at the base camp. but you forgave him several times because you had some kind of unconditional love which is contrary to hate, thus love excels in how much you give out to your 'guy' / men.
==If you love him, you will pick him up and carry him to a convoy in which he will receive first rate medical attention.
==If you have chosen not to forgive him or you simply hate him because of XY & Z, you will most likely abandon him, perhaps killing him with your firearm. Since you're the only one who is concious (alive) in the squad and being the leader, anything you say will be the final word unless otherwise further investigated by a court of marshall.
-So they find the body? It's your bullet that's in him? Yeah, so? Maybe before you decided to kill him, you just grabbed an AK 47 and said it was an enemy round that hit him after the explosion but you managed to survive somehow and make up some lies, throw the gun away too? Alright, either that, or you strangle him and say that he didn't have enough oxygen that you could supply him with? Perhaps you dump his body in quicksand and it is never found, you lie that he is needed to claim an MIA or something like that.
But because of hate, you will not want him to succeed. You will not want them to be at the level you are. Rich or poor, happy or sad, comfortable or miserable - even, dead or alive...? Yes.
With love, you will do your best to help them get further, perhaps further than what you are or will ever get in life.
Love=freedom is agency to chose to make decisions without having to surrender your allegience of honor and respect for people, whatever the case you or someone else will be happy
Hate=damnation where you're trapped in your lies and deceitful feelings, you will not have a happy ending, and if you do, you will not be happy and you will destroy people's lives.
How do you identify hate? You'll know right away or in the long run, the "give away" will not be nice and offer a final blow to bring the receiver down to the pits, somehow. and "pits," being whatever awful situation that is. From a fight at Skate Land to spreading rumors or lies about the person you hate, to pulling a trigger and attempting to run a controlled miscommunication protocal. Is hate contagious? Yes, and it's also infectious if you let someone rub it onto you.
The reason why we hate is because we think that it will make us feel better, a way to suppress or release emotions within or without ourselves, to someone or something. However, it is a wrongful feeling and will only make us weaker in the long run.
Example... you ever feel you hated someone so much, that when they were finally out of your life, it didn't matter to you anymore and for some reason you felt so tired? That's the aftermath of hate, the stress on the human mind and it's damaging emotional effects it can have on you and others.
So is hate a good thing, to bring the opposites to a realization? You can say so, but hate is a weakness in which all of us must overcome, otherwise it will bring us down and we will lose respect for ourselves and other people and their belongings, leading to blindness and eventually fear and darkness.
Example... why do gothic-like people exist, because they pull a force out of hatred. A negative influence that teaches them that they must become something else that revolves around hate. An essence that does not include the ability to concentrate their energies on entire functions of love and respect for themselves and other people or belongings. The want to express themselves in a way that will show a (false) humiliation for those that work hard to acheive an image of clean behavior, but in fact to the public eye makes it look like they have serious problems - and that's a fact, because they do have problems beyond comprehension (family life most likely).
How do you heal hatred? By forgiving others. You can hate what they've done, but you shouldn't hate them for who they are or what they stand for, even if you know they're doing wrong. It simply doesn't exist in time and space to say that you love someone if you know you're giving someone what is called "half love" and really hating them in reality.
Example... love and lust. You love something about someone and you want to take it away from them, but hate will always be substituted if they don't want to give it to you, whereas if you loved them you will let them make the decision and not force them. Love is liking someone for who they are, not what they are or what they have, what they've been or will become. "Who" is not described necessarily as where they've been or where they will be, either, but is a true consideration of the soul inside and it's abilities to opt for change and success regardless of the entireties of physical matter.
But is good and evil the same? No they are not, however they are "a compound in one." No matter what, one or the other will exist at the same time and at different levels, and to the extremes of any situation as well. A mother loving her new born child and giving 'em everything she can think of to make 'em happy VS a man slaughtering his marine buddy who after getting caught in a mine explosion is shot at... and later lying that it wasn't him and some other enemy force. So how do you cope with both in the world, you find ways to deal with good things from certain people, and you identify problems in people who want to become evil or push for evil with their habbits: and then find a solution to deal with good or evil = but either way you will face both in your life, for good or bad, expect the worse, live for the best.
When you acquire feelings of hatred for someone, it is a weakness. It will become an action in due time unless it is identified and brought to a halt in the human mind. Any concern for love of someone (it could be anyone) will suppress and eliminate "hate" and help reduce any actions of wrongful feelings. When you express hatred, you show a great weakness in understanding the simplicities of love and positive culture.
Do the math, figure out where you stand in society. Realize that no such person is better or worse than the other as it says in the constitution < "All men are created equal." Your level of psychological understanding could limit you to addictions and consequences of spending the rest of your life in captivity (jail time, hiding from society, etc) or acheiving great things to better humanity and the enjoyment of life overall. Are you the builder or destroyer?
What you learn in the home is the identity you will establish in society. Learning is through example, you will immitate what you feel is appropriate to you and others at a given time and space. You can chose good or evil, your actions are by choice but the consequences are not yours to determine, but to hope for - or thereby reap upon.
Therefore train yourself for the income to help influence an outcome, otherwise become the outcome of firstly thoughtless incomes. It starts with your thoughts that invite actions and then results, your results determine where you will stand in the future.
p.s. Hate or be hated. Love or be loved.