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Exgirlfriend and Roomate Love Triangle....

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<< Tell me people. What should I do here? >>



Threesome?




Then again, that would only be cool if your roomate was a girl.
 
You ended the relationship,she's free to see and sleep with whoever she likes.Your roomate also sounds like he's more mature than you are, as he doesn't feel the need to report to you concerning his social life. Grow up and move on is my best advice to you.
 
I dont think what your roommate did was cool. verbaly confront him and bust his ass to the ground. Keep banging your ex untill uget a new one.
 
K|CK ThA LiVinG sH|T oUttA h|M.

Its a serious violation of the buddy code. He should've consulted you first (not bc she's a property, but bc its awkwardness)!!!

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<< You ended the relationship,she's free to see and sleep with whoever she likes.Your roomate also sounds like he's more mature than you are, as he doesn't feel the need to report to you concerning his social life. Grow up and move on is my best advice to you. >>



Yeah, I'm with baffled and hotchic on this one. Sorry, you gave it up, no one has to report a thing to you. Its not like shes your property hes borrowing without permission.
 


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<< You ended the relationship,she's free to see and sleep with whoever she likes.Your roomate also sounds like he's more mature than you are, as he doesn't feel the need to report to you concerning his social life. Grow up and move on is my best advice to you. >>



Yeah, I'm with baffled and hotchic on this one. Sorry, you gave it up, no one has to report a thing to you. Its not like shes your property hes borrowing without permission.
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I'm sorry but the same sh!t happened to me... I couldn't be more disgusted. :|

Think of it this way: would you be perfectly happy if your ex-bf (I assume you are a girl) was 'doing' your roommate/friend of 4 years? Its not about who does not belong to who... its about that unexplainable awkwardness.

On a brighter note: You can always tell your roommate that you touched her boobs... 😉
 
Oh, please....

This girl is big trouble! You broke up with this girl almost three years ago, and she's calling on you for sex every few months ever since? Ever wonder how many other guys she's calling on all those nights in between? Okay, and now she gets a "scare" and suddenly she remembers she's been in love with you all this time...are you really buying this? It's no surprise to me that when the scare is put to rest, it's back to her old winning ways.

Thank your lucky stars and move on. And she'll be moving on soon too, so you can reclaim your roommate soon too.
 


<< there's only one way to rectify this situation. that's right, have sex with your roommate. >>



LOL, nice one, now where is that movie again??? hmmm...
 
man it's totally wrong. if you believe in the whole one-person-for-everyone shtick, then maybe yeah they owe it to themselves to give it a try. but how hard could it possibly be to just steer clear of your buds' ex-girlfriends?

it's so dag nab creepy to have one of your buds porking your ex-girlfriend, mature or not. i'm willing to wager that none of the people who say 'grow up, she can do what she wants' have had that sort of thing happen to them-- annoyance at this sort of thing is entirely irrational. (yes my ex-girlfriend is dating my ex-roommate, i don't talk to him anymore because they live in a different city and he annoys me now)

anyway, i wouldn't go trying to make any demands or compromises with him, because i guarantee you they feel completely justified. confronting him in some way may make it possible for you to be friends, it may make things awkward for him as well instead of just you.

if they're not serious maybe you can ride it out, but if they're serious and you're able to stay friends immediately and keep a pleasant living environment, then well i'm impressed.
 
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