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Ex GF Wants 200 For Cell Phone Bill(NEW 6/21/06!)

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Originally posted by: Cooler
Story:

Met this girl 6 months ago really nice we dated. However she hated the fact that I was a programmer/gamer and felt that I did not pay allot of attention to her. Yet I did at least 4-5 hours a day. One month ago she came to my apartment and threatened to break my computer if I did not spend much more time with her. She wanted to get rid of my night out with my friends. I remind you that this Computer cost me over $2500.I said Hell no and she broke my router with her bat in rage and I had to call one of her friends to drag her out. After that I dumped her saying that no one messes with my computer. During this time I was helping to pay for some of her stuff while we were dating not her cell phone however. Now she wants me to pay for her phone bill because she is broke. Before phone got disconnected because she did not pay her bill she keep begging and threatening me to take her back. Now that the cell is disconnected she is calling me at work and IM/emailing me for money. Now what should I do?




Cliffs :
She Broke My Stuff
I Broke up with her
EX wants me to pay 200 for Cell bill that is hers
She has no money
She will use the Cell to yell at me once it is reactivated
If I don?t give her the money I will keep getting calls on my cell and at work as well as nagging IM and her showing up at my apartment

Send her a registered letter that if she continues to contact you, you will sue her for harassment.
 
Restraining order.

Were the genders reversed, the man would have spent at least a few hours in the country jail after police were called.
 
Call the police
File a property damage report.
Press Charges.
Have her arrested.
When she calls to get you to back down, tell her that if she has the bail money, then she can pay her own damn bills.
Take out restraining order.
File a civil suit in small claims court for the cost of the router plus court and filing fees.
 
Originally posted by: Ulfwald
Call the police
File a property damage report.
Press Charges.
Have her arrested.
When she calls to get you to back down, tell her that if she has the bail money, then she can pay her own damn bills.
Take out restraining order.
File a civil suit in small claims court for the cost of the router plus court and filing fees.

Where's the "Buy a pistol to use against her when her crazy ass comes after you for getting her arrested" step?
 
Some chick broke your property and now you even consider to give her more money? Don't want to be harsh, but if you pay her cell phone bill, then you are a USDA certified MORON.

Edit: if she keep calling you, reject her number or call your local phone company. If she comes to your house, call the cop. Do not back down.
 
Originally posted by: ThisIsMatt
Grow some balls you tard.


My thoughts exactly.....

also stop threatening her and act...get the restraining order and talk to a lawyer...better still Marry her.....everyone needs a good guard dog.....you could also have her commited to a mental institution as her next of kin!
 
Here is what I would do...

File a restraining order
Take her to small claims court for your router
Get a permit to carry a concealed weapon

If she comes near you again and threats you with bodily harm, you can legally pull out your gun and shoot her.
 
Originally posted by: Ulfwald
Call the police
File a property damage report.
Press Charges.
Have her arrested.
When she calls to get you to back down, tell her that if she has the bail money, then she can pay her own damn bills.
Take out restraining order.
File a civil suit in small claims court for the cost of the router plus court and filing fees.


To the OP, I like this reply better then Mine.
I suggest you follow his advice rather then my own.
 
You're pathetic, she's crazy... maybe you should take her back?

Also, I call shens. Seriously, who says this:

"However she hated the fact that I was a programmer/gamer"

You label yourself a gamer like it's something someone is like "fat" or "antisocial." You can play games and still have a social life.
 
Hit her with the same bat she used to destroyyour router, well just be sure to disable her anyways. Then dump her in a river... 😉
 
Originally posted by: Eli
Tell her to fsck off and die.

I concur. Also, see if your local Army surplus store has some dud anti-personnel mines. If so, hide one under the doormat with a buncha cables hanging out.
 
Originally posted by: Cooler
Story:

Met this girl 6 months ago really nice we dated. However she hated the fact that I was a programmer/gamer and felt that I did not pay allot of attention to her. Yet I did at least 4-5 hours a day. One month ago she came to my apartment and threatened to break my computer if I did not spend much more time with her. She wanted to get rid of my night out with my friends. I remind you that this Computer cost me over $2500.I said Hell no and she broke my router with her bat in rage and I had to call one of her friends to drag her out. After that I dumped her saying that no one messes with my computer. During this time I was helping to pay for some of her stuff while we were dating not her cell phone however. Now she wants me to pay for her phone bill because she is broke. Before phone got disconnected because she did not pay her bill she keep begging and threatening me to take her back. Now that the cell is disconnected she is calling me at work and IM/emailing me for money. Now what should I do?




Cliffs :
She Broke My Stuff
I Broke up with her
EX wants me to pay 200 for Cell bill that is hers
She has no money
She will use the Cell to yell at me once it is reactivated
If I don?t give her the money I will keep getting calls on my cell and at work as well as nagging IM and her showing up at my apartment


I believe it is illegal for her to harass you at work. She could cost you your job. I would call the police.
 
How a Dweeb gets known at Anandtech:

Make up a story about some psycho bitch...Check

Then post a random pic of some chic saying it's her ... Check

Say you had Anal Intercourse with her..Check

You have gotten the attention you were so desperately seeking now stop posting!
 
I was once like you my friend. Drop kick that biotch into last week. Then you can buy a new router and chat up hot babes online all day 😉. It's time to pony up.
 
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