Events that change your beliefs

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Nightfall

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There are events that happen through the course of our lives that change what we believe in or challenge those beliefs we hold dear. For instance, a friend of mine lost his wife to cancer about a year ago and stopped talking to myself as well as most of his other friends. He recently emerged telling me he lost belief in the doctors that treated his wife as well as the medical system as a whole.

I had a situation when I was younger. I was brought up in a Christian Methodist household since I can remember. When I was 14, my grandfather was diagnosed with cancer. My brothers and sisters were too young to really remember, but I remember how he wasted away slowly. Hospice had him drugged up at the end and it was painful to see what he had become. I guess as of that point, I refused to believe in God because what God would allow someone as great as my grandfather to die a slow painful death from cancer. To this day, I still cannot bring myself to believe in God.

What events have transpired where you have had a change in your beliefs? What changed? How about an event that happened where your beliefs are shaken, but you stayed the course and nothing changed?
 

El Guaraguao

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So wait a sec. Did you really expect your grandfather to become immortal or something?
 

Nightfall

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So wait a sec. Did you really expect your grandfather to become immortal or something?

Not at all. I just couldn't come to terms with a God that lets someone suffer like that who has been a god-faring man.
 

lxskllr

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No one event, but overall observations that makes me despise government, mistrust people, and has given me a general low opinion of people's intelligence, and integrity.
 

magomago

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Not at all. I just couldn't come to terms with a God that lets someone suffer like that who has been a god-faring man.
To be a little more serious (lol sorry about the hot dog comment!)...
God gives everyone different challenges in life. For those who have it harder in this life, they will be given greater respite later on.

Btw...wtf happened to our side panel of icons??? x_x
 

CPA

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When I got my first real job and saw the taxes coming out of my earnings.
 

irishScott

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As a kid I had a fairly hollywood romanticized view of violence. So much that I actually got in trouble for saying "I'm gonna kill you" as a retort in school. I never meant it, but apparently some kids took it the wrong way. Suffice to say I knew real war/violence was "bad" and "horrible" but I had no real baseline to base those terms off of. My idea of horrible was a C or below on a test. :p

When I was 13, my Dad showed my Saving Private Ryan, as well as a few endorsements of it's realism. That little corner of my mind flipped overnight.
 
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