Not sure what you mean by this.
She has been living with me since April. I met her the first time in 1988. I found out last year she ended up with an abusive mother fucker and as a friend I was just going to get her out of that mess. Somewhere along that way she and I fell in love.
I am supporting her and her two kids that live with us and her first older child that is now on their own.
She doesn't want to spend the money on this right now and I understand that. I just want to get her her eyeliner she likes.
So back to your response...do you doubt I can get a girlfriend or are you stirring up something else.
And if you are one of the crowd that wants to bash me for struggling right now, that's ok with me. I came up from nothing. I was looking forward to divorcing my ex and living a nice life of going out every night and playing with women. The love of my life landed in my lap on night on a random facebook encounter. I am OK selling off my stuff for more of a family life. My BMW M3 gets sold over the Mazda 3 I also own. My every night out and about gets replaced with family nights. Hell right now she is playing Candy Crush without me (fun game for partners) and her kids are on their laptops right by us. It's very different for me and also very rewarding. One of my first fatherly roles is some awesome fireworks I sold off my stuff to buy them. I don't think they will be able to light them all off in even two days. I have like 5000 pieces.
I don't know where I did you wrong. I thought in our tax threads together we had some connection. Here is a relation to that point. If I can't marry her by the end of the year, I just realized I am facing a $10,000 tax bill. I never even thought about that issue. My whole goal was to just get her out at first and then I realized once she did she could be my wife. She truly loves me and I her. I am just trying to make this process simple.