While I get what your saying you are missing the fact that every first world country does. It consume at the same rate.
Electric power consumption per capita makes a reasonable proxy for relative consumption.
http://data.worldbank.org/indicator/EG.USE.ELEC.KH.PC
While the US was using 13,000 kWh per capita in 2013 other first world countries like Italy and the U.K. were using only 5,000 - 5,500 kWh per capita. (Italy has a neagtive replacement rate.) Your chart actually shows how much less some of Europe consumes.
Assume conservatively 20% efficiency increases over the next century and we only need an increase of 3,000-3,500kWh over the 500-1,000kwh average use of the third world currently.
By doing this we push population growth towards the lower estimates:
Which further reduces the total amount of new power required by 2100.
I did a rough calculation of the required power in another thread a year or so ago. Which I could find.
At any rate the third world doesn't need to follow directly in our footsteps. We already know how to build solar, wind and nukes. We know how make drought and disease resistant GMO crops so the environmental impact doesn't have to look like the 20th century all over again.
So I think you are being overly doom and gloom.