Eliot Spitzer Involved in Ho' Ring?

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Dari

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Originally posted by: Lothar
Originally posted by: Genx87No liberal bias hahahaha! I actually had to look the guy up on Wiki to find out which party he belonged to. If this guy was a republican it would have probably been the first word in the headline.

Thank you for telling us that you don't know how to read.

It's in the third paragraph.
 

Linux23

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Originally posted by: marvdmartian
Like I pointed out in the thread over in OT, the truly important question that must be answered is.......

Did the prostitute in question swallow......or Spitz??? :laugh:

LOL.
 

daveymark

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it'll be interesting to see how this plays out, as he is a superdelegate and has pledged to vote for hillary
 

nageov3t

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Originally posted by: daveymark
it'll be interesting to see how this plays out, as he is a superdelegate and has pledged to vote for hillary

even if he loses his SD status after his resignation, it seems unlikely that the new governor would not endorse a sitting senator for his state, especially one who handily won the primary there and enjoys a comfortable approval rating at home.
 

EXman

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Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: 1prophet
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: DaveSimmons
Another "sin" that should be legal, along with soft drugs and euthanasia.


Stupid Flanders!

The fact that he's married with kids and cheated on his wife is more of a put-off than the ho-banging IMHO.

Is that considered cheating? He didn't love the whores. He paid for the sex. Just asking.

Ask the wife.

Well the vows said to love, cherish, and obey. It didn't say he couldn't have sex. This is something I've been thinking about for a long time. So long as he's not giving his heart to another woman, he isn't technically cheating. Besides, women care more about love than sex when it comes to relationships. Men are opposite.

please tell me you are kidding... no one could be this stupid.
 

EXman

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Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: Mxylplyx
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: DaveSimmons
Another "sin" that should be legal, along with soft drugs and euthanasia.


Stupid Flanders!

The fact that he's married with kids and cheated on his wife is more of a put-off than the ho-banging IMHO.

Is that considered cheating? He didn't love the whores. He paid for the sex. Just asking.

I assume you are single...right? Get used to it.

Actually I'm engaged. But I'm sure I'm not the only person that gets tired of f***ing the same person. Now I have to do it for another 50 years? F**k that.

Yea I guess you are...

look above Good Luck Mrs Dari! hope those future warts clear up.
 
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Originally posted by: EXman
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: 1prophet
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: DaveSimmons
Another "sin" that should be legal, along with soft drugs and euthanasia.


Stupid Flanders!

The fact that he's married with kids and cheated on his wife is more of a put-off than the ho-banging IMHO.

Is that considered cheating? He didn't love the whores. He paid for the sex. Just asking.

Ask the wife.

Well the vows said to love, cherish, and obey. It didn't say he couldn't have sex. This is something I've been thinking about for a long time. So long as he's not giving his heart to another woman, he isn't technically cheating. Besides, women care more about love than sex when it comes to relationships. Men are opposite.

please tell me you are kidding... no one could be this stupid.

LOL... I mentioned the whole "forsaking all others" part in an earlier post. Jump back a few pages for rationalizing goodness. ;)
 

Fern

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Sounds like Spitzer could have some big problems if the DoJ pushes it hard.

I heard up to 20 yrs last night.

Apparently he also ran afoul of the Mann Act (up to 5 yrs per act just for it alone). IIRC, the others are already charged with it and they expect to him to be also.

Fern
 

Bowfinger

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Originally posted by: Fern
Sounds like Spitzer could have some big problems if the DoJ pushes it hard.

I heard up to 20 yrs last night.

Apparently he also ran afoul of the Mann Act (up to 5 yrs per act just for it alone). IIRC, the others are already charged with it and they expect to him to be also.

Fern
I find it hard to believe they'll do anything to Spitzer. He is only one of many -- hundreds? -- of Johns, and I'll bet scores of them made arrangements that crossed state lines. Unless Spitzer did something unique and especially heinous, they'll be hard-pressed to treat him differently. Time will tell.
 

Bowfinger

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Originally posted by: CADsortaGUY
Originally posted by: Perknose
Sigh. At least it was with women. Adult women. Adult, consenting women. :(
Yeah, obviously it's "better" than just an affair... :roll:

Sheesh..
Indeed it is. While both are "adultery" in principle, one of them is merely a physical act of sex while the other is physical sex with all sorts of emotional relationship complications. There is a huge difference between the two. While your personal morality may find both to be wrong, you can surely rise above self-righteous indignation for just a moment to recognize that one is more wrong, more harmful, than the other.
 

Hayabusa Rider

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Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: 1prophet
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: DaveSimmons
Another "sin" that should be legal, along with soft drugs and euthanasia.


Stupid Flanders!

The fact that he's married with kids and cheated on his wife is more of a put-off than the ho-banging IMHO.

Is that considered cheating? He didn't love the whores. He paid for the sex. Just asking.

Ask the wife.

Well the vows said to love, cherish, and obey. It didn't say he couldn't have sex. This is something I've been thinking about for a long time. So long as he's not giving his heart to another woman, he isn't technically cheating. Besides, women care more about love than sex when it comes to relationships. Men are opposite.

So then what does that part about "forsaking all others" mean? If you don't think this is cheating or against marriage vows you're nuts.

Forsaking all others? Never heard that one before. I guess I should read the manual carefully before buying.

Yes, I think you should. You sound too immature to think about marriage right now. Get the oat sowing out of your system first.

While you can write your own vows if you want... these are traditional vows:

Minister says to the groom: "_____, wilt thou have ____ to be thy wedded wife, to live together after God's ordinance, in the holy estate of matrimony? Wilt thou love her, comfort her, honor and keep her, in sickness and in health; and forsaking all others, keep thee only unto her, so long as ye both shall live?"

From here...

It seems as if that "forsaking all others" part is a recurring theme.

Oh puhlease. Spare me the moral beatdown. I'm being honest here and you're calling me immature? It's easy for women to have only one sex partner but very difficult for men. That's why in many culture men have multiple wives. That's why men cheat on their wives. That's why men have porno collections. It has nothing to do with immaturity.

You are a master at rationalization and making excuses for yourself. You should not marry unless you have made it clear to your wife to be she won't be the only one.

Got it. No need to beat me over the head with this moral crusade. The fact is when guys are jerking off to some porno and not telling their wives, that's cheating, if you interpret what those vows mean. Women have men beat in this game of marriage because they can hold out much longer. It's like having a swimming contest against a fish.

No, it's like taking somebody who loves and trusts you and stabbing them in the ass. It does wonders for human joy, especially for kids who get a jerk for a Dad. Who do you think you're kidding with that, it's harder for men crap. You think you're not talking to somebody who might know what it takes? Being a faithful husband is way easier than being an ass. It's all about how you feel, a little wimp who has to have it from the whole world to prove he's a stud, or somebody who has self love. It's only hard to have character when you start with none. My needs my wants and fuck the morality crap. Right.

Primal instincts != being an ass. The synthetic institution we call marriage is not unlike telling a horse not to act like a horse. BTW, what is acceptable to you? A porno collection? A phone sex chat? Those are considered safe avenues for men who find themselves wanting. To pretend that you are some robot is nothing more than lying to yourself.

Show me a beautiful woman and I'll show you a man that's tired of fucking her. But that doesn't mean he doesn't love her.

So what does the future Mrs. Dari think of this, or are you saving it for later?
 

Dari

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I think I'll drop this one as there are many out there on a moral crusade. Unless there is a giant wink that I'm not seeing I find it hard to believe that individuals will happily have sex with one person for half a century. I also find it hard to believe that for those who would do such a thing, they'd be happy to watch pornographic films, magazines, or fantasize about other women and not consider it cheating. I guess when you're flirting with an office-mate, you wouldn't consider that cheating? But it is because your wife doesn't know about it and she certainly wouldn't approve.

But, then again, many of you are probably no better than Spitzer, Jim Baker, Ted Haggert, Larry Craig, Mark Foley. You know, the pricks that scold others for leading a sinful life but do it themselves. You claim to have the moral high ground but are even worse than the common man. What are they called? Oh, that's right. The word is hypocrite. And it makes your wives, children, and the larger public cynical.

I'm being perfectly honest here and some here are pretending to be choir-boys. Spare me the moral fortitude that you have built up over the years. Whether it was caused by emasculation, timidry, or the very act of marriage, I still think there is a little man in all of us. There is no shame in that.
 

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Wow, I'm just simply amazed at some of the reponses here that try to downplay was Spitzer has done.

Soliciting prostitution is illegal, even if people don't believe it should be.

Compound that with the fact that Spitzer is the freaking GOVERNOR os New York, and you have an even bigger problem. Any person in an elected position like Spitzer is automatically put on a higher level of accountability than most.

Now add to that the fact that Spitzer has absolutely railed against people in the past for committing acts of indiscretion, be it sexual or conflict of intrest and you have an even bigger issue.

The most astonishing thing about this entire mess is that in typical democrat fashion, when a scandal is brought out about a democrat, they don't resign, they say its "personal" and continue to downplay it as if it is something that WONT be a black cloud over their head for the rest of their lives.

In most intances, when a Republican does something not becoming to that of an elected official, they throw him off the train. When a democrat does the same, its time to circle the wagons and defend yourself to the very end, while only admitting to partial guilt.
 

Dari

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Originally posted by: Corbett
Wow, I'm just simply amazed at some of the reponses here that try to downplay was Spitzer has done.

Soliciting prostitution is illegal, even if people don't believe it should be.

Compound that with the fact that Spitzer is the freaking GOVERNOR os New York, and you have an even bigger problem. Any person in an elected position like Spitzer is automatically put on a higher level of accountability than most.

Now add to that the fact that Spitzer has absolutely railed against people in the past for committing acts of indiscretion, be it sexual or conflict of intrest and you have an even bigger issue.

The most astonishing thing about this entire mess is that in typical democrat fashion, when a scandal is brought out about a democrat, they don't resign, they say its "personal" and continue to downplay it as if it is something that WONT be a black cloud over their head for the rest of their lives.

In most intances, when a Republican does something not becoming to that of an elected official, they throw him off the train. When a democrat does the same, its time to circle the wagons and defend yourself to the very end, while only admitting to partial guilt.

Like Larry Craig?
 

Corbett

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Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: Corbett
Wow, I'm just simply amazed at some of the reponses here that try to downplay was Spitzer has done.

Soliciting prostitution is illegal, even if people don't believe it should be.

Compound that with the fact that Spitzer is the freaking GOVERNOR os New York, and you have an even bigger problem. Any person in an elected position like Spitzer is automatically put on a higher level of accountability than most.

Now add to that the fact that Spitzer has absolutely railed against people in the past for committing acts of indiscretion, be it sexual or conflict of intrest and you have an even bigger issue.

The most astonishing thing about this entire mess is that in typical democrat fashion, when a scandal is brought out about a democrat, they don't resign, they say its "personal" and continue to downplay it as if it is something that WONT be a black cloud over their head for the rest of their lives.

In most intances, when a Republican does something not becoming to that of an elected official, they throw him off the train. When a democrat does the same, its time to circle the wagons and defend yourself to the very end, while only admitting to partial guilt.

Like Larry Craig?

??? Larry Craig was tossed out on his butt almost immediately.
 

runzwithsizorz

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Originally posted by: ThePresence
He is DONE.
There is no recovering from this.
He should resign McGreevy style.


I thought the very same about Marion Berry, but nooooo.
With around a $200.000 pension for life, you could stick a fork in me as well!
 

techwanabe

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Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: 1prophet
Originally posted by: Dari
Is that considered cheating? He didn't love the whores. He paid for the sex. Just asking.
Ask the wife.
Well the vows said to love, cherish, and obey. It didn't say he couldn't have sex. This is something I've been thinking about for a long time. So long as he's not giving his heart to another woman, he isn't technically cheating. Besides, women care more about love than sex when it comes to relationships. Men are opposite.

It's not techically cheating to have sex with a prostitute (or any other woman for that matter) when you are married? Did we just make a major revision of the definition of cheating?

Just because women (in general) are interested more on love than sex, doesn't mean they won't have a serious problem with their husbands "getting it" with another woman.
 

techwanabe

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Originally posted by: Corbett
Wow, I'm just simply amazed at some of the reponses here that try to downplay was Spitzer has done.

I'm surprised too. But then again in our current society where people have been brought up with relatavistic reasoning, values clarification and situation ethics, nothing surprises me anymore. Right is wrong and wrong is right.

The most astonishing thing about this entire mess is that in typical democrat fashion, when a scandal is brought out about a democrat, they don't resign, they say its "personal" and continue to downplay it as if it is something that WONT be a black cloud over their head for the rest of their lives.

If he doesn't step down, he will be like a kid who refuses to accept the consequences of his indescressions and his law breaking. That would be a disgrace. It would be an even bigger disgrace if our state and country let him get away with it.

It wouldn't surprise me if he doesn't resign, but he would be doing the entire state of New York a disservice by remaining governer and being totally ineffective. I hope he, at least, realizes that and steps down for the greater good.
 

Dari

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Originally posted by: Corbett
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: Corbett
Wow, I'm just simply amazed at some of the reponses here that try to downplay was Spitzer has done.

Soliciting prostitution is illegal, even if people don't believe it should be.

Compound that with the fact that Spitzer is the freaking GOVERNOR os New York, and you have an even bigger problem. Any person in an elected position like Spitzer is automatically put on a higher level of accountability than most.

Now add to that the fact that Spitzer has absolutely railed against people in the past for committing acts of indiscretion, be it sexual or conflict of intrest and you have an even bigger issue.

The most astonishing thing about this entire mess is that in typical democrat fashion, when a scandal is brought out about a democrat, they don't resign, they say its "personal" and continue to downplay it as if it is something that WONT be a black cloud over their head for the rest of their lives.

In most intances, when a Republican does something not becoming to that of an elected official, they throw him off the train. When a democrat does the same, its time to circle the wagons and defend yourself to the very end, while only admitting to partial guilt.

Like Larry Craig?

??? Larry Craig was tossed out on his butt almost immediately.

Larry Craig is still in the Senate.
 

RightIsWrong

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I think that Dari is being completely honest and is being unfairly railroaded by people trying to sound morally righteous when they have no ground to do so. For those that are bashing him for being engaged and holding this viewpoint, does anyone know for certain if he and his fiance have discussed or have decided to have an open relationship? What about a polyamorous relationship?

Everyone is so quick to try to squeeze everyone else into their box of morality and right and wrong rules without ever questioning whether the box that they have confined themselves to is a one size fits all option.

Just like the relationship that people have with whatever higher power they subscribe to or choose not to subscribe to, the relationship between two human beings is never the same as the relationship that two other humans will have. What is good for the Muslims is unacceptable for the Christians. What is good for the Moonbeams may not be acceptable to the Daris. Neither is right or wrong except in the other's eyes.

If they have discussed this and are in agreement with it, then no one has any right to judge them for it nor are they wrong, immoral or bad people for choosing it.
 

Dari

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Originally posted by: techwanabe
Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: 1prophet
Originally posted by: Dari
Is that considered cheating? He didn't love the whores. He paid for the sex. Just asking.
Ask the wife.
Well the vows said to love, cherish, and obey. It didn't say he couldn't have sex. This is something I've been thinking about for a long time. So long as he's not giving his heart to another woman, he isn't technically cheating. Besides, women care more about love than sex when it comes to relationships. Men are opposite.

It's not techically cheating to have sex with a prostitute (or any other woman for that matter) when you are married? Did we just make a major revision of the definition of cheating?

Just because women (in general) are interested more on love than sex, doesn't mean they won't have a serious problem with their husbands "getting it" with another woman.

What is the definition of cheating?
 

RightIsWrong

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Originally posted by: Dari
Originally posted by: Corbett
Wow, I'm just simply amazed at some of the reponses here that try to downplay was Spitzer has done.

Soliciting prostitution is illegal, even if people don't believe it should be.

Compound that with the fact that Spitzer is the freaking GOVERNOR os New York, and you have an even bigger problem. Any person in an elected position like Spitzer is automatically put on a higher level of accountability than most.

Now add to that the fact that Spitzer has absolutely railed against people in the past for committing acts of indiscretion, be it sexual or conflict of intrest and you have an even bigger issue.

The most astonishing thing about this entire mess is that in typical democrat fashion, when a scandal is brought out about a democrat, they don't resign, they say its "personal" and continue to downplay it as if it is something that WONT be a black cloud over their head for the rest of their lives.

In most intances, when a Republican does something not becoming to that of an elected official, they throw him off the train. When a democrat does the same, its time to circle the wagons and defend yourself to the very end, while only admitting to partial guilt.

Like Larry Craig?

Like Tom DeLay? Did they throw him off the train or did they promote him to Speaker of the House? Please refresh my memory.

Edit: Since I haven't commented on the OT, if indicted, Spitzer should resign immediately. He betrayed the public trust (I really don't care what he did in his marital relationship b/c that is none of my business) and should accept the consequences.

If he is NOT indicted, he should still resign but I don't care if he stays. Remember righties, Vitter was on record as well and admitted to his indiscretions and is still serving and none of you are calling for his head. As usual, the Repubs set a precedent and then cry foul when it is played out in the reverse direction (a Dem doing it).