"you have no self esteem, no self confidence and you say and do THE stupidest things and dare to post about it all here."
No, no, no, no, Yayo! That's not it. Yeah, she doesn't have self-esteem, but that's not the problem.
Let me clue you in on a secret: You have just uncovered the Queen of Drama. I swear . . . she exhibits every symptom in the world for the Queen title. No kidding! (Of course there are different measures of drama Queens and Kings.)
1) They start with sharing stories with different people. Hence new clients everyday for their sob stories. The reason for different people at different times is because many people get exhausted with the same old story. They get figured out, then they move on to an innocent unsuspecting sympathiser. It gets discovered that she's ("she" is used generically) a sham, so she moves on to another, on and on.
2) They can fake cries at anytime. They cry crocodile tears often to get attention and sympathy.
3) They play the kiddie roll. Oh, I'm such a kid, pity me 'cuz I'm cute. The kiddie idea is to seem naive. As they get too old to play kiddie role, they start to improvise.
4) They exaggerate stories and situations for attention but sometimes to get the sympathiser to really dislike the other party involved in the story. It's basically a sales pitch. The spicier the story, the more the attention. They like stories especially that portray them as martyrs/Mother Christmases (Santas).
5) They are willing to go to any measures just to be the centre of attention. The biggest kick in it is, they will go through any kind of physical pain, suffering, torture or anything else unwarranted just so they can win pity and get the attention they want. The pain means nothing to them as much as the pleasure of the attention they get as a result.
6) They make threats such as I'll kill myself or I'll do this or the other. You get so scared at first, then you realise it's all words/bragging/pretending, but they have no intent to do it. Challenge them to do it, and they get more upset and play the screaming match.
She has every symptom. You get so tired of Drama Queens and ignore them at some point. Then when the true call/cry for help appears, you assume it's all a false alarm. The most amazing things about Drama Queens is their ability to have monologues with themselves. In other words, if you try to have a dialogue with them, you'll be talking to the wall . . .which leads me to number 7:
7) They either argue vehemently or they say "that's true, that's true". For the former, logic isn't their friend. In fact, logic is their biggest enemy. If you pull logic on them, they won't let you talk. They'll pull some physical drama or make threats in fact just to scare you away from arguing logically. They could also try accomplishing that by attacking you personally with irrelevant personal matters, in order to change the subject. They could also list A-Z of what they've done for you, even if it's irrelevant at that moment. Then for the latter, they'll say "It's true, I agree", and you think you've finally talked senses into their heads. But boy . . . you couldn't be more wrong. LOL! The next you know after their words that they will do as advised, they'll go back to doing just what they did before and opposite your advice. They often know the truth and what is right, but the truth isn't what they want to hear.
They're a waste of time. Sometimes I wish I could do surgery on their heads and put in this thing called logic 'cuz talking will never work. It enters one ear and leaves the other. LMAO! It's a serious matter and sickness, but you can only laugh at some point when you can't control someone's behaviour or persuade them. Okay, come back to this compilation for help on diagnosing Drama Queens and Kings. Hehehehe!
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