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Subzero

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Originally posted by: HajikuFlip
Originally posted by: FleshLight
threesome as in 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?

Er... let me edit that. Four-some. 3 girls and me. :eek:


<<<<<Franticly searches for his B.S. flag,you need to stop watching the pron so late at night...

:laugh:
 

DAGTA

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Have you seen Chasing Amy? "What if I moan different and you freak out, Holden?"
 

Murphy Durphy

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Originally posted by: SubZero
Originally posted by: HajikuFlip
Originally posted by: FleshLight
threesome as in 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?

Er... let me edit that. Four-some. 3 girls and me. :eek:


<<<<<Franticly searches for his B.S. flag,you need to stop watching the pron so late at night...

:laugh:

BS if you want, won't change my situation. The reason I said three-some originally was because it was THREE girls. I'm still shaken up about things because my girlfriend wigged out and I've never seen her cry before, so forgive me if I wasn't thinking clear. :roll:
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: HajikuFlip
Originally posted by: SubZero
Originally posted by: HajikuFlip
Originally posted by: FleshLight
threesome as in 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?

Er... let me edit that. Four-some. 3 girls and me. :eek:


<<<<<Franticly searches for his B.S. flag,you need to stop watching the pron so late at night...

:laugh:

BS if you want, won't change my situation. The reason I said three-some originally was because it was THREE girls. I'm still shaken up about things because my girlfriend wigged out and I've never seen her cry before, so forgive me if I wasn't thinking clear. :roll:
Never seen your girlfriend cry before? Wow, how long have you been together?

Heh.. If you guys are open and honest about things, there's no reason why your relationship can't just continue on as normal. Just a bump in the road, no biggy.
 

PCTweaker5

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Everything will work out just yet, keep laughing about it together and slowly let it fade away as if it never happened and you'll be back to happiness. Now if she wants to do it again then whip that thing out and put it in her ass.
 

Rainsford

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Originally posted by: HajikuFlip
Originally posted by: Rainsford
It's the very rare relationship that can be just fine when it involves sex with other people. Suddenly "intimacy" is no longer very intimate. It's no longer something special between just you two. In a very real way it can have the same effect as either partner going out and messing around.

Besides, be honest with yourself...you would have had a problem if it was three guys and your GF, right?

Of course, but I would of never advocated that to happen in the first place. Remember, I was initally against all of it and it was HER idea. Like I said before, I think she imagined it more of me and her with them watching because she wanted to 'show off' to them. Now try to imagine that statement in the least vainest way as possible because even if we were the 4 ugliest people in the world it doesn't mean that she wouldn't want to "show me off" to 2 other girls that wanted me.

Anyway we laughed about some of the things the girls did and how one girl kissed like a horse, so I think things are going to be okay. Extremely fvcked up I know, but it just might work out. I'm worried about the intimacy thing though, will it be the same?

EDIT: Things have NEVER been this way before btw, no weird ass problems. We've been going out for more than 2 years and I don't think we've had more than 1 or 2 little fights. Things are always great between us and I'm not worried about relationship-unstability or anything.

Well as far as intimacy goes, I wouldn't freak out or anything, these things happen between couples and they survive. I'd say really try and find out her feelings here and let her know that what happened does NOT in any way mean the same as when just you two have sex. I think that, more than anything, is what she needs to hear. Of course I don't know you, or her, so I'm just basing that off my experiences. But it would be a good start, IMHO.
 

GhettoFob

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Originally posted by: HajikuFlip
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: her209
Wow... I don't know what to say.

I do... :camera:

Heh, last time something like that happened and you guys doubted me, I posted a video and got banned. :eek:

can you post another one?


Ahem.......:frown:

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Ichinisan

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Originally posted by: HajikuFlip...started crying and just balling her eyes out...
bawling
That's the fourth time I've seen that mistake today. Consider this a public service announcement.
 

cucumber

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Originally posted by: HajikuFlip
Originally posted by: FleshLight
threesome as in 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?

Er... let me edit that. Four-some. 3 girls and me. :eek:



How old are you? think of it this way, if you're still in school (high school, college...) or recently finished, it's pretty likely this won't be your last GF before you find one to marry. This is a once in a lifetime experience. Unless you're a porn star, this kind of stuff just doesn't happen. Consider yourself lucky that it did.

If your relationship is strong and worth keeping, you'll work it out.
 

dc

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learn to think with your head, the one with the brain. you may of royally f'ed up your relationship. good luck fixing it.