EDIT: Look'ed' for relationship advice

[Schadenfreude]

Originally posted by: Storm
Well there you go... At least you asked and found out

Yeah, as much as I try to tell myself that, it doesn't make the feeling of embarrasment go away

 

Just what I thought . . . you didn't take a cue, did you? Well, I suspected she really wasn't interested. However, since you didn't ask for opinions about that, I refrained from giving it. But I think it was clear that you were reading too much into things there.

Anyway, you never know. If you work too hard to get someone, you will take forever to find one or find a mismatch. Just relax and enjoy life. Someone will find you interesting and eventually things will naturally take their courses.

At least you grew some guts now, didn't you! Hence, you got a quick resolution. *Thumbs up!*

 

[Storm]

Originally posted by: Jehovah

Originally posted by: Storm
Well there you go... At least you asked and found out

Yeah, as much as I try to tell myself that, it doesn't make the feeling of embarrasment go away

Im sure there are plenty of ppl that want to give you advice and want to see a follow Anandtech community member succeed.
But a big problem with posting and asking for advice is that you may have a biased view upon things and like luvly and some others may think, you could be reading too much into, which very well could be the case. But hey you gave it a shot . I don't know if you said she was freaked out when you asked her out for coffee? If she wasnt it wouldnt hurt at least imho to continue this casual acquaintance with her. You got along with her well, asked her out on a date and found out she had a bf no big deal, if you're friends with her why not continue to be friends? My point is you can never have too many friends.

 

[Schadenfreude]

Originally posted by: Storm

Originally posted by: Jehovah

Originally posted by: Storm
Well there you go... At least you asked and found out

Yeah, as much as I try to tell myself that, it doesn't make the feeling of embarrasment go away

Im sure there are plenty of ppl that want to give you advice and want to see a follow Anandtech community member succeed.
But a big problem with posting and asking for advice is that you may have a biased view upon things and like luvly and some others may think, you could be reading too much into, which very well could be the case. But hey you gave it a shot . I don't know if you said she was freaked out when you asked her out for coffee? If she wasnt it wouldnt hurt at least imho to continue this casual acquaintance with her. You got along with her well, asked her out on a date and found out she had a bf no big deal, if you're friends with her why not continue to be friends? My point is you can never have too many friends.

Oh - I'm sure we'll be friends - she was really sorry about it, it seemed. Yeah.