EDIT 11/09/04
I forgot to mention, after she broke it off with me, i found out she is seeing some other guy in less than a week. Or maybe she was seeing him behind my back? Dunno.. Some 26 yr old douche web programmer... Life is good eh? Everytime i see their picture together, i feel like crap.
If you guys wanna know how she broke it off with me, here's the thread..
How she broke it off with me.
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EDIT 11/08/04:
Ok, so if you want to laugh at my misfortune, laugh away.
So it's been a month since she broke it off with me. We dated for 4 months, and after dating for 4 months, we were officially boyfriend/gf for less than a week, when she calls me to say, "let's just be friends.."
What did i learn from all this? Women are evil, deceptive, plotting, wicked, and conniving. They will do whatever they can to get their way, and they only want a guy under these conditions: successful, authorative, rich, has $$$, etc... What ever happened to liking somebody because you do?
I learned never trust a girl completely
I learned to keep your wallet close & your friends/family closer...
I learned to listen to your friends and if they all don't like her, ditch her.
I learned to that a girl can mess with your head more than calculus or organic chemsitry...
I learned 99.9% of girls = evil. I wanna find that 0.1% of sweetness or whatever is left...
I learned to like photography, guitar, working out, & entrepreneurship even more because I needed to get her off my mind...
I learned what I need to do in life and it isn't to focus on girls, but my ideal goals, dreams, and financial success.
This is WayneTeK, singing off.
EDIT: Ok, here is the breakdown on the dates..
1st date: $60 gift (her bday)
$20 dinner (Bj's pizza)
$20 movie
TOTAL: $100
2nd date: $70 on dinner at downtown disney JAZZ KITCHEN (what a total rip off)
$25 ESPN zone video games
$14 drinks at ESPN ZONE
$16 movie tickets
$6 ice cream
$16 flowers
TOTAL: $147 (downtown disney is a rip off!)
3rd date: $45 (3 hours of pool at the block, LUCKY STRIKE)
$15 drinks
TOTAL: $70 (i did save $10 because I won her at pool. We made a bet, loser pays for milkshake)
GRAND TOTAL: $317 (does not include fuel costs or other purchases made (clothing) to make myself look better.)
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Ok, so i've been dating this girl for two weeks now and whenever i go out, i get this impression i should make a move. You know, kind of like a spidey-sense for men.
Anwyays, our last date (3rd one), we went to THE BLOCk to go shoot some pool at LUCKY STRIKE and while we were walking back to our car, i got this impression i should try to hold her or her hand.
Well, afterwards, to be honest, i wanted to go home cause i was tired, but she wanted to go for milkshakes, so we did that, at 2a.m.
I'm not sure if she really was cold or not, but after drinking milkshakes, she said, "i'm cold.." and i'm like.. :sun:
Well, i was too big of a wuss to do anything at Denny's, so while driving home, i was super quiet because I was telling myself what to say to her so we could hold hands...
She is usually the quiet one, but since i was soo quiet on our way home, she actually tried to initiate a conversation.
I told myself if i didn't make a move this time, then i may be put into the FRIENDS category forever and shoot, holding hands should be the easiest thing.. but for me it was hard.
This is what i said to her while we were in the car.
"Janet... (short pause cause my mind blanked).. Umm, i'm gonna try something now, but if you don't like it, let me know." ~ ME
"Uh ok..." ~ Her
"Stick out your left hand." ~ ME
So she does it and i take it... Initially, i'm not sure if she got freaked out and tried to pull away, but she kept it there... But i think i did feel resisitance or could it be because our hands were in an uncomfortable levitating position?
Argh.. Anwyays, after i did that, she got super quiet. She is a really shy girl, but even after that, she got more quiet and looked outside the window only.. never twoards me.
I don't regret making this move because I'd rather know than blow more $$$ on her. For 3 dates, she cost me $310 :Q
Shoot, with $310, i could get myself more Pc3200 ram + creative muvo 4gb, which i really need...
And since i'm afraid of what's gonna happen next, i decided i'm not gonna call her anymore unless she calls me. Well, i'll give it a week b4 i call her.
*sigh* Love, it's a pain.
I forgot to mention, after she broke it off with me, i found out she is seeing some other guy in less than a week. Or maybe she was seeing him behind my back? Dunno.. Some 26 yr old douche web programmer... Life is good eh? Everytime i see their picture together, i feel like crap.
If you guys wanna know how she broke it off with me, here's the thread..
How she broke it off with me.
---------------------------------------------
EDIT 11/08/04:
Ok, so if you want to laugh at my misfortune, laugh away.
So it's been a month since she broke it off with me. We dated for 4 months, and after dating for 4 months, we were officially boyfriend/gf for less than a week, when she calls me to say, "let's just be friends.."
What did i learn from all this? Women are evil, deceptive, plotting, wicked, and conniving. They will do whatever they can to get their way, and they only want a guy under these conditions: successful, authorative, rich, has $$$, etc... What ever happened to liking somebody because you do?
I learned never trust a girl completely
I learned to keep your wallet close & your friends/family closer...
I learned to listen to your friends and if they all don't like her, ditch her.
I learned to that a girl can mess with your head more than calculus or organic chemsitry...
I learned 99.9% of girls = evil. I wanna find that 0.1% of sweetness or whatever is left...
I learned to like photography, guitar, working out, & entrepreneurship even more because I needed to get her off my mind...
I learned what I need to do in life and it isn't to focus on girls, but my ideal goals, dreams, and financial success.
This is WayneTeK, singing off.
EDIT: Ok, here is the breakdown on the dates..
1st date: $60 gift (her bday)
$20 dinner (Bj's pizza)
$20 movie
TOTAL: $100
2nd date: $70 on dinner at downtown disney JAZZ KITCHEN (what a total rip off)
$25 ESPN zone video games
$14 drinks at ESPN ZONE
$16 movie tickets
$6 ice cream
$16 flowers
TOTAL: $147 (downtown disney is a rip off!)
3rd date: $45 (3 hours of pool at the block, LUCKY STRIKE)
$15 drinks
TOTAL: $70 (i did save $10 because I won her at pool. We made a bet, loser pays for milkshake)
GRAND TOTAL: $317 (does not include fuel costs or other purchases made (clothing) to make myself look better.)
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Ok, so i've been dating this girl for two weeks now and whenever i go out, i get this impression i should make a move. You know, kind of like a spidey-sense for men.
Anwyays, our last date (3rd one), we went to THE BLOCk to go shoot some pool at LUCKY STRIKE and while we were walking back to our car, i got this impression i should try to hold her or her hand.
Well, afterwards, to be honest, i wanted to go home cause i was tired, but she wanted to go for milkshakes, so we did that, at 2a.m.
I'm not sure if she really was cold or not, but after drinking milkshakes, she said, "i'm cold.." and i'm like.. :sun:
Well, i was too big of a wuss to do anything at Denny's, so while driving home, i was super quiet because I was telling myself what to say to her so we could hold hands...
She is usually the quiet one, but since i was soo quiet on our way home, she actually tried to initiate a conversation.
I told myself if i didn't make a move this time, then i may be put into the FRIENDS category forever and shoot, holding hands should be the easiest thing.. but for me it was hard.
This is what i said to her while we were in the car.
"Janet... (short pause cause my mind blanked).. Umm, i'm gonna try something now, but if you don't like it, let me know." ~ ME
"Uh ok..." ~ Her
"Stick out your left hand." ~ ME
So she does it and i take it... Initially, i'm not sure if she got freaked out and tried to pull away, but she kept it there... But i think i did feel resisitance or could it be because our hands were in an uncomfortable levitating position?
Argh.. Anwyays, after i did that, she got super quiet. She is a really shy girl, but even after that, she got more quiet and looked outside the window only.. never twoards me.
I don't regret making this move because I'd rather know than blow more $$$ on her. For 3 dates, she cost me $310 :Q
Shoot, with $310, i could get myself more Pc3200 ram + creative muvo 4gb, which i really need...
And since i'm afraid of what's gonna happen next, i decided i'm not gonna call her anymore unless she calls me. Well, i'll give it a week b4 i call her.
*sigh* Love, it's a pain.
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