Originally posted by: Eli
	
	
		
		
			Originally posted by: CheapArse
	
	
		
		
			Originally posted by: Eli
	
	
		
		
			Originally posted by: Bacardi151
dude, im not even talking about feedback, i could care less what they give eachother for feedback, im talking about the networth.  here i'll give you an example.  somebody is auctioning a house, you win the auction for 100K, you later on find out he can't sell the house for whatever reason, and the house is worth 300K in the market.  are you not losing out on a deal here?  if you still can't see the bigger picture here i suggest you take economics and learn some shit.
what it really boils down to is that the seller is not living up to a service, and he should at the very least offer a raincheck.
and dude, his fees for listing the phone and final value is NOTHING compared to how much he'd be out for selling the phone for less than 200 bucks
		
		
	 
No, I completely understand that!
But that isn't the point? The seller is talking to you, person to person. Human to human?
He's telling you that he made a mistake, and that he is sorry that he will not be able to take your money. Oh, what a crime!
If it REALLY irks you that bad, how about a positive saying "Did not have have merchandise, compromise reached.. prompt communication."
I mean what the hell? I'd be PISSED if some asshat like you left me a negative after I explained myself. And I'm an experienced eBay seller, so don't fscking call me ignorant you asshat. 
Christ.
		
 
		
	 
So you're saying that if you won an auction for $100k on a house that was worth $200k and seller told you he couldn't sell b/c he made a mistake...you would chalk it up as an honest mistake?  Bullsh!t, you would call him on it and be pissed as hell...unless you like getting steamrolled... 
I could understant your point if this happened a day or two after the auction started...but not after the auction ended
		
 
		
	 
Apples to apples please.
We're talking about a 200$ phone. Nowhere near the magnitude of a house. 
What are the chances someone accidently lists a house they don't have? Come on.. I see the similarities, but it's just not the same..
Now, I do agree that he SHOULD have offered a raincheck. I absolutely completely agree, and that's the basis you should use for a neutral/negative, but like I said... you have to weigh whether getting one in return is worth it.
I have had this happen to me, me being the seller. I listed something, we didn't have it, I thought we did, someone bought it.
I said "Oh sh!t", emailed them and told them they could either wait 8 weeks, or we could leave eachother positive feedback and be done with it. They chose not to wait, we left eachother positive, and that was that.
The item was an 800 dollar glass annealing kiln. I really, really do not see what the big deal is.
Saying that you "don't have" something when it doesen't sell for as much as you want it to really is not a scam. You aren't cheating ANYBODY but yourself, both the listing fees(however small), and the potential for negative feedback. I want to repeat that, you are not cheating anybody but yourself. 
You have NOT been cheated if you think you're going to buy something for XXX$ and the deal completely falls through. It may be disappointing.. but that's about it.