Shippy: The reason I didn;t want to take up room on here was because this is the hot deals forum, not the general hardware forum where a debate like this one belongs... That post wasn't meant to be hostile, it was an honest offer...
ANYWAYS, since everyone seems to be up for a good debate, I'll see what I can do to lay down some info on the DVD+RW in my home. Remember, YMMV, and these are just my findings.
First off, you can find Verbatim DVD+RW discs at
www.provantage.com for $6, which is pretty fair I think seeing as how their cd-rs have always been top notch and thus far I've had no problems with the dvd discs either. NewEgg has Optio(I think?) discs for $5, but I've never heard of the name brand before, and much of what I've been burning has been backups that I'd like to not have fall apart on me.
Second, the units in my home were all purchased before I got the drive. The drive, BTW, is the HP100i. My settop players include the Pioneer DV333 and DV535, a Sony DVP S345 and my grandparents own an RCA player of some sort, I'm not sure the exact model. I've also tried putting a video from my 'rents digital camcorder onto a disc and it worked fine in my PS2, although like I said I have a newer machine so the innerds might be different.
Software that comes with the burner is flaky at best, much like any of the drives you'd get, + or -. Record time for a whole DVD is around 25 minutes or so, roughly a bit faster then half the time it takes to write a DVD-rw disc, although newer -rw drives support 2x on certified media.
Finally, and I have no clue how this works, but HP has started releasing "Compatability packs", which burn the dvd slightly differently so that you can make once incompatible players play the discs. Again, I have no idea how this works, and right now there are only around ten more confirmed drives from this process, but perhaps in time we will see more and more get added, and maybe even individuals will be able to target specific players.
As to why I chose +RW, there are two reasons. First, I got the drive for $75 as an incentive through work, and I couldn't pass that up

, second I got it to be future proof. Although -rw has better compatability now, with the money backing +rw regardless of it's inferior it will eventually win. That means +rw would become standard and therefore all new players would support dvd+rw. Also, with money backing it, disc prices should drop dramaticly, already down to $5 a pop, which isn't too bad when you really think about it.
Hope this helps guys, no hard feelings... again, if anyone wants to PM me, feel free to!