The price delta from 333MHz to 400MHz DDR memory for a small performance gain is far too great for someone who doesn't even care about the improvements of dual-channel memory (especially given the requirement of VERY good quality 400MHz modules to avoid performance reduction due to less agressive timings than would be possible with 333MHz). Dual-channel 333MHz would be quite sufficient I'm sure, and only slightly more expensive than 266MHz memory.
Why are you getting an nForce2 motherboard if you're not considering it for the high performance, which comes largely from the dual-channel memory? Actually, I don't know if anyone has compared an nForce/nForce2 board to itself with dual and single channel memory performance in any review, but I haven't read many nForce reviews, either. For a very much lower price, you can get a decent-performing board, unless you're dead-set on the sound options on an nForce2 board.
For that matter, I'm not sure which Soyo board you're referring to in your signature. Soyo has a couple of "Dragon Plus" models. I assume you mean the KT266A model, otherwise there'd be no reason at all to upgrade.