that's not true. just look at all the people who replied to this thread, i bet none of them fits the description. what you're describing are FPS gamers
lets compare TW fighting to DA fighting:
TW: draw sword, click, wait for pointer to become red, click, wait for pointer to become red, click, repeat until brain commits suicide.
DA: pause the game, set up the tactics for each other party member you don't control, spot the group of enemies in the distance and prepare an AoE spell to lure the ones who don't die in the first wave, storm then with your tank, pausing every once in a while to reassign targets and button mash your favorite skill until they all die.
you get the idea. you can also replace DA with any party based RPG (except maybe DA2 which i haven't played yet)