By your logic, why don't we just replace all dialog options with three, single word choices then? Paragon, Renegade, Neutral. Makes things simple enough.
Morrowind was alright, but I'm not a big fan of Bethesda's style, I usually get bored long before I even start the main plot. Bioware's linear, well told stories are among the best out there, even if they're getting very combat heavy in recent years.
I am curious though, if you thought the graphics in DAO were bad, if you tried any of the enhancement mods? Since most modern RPGs are basically console ports, they really benefit from community enhancement patches to get them up to code. A slap against the developers to be certain though.