Double Standard - # of partners

[Grasshopper27]

What's up with the double standard here?

You get a guy who has slept with a dozen women, and he is cool, a stud, popular, successful, whatever...

You get a woman who has slept with a dozen men, and she is used, cheap, easy, whatever...

What moron came up with that system?

Grr...

: ) Hopper

PS. For the record, I do not support that system!

 

[ElFenix]

i call guys that sleep around sluts

 

[xilluzionx]

i dont agree with that either , but thats how society sees it

 

[wfbberzerker]

Originally posted by: ElFenix
i call guys that sleep around sluts

ah shutup slut

 

[rudeguy]

Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
What's up with the double standard here?

You get a guy who has slept with a dozen women, and he is cool, a stud, popular, successful, whatever...

You get a woman who has slept with a dozen men, and she is used, cheap, easy, whatever...

What moron came up with that system?

Grr...

: ) Hopper

PS. For the record, I do not support that system!

what do you call the guys that havent slept with alot of women then?

 

[Chaotic42]

Originally posted by: rudeguy5757



what do you call the guys that havent slept with alot of women then?

People on Anandtech

 

[Viper GTS]

Originally posted by: rudeguy5757

Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
What's up with the double standard here?

You get a guy who has slept with a dozen women, and he is cool, a stud, popular, successful, whatever...

You get a woman who has slept with a dozen men, and she is used, cheap, easy, whatever...

What moron came up with that system?

Grr...

: ) Hopper

PS. For the record, I do not support that system!

what do you call the guys that havent slept with alot of women then?

AT members.

Viper GTS

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Sluts are sluts: regardless of gender.

 

[rudeguy]

AT members.

this is true...very very true

 

[Imdmn04]

cuz girls can just stand in the middle of the crowd, and scream" i want sex" and guys will be all over. if some guy did that, he would be looked as a loser.

so it takes alot more "skills" to get laid when you are a guy

 

[Storm]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Sluts are sluts: regardless of gender.

Agreed.

Edit
So is thumper joining ATOT?

 

[Geekbabe]

One thing many here don't understand is that as you get older you'll develop a sexual history,well so will your prospective partners.In the end, as long as I'm number one to him,it's all that matters.

 

[ScottyB]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Sluts are sluts: regardless of gender.

Yep

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: Storm

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Sluts are sluts: regardless of gender.

Agreed.

Edit
So is thumper joining ATOT?

I don't know yet, haven't decided.

: ) Hopper

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
One thing many here don't understand is that as you get older you'll develop a sexual history,well so will your prospective partners.In the end, as long as I'm number one to him,it's all that matters.

Exactly!!!

I knew I could count on you to provide the pearls of wisdom required here!!!

*hug*

: ) Hopper

 

[BDawg]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS

Originally posted by: rudeguy5757

Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
What's up with the double standard here?

You get a guy who has slept with a dozen women, and he is cool, a stud, popular, successful, whatever...

You get a woman who has slept with a dozen men, and she is used, cheap, easy, whatever...

What moron came up with that system?

Grr...

: ) Hopper

PS. For the record, I do not support that system!

what do you call the guys that havent slept with alot of women then?

AT members.

Viper GTS

Most AT members should be happy to have whatever girl they can get, no matter how many they've been with.

 

[rudeguy]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
One thing many here don't understand is that as you get older you'll develop a sexual history,well so will your prospective partners.In the end, as long as I'm number one to him,it's all that matters.

what if the guy had been with more like a dozen dozen women (a gross)???

 

[HappyPuppy]

I don't support a system that encourages casual sex.

It has nothing to do with religion or morals, either. I'm just sick and tired of all the abortions of convenience and fatherless children. They deserve better.

Just my little rant. You may now move on to the Jack the Ripper exhibit.

 

[WinkOsmosis]

Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
What's up with the double standard here?

You get a guy who has slept with a dozen women, and he is cool, a stud, popular, successful, whatever...

You get a woman who has slept with a dozen men, and she is used, cheap, easy, whatever...

What moron came up with that system?

Grr...

: ) Hopper

PS. For the record, I do not support that system!

It pisses me off to see (only see it here) guys talking about women who aren't virgins as used or sluts.

 

[BMdoobieW]

Originally posted by: ElFenix
i call guys that sleep around sluts

 

[Rainsford]

Originally posted by: Chaotic42

Originally posted by: rudeguy5757



what do you call the guys that havent slept with alot of women then?

People on Anandtech

HI-OH!

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
It pisses me off to see (only see it here) guys talking about women who aren't virgins as used or sluts.

Agreed!

A woman who has been with a man before simply has some experience under her belt (no pun intended), so bloody what?

Actually, women who have some experience hopefully know more about sex, what they like and don't like, and are better at it.

: ) Hopper

 

[nitsuj3580]

Originally posted by: Imdmn04
cuz girls can just stand in the middle of the crowd, and scream" i want sex" and guys will be all over. if some guy did that, he would be looked as a loser.

so it takes alot more "skills" to get laid when you are a guy

very true here but I had a friend in college that was the biggest player. We were in awe of his "skills" seeing as he wasn't the best of looking but he was with a different chic (or two or three) every weekend but we made fun of him all the time for being a "man slut".

Nice guy otherwise but we made sure he knew what we thought of his pimpiness or whatever you want to call it.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: rudeguy5757

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
One thing many here don't understand is that as you get older you'll develop a sexual history,well so will your prospective partners.In the end, as long as I'm number one to him,it's all that matters.

what if the guy had been with more like a dozen dozen women (a gross)???

I'm an adult woman,it would be unrealistic of me to expect that a man close to my age to not have a sexual history of his own.I don't care about the past,I do care about how he treats me.

 

[Rainsford]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: rudeguy5757

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
One thing many here don't understand is that as you get older you'll develop a sexual history,well so will your prospective partners.In the end, as long as I'm number one to him,it's all that matters.

what if the guy had been with more like a dozen dozen women (a gross)???

I'm an adult woman,it would be unrealistic of me to expect that a man close to my age to not have a sexual history of his own.I don't care about the past,I do care about how he treats me.

What I don't get is why everyone doesn't think like you? Who really cares about the history of your partner? As long as they are disease free, what does it matter if they've slept with 1 guy/girl or 50? If you are with them, then presumably you like them for who they are. If you like them as a person, what difference does it make how many people they've slept with? What does it change about them? Personally, I not only don't care, but I don't want to know. It isn't important, what is important, as Geekbabe says, who cares about the past?