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Dorothy Riddle's Homophobia Scale

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Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Is this saying that specifically gay/lesbian people have something EXTRA to offer that non-gay/lesbian people cannot?

Yes, it is saying exactly that.

Originally posted by: Tommunist
If this is what it means I find that to be very prejudiced.

Do males have something to offer, that females do not? And do females have something to offer that males do not?
Do the elderly have something to offer, that youth do not? (And do youth have something to offer that the elderly do not?)
Do grandparents have something to offer, that parents do not? etc,

I would say the answer to the above questions is yes. People who have a certain set of experiences, skills, attributes, etc. have something different to offer than people with other experiences, skills, attributes, etc.. I don't think that acknowledging this is 'prejudiced' or bad.

Originally posted by: Tommunist
Someones sexuality shouldn't dominate their other characteristics and/or abilities.

It's not a matter of sexual identity dominating other characteristics. It's a matter of gay people being different to heterosexual people, and therefore having something different to offer.
What does a gay male have different to offer? A special skill at pole smoking? The grandmothers and the mothers also posses that skill.
This is the problem. Gay is the description of a sexual act. A grandmother is who she is because of her age and the fact her offspring have offspring etc... Please explain what it is that a human being who happens to be attracted to the same sex has to offer society that others do not?

 
Originally posted by: aidanjm
most people (including homosexual people, including myself) have at least some homophobic attitudes.
You're gonna need to find a different word then, because you're not talking about the fear of homosexuality, but the lack of worshipping it.
 
I'm a little late to this party but that "scale" is complete & utter garbage.

People really need to get over this celebrate diversity crap. Yes, everyone is different. Congratulations. You and 6 billion other people. Big fvcking deal.

Indispensable? Valuable gifts?

:roll:

Viper GTS
 
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: yllus
Easily the worst quiz I've ever seen on the Intarweb.

Well, it's certainly pushing the buttons of social conservatives such as yourself. 😉

Did you know that the computer was invented by the brilliant mathematician and homosexual Alan Turing? Where would we be without his contributions, I wonder?


This social liberal does not care for this poll, or your self-appointed judgements about other people.

 
I would be somewhere between:

4 - Acceptance: Gay men and lesbian women are to be accepted as in 'you're not gay to me, you're a person'. Or 'what you do in bed is your own business'. or 'That's fine as long as you don't flaunt it'.

&

5 - Support: Gay men and lesbian women deserve to have their civil rights protected, even though I may be uncomfortable about their life-styles. The irrationality, fear, and hatred in this country about homosexuality is inexcusable.
 
I hate the word "homophobia."

Most people I know who disagree with "being gay" don't have a "phobia" of gay people. Some, yes, but not all or even most.

I voted number 5 myself.
 
I think some of these descriptions are a little weird. I guess I would be more of a mix of the top half instead of what I said earlier. For example one of the descriptions says you may be homophobic and a more homosexual friendly description says that you are homophobic.
 
We gave you a couple of days and still no response. I guess aidanjm googled his butt off and has yet to come up with these special contributions. Too bad.
 
Originally posted by: MCWAR
We gave you a couple of days and still no response. I guess aidanjm googled his butt off and has yet to come up with these special contributions. Too bad.

I've been out. I'll get back to this thread tomorrow.
 
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Is this saying that specifically gay/lesbian people have something EXTRA to offer that non-gay/lesbian people cannot?

Yes, it is saying exactly that.

Originally posted by: Tommunist
If this is what it means I find that to be very prejudiced.

Do males have something to offer, that females do not?
Do the elderly have something to offer, that youth do not?
Do grandparents have something to offer, that parents do not?

I would say the answer to the above questions is yes. People who have a certain set of experiences, skills, attributes, etc. have something different to offer than people with other experiences, skills, attributes, etc.. I don't think that acknowledging this is 'prejudiced' or bad.

-the male/female comparison is a physical difference so I don't find this one to be a good one.

-the elderly to youth is an amount of experience (attributed to time spent alive).

-grandparents to parents I'm not exactly sure - seems to be experience again so not a direct comparison.

I see what you are trying to get at but from my observations it seems strange to expect a gay person to posess some physical or experience difference that a straight person might not have. there is no physical difference and the experience difference is minimal compared to certain experiences that a straight person might have. you earlier pointed out the fact that alan turing was a homosexual - this partially shows what I am talking about - his being gay didn't cause him to do something that a straight person couldn't have done. I suppose I'll be convinced if you can come up with a situation where being homosexual gave someone some distinct advantage that a straight person couldn't have.


Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Someones sexuality shouldn't dominate their other characteristics and/or abilities.

It's not a matter of sexual identity dominating other characteristics. It's a matter of gay people being different to heterosexual people, and therefore having something different to offer.

what are the overall and underlying differences that you speak of (apart from their personal relationships)?

um, gay people are sort of half way between males and females in terms of their cognitive attributes (this is a generalisation, but it is more or less accurate).

in general, I think gay men are more creative than heterosexual men, hence the really high levels of gays working as composers, musicians, graphic designers, interior designers, fashion designers, architects, etc. Almost all of the greatest composers of the 20th century were gay men, for example. if you look at history's greatest artists - michelangelo, leonardo da vinci, etc. - what you have is a list of mostly homosexual men.

but there are heaps of other things that distinguish gay males from straight males.

Gay males are less violent than heterosexual males, on average. If you attend a gay bar or club, the thing you immediately notice is the lack of that sense of menace in the air (that you always get when you have a heap of drunk heterosexual males in the one room). I've never seen a fight in a gay bar or club, ever. I've seen countless physical altercations between heterosexual men in straight venues, of course.

many gay people invest their creative energies (that otherwise might have gone into child rearing if they were heterosexual, perhaps) into community projects, volunteer work, etc. The level of volunteer work in the gay community is actually much higher than the level of volunteer work in the heterosexual community. So gays are more generous with their time than heterosexuals, more willing to contribute directly to their community through volunteer work, apparently. 🙂

Another thing is the close platonic friendships that exist between some heterosexual women and gay men. I think a gay male can offer a female a type and quality of friendship that is totally different than what you'd get from a heterosexual man.

there's lots of other differences I could point out.


 
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Is this saying that specifically gay/lesbian people have something EXTRA to offer that non-gay/lesbian people cannot?

Yes, it is saying exactly that.

Originally posted by: Tommunist
If this is what it means I find that to be very prejudiced.

Do males have something to offer, that females do not?
Do the elderly have something to offer, that youth do not?
Do grandparents have something to offer, that parents do not?

I would say the answer to the above questions is yes. People who have a certain set of experiences, skills, attributes, etc. have something different to offer than people with other experiences, skills, attributes, etc.. I don't think that acknowledging this is 'prejudiced' or bad.

-the male/female comparison is a physical difference so I don't find this one to be a good one.

-the elderly to youth is an amount of experience (attributed to time spent alive).

-grandparents to parents I'm not exactly sure - seems to be experience again so not a direct comparison.

I see what you are trying to get at but from my observations it seems strange to expect a gay person to posess some physical or experience difference that a straight person might not have. there is no physical difference and the experience difference is minimal compared to certain experiences that a straight person might have. you earlier pointed out the fact that alan turing was a homosexual - this partially shows what I am talking about - his being gay didn't cause him to do something that a straight person couldn't have done. I suppose I'll be convinced if you can come up with a situation where being homosexual gave someone some distinct advantage that a straight person couldn't have.


Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Someones sexuality shouldn't dominate their other characteristics and/or abilities.

It's not a matter of sexual identity dominating other characteristics. It's a matter of gay people being different to heterosexual people, and therefore having something different to offer.

what are the overall and underlying differences that you speak of (apart from their personal relationships)?

um, gay people are sort of half way between males and females in terms of their cognitive attributes (this is a generalisation, but it is more or less accurate).

in general, I think gay men are more creative than heterosexual men, hence the really high levels of gays working as composers, musicians, graphic designers, interior designers, fashion designers, architects, etc. Almost all of the greatest composers of the 20th century were gay men, for example. if you look at history's greatest artists - michelangelo, leonardo da vinci, etc. - what you have is a list of mostly homosexual men.

but there are heaps of other things that distinguish gay males from straight males.

Gay males are less violent than heterosexuals, rarely get into physical confrontations, rarely get violent when drunk. If you attend a gay bar or club, the thing you immediately notice is the lack of that sense of violence in the air (that you always get in a heterosexual environment where men are drinking). I've never seen a fight in a gay bar or club, ever. I've seen countless physical altercations between heterosexual men in straight venues, of course.

gays often don't have kids. many gay people invest their energy (that otherwise might have gone into child rearing) into community projects, volunteer work, etc. The level of volunteer work in the gay community is actually much higher than the level of volunteer work in the heterosexual community. In general, gays are more generous with their time than heterosexuals, less selfish, more willing to contribute to their community. 🙂

Another thing is the close platonic friendships that exist between some heterosexual women and gay men. I think a gay male can offer a female a type and quality of friendship that is totally different than what you'd get from a heterosexual man.

there's lots of other differences I could point out.

I think this sort of thinking is dangerous - if I were to go ahead and do a similar comparison between blacks and whites there would be some serious problems. Some of your generalizations seem to hold in an general sense but saying that homosexuals are more generous? perhaps openly gay men seem less violent but i really doubt this of the kind that are in denial...
 
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Is this saying that specifically gay/lesbian people have something EXTRA to offer that non-gay/lesbian people cannot?

Yes, it is saying exactly that.

Originally posted by: Tommunist
If this is what it means I find that to be very prejudiced.

Do males have something to offer, that females do not?
Do the elderly have something to offer, that youth do not?
Do grandparents have something to offer, that parents do not?

I would say the answer to the above questions is yes. People who have a certain set of experiences, skills, attributes, etc. have something different to offer than people with other experiences, skills, attributes, etc.. I don't think that acknowledging this is 'prejudiced' or bad.

-the male/female comparison is a physical difference so I don't find this one to be a good one.

-the elderly to youth is an amount of experience (attributed to time spent alive).

-grandparents to parents I'm not exactly sure - seems to be experience again so not a direct comparison.

I see what you are trying to get at but from my observations it seems strange to expect a gay person to posess some physical or experience difference that a straight person might not have. there is no physical difference and the experience difference is minimal compared to certain experiences that a straight person might have. you earlier pointed out the fact that alan turing was a homosexual - this partially shows what I am talking about - his being gay didn't cause him to do something that a straight person couldn't have done. I suppose I'll be convinced if you can come up with a situation where being homosexual gave someone some distinct advantage that a straight person couldn't have.


Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Someones sexuality shouldn't dominate their other characteristics and/or abilities.

It's not a matter of sexual identity dominating other characteristics. It's a matter of gay people being different to heterosexual people, and therefore having something different to offer.

what are the overall and underlying differences that you speak of (apart from their personal relationships)?

um, gay people are sort of half way between males and females in terms of their cognitive attributes (this is a generalisation, but it is more or less accurate).

in general, I think gay men are more creative than heterosexual men, hence the really high levels of gays working as composers, musicians, graphic designers, interior designers, fashion designers, architects, etc. Almost all of the greatest composers of the 20th century were gay men, for example. if you look at history's greatest artists - michelangelo, leonardo da vinci, etc. - what you have is a list of mostly homosexual men.

but there are heaps of other things that distinguish gay males from straight males.

Gay males are less violent than heterosexuals, rarely get into physical confrontations, rarely get violent when drunk. If you attend a gay bar or club, the thing you immediately notice is the lack of that sense of violence in the air (that you always get in a heterosexual environment where men are drinking). I've never seen a fight in a gay bar or club, ever. I've seen countless physical altercations between heterosexual men in straight venues, of course.

gays often don't have kids. many gay people invest their energy (that otherwise might have gone into child rearing) into community projects, volunteer work, etc. The level of volunteer work in the gay community is actually much higher than the level of volunteer work in the heterosexual community. In general, gays are more generous with their time than heterosexuals, less selfish, more willing to contribute to their community. 🙂

Another thing is the close platonic friendships that exist between some heterosexual women and gay men. I think a gay male can offer a female a type and quality of friendship that is totally different than what you'd get from a heterosexual man.

there's lots of other differences I could point out.

I think this sort of thinking is dangerous - if I were to go ahead and do a similar comparison between blacks and whites there would be some serious problems.

Would there be serious problems if you did a comparison between males and females?

If you're talking about personality attributes, there isn't any difference at all between blacks and whites, that I am aware of.

I think most people would acknowledge there are differences between the genders, however. I see gay people as a third gender, anyway. Quite distinct from heterosexual males and females.


Originally posted by: Tommunist
Some of your generalizations seem to hold in an general sense but saying that homosexuals are more generous?

Yeah, I think on average, gay men are more generous than heterosexual men.

What is generousity, other than the love of your fellow MAN, after all?

Originally posted by: Tommunist
perhaps openly gay men seem less violent but i really doubt this of the kind that are in denial...
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You hear about the occasional gay basher who eventually acknowledges his homosexuality. But most gay bashers are heterosexuals. Heterosexual men are over-whelmingly more violent than gay men, in my opinion. 🙂

Another thing you can learn from gay men, perhaps, is how to enjoy sex without all the bullshit, hypocrisy and lies that you heterosexuals seem to insist go hand in hand with fvcking. 🙂


 
POSTED BY AIDENJM
QUOTE:
Gay males are less violent than heterosexual males, on average. If you attend a gay bar or club, the thing you immediately notice is the lack that sense of menace in the air (that you always get when you have a heap of drunk heterosexual males in the one room). I've never seen a fight in a gay bar or club, ever. I've seen countless physical altercations between heterosexual men in straight venues, of course.
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I am not totally convinced.
multiple examples: My female cousin Stacey (a female\lesbian) used to get me to go with her occasionally to a local gay bar. True, the one thing I liked was the lack of menace like you feel at other clubs where some asshole is just looking for a fight. YET, I saw multiple fights caused by lovers spats and cheating and jealousy. Dont kid yourself.
then one time in highschool there was a janitor named therman (a flaming homosexual). Some of the jackass kids would call him sperman therman. One day a kid said it to his face when all of the sudden he picks up a board and beats the shite out of the kid. It was actually quite funny.
When I was in a Votech coarse for electronics, we had a fellow studen who was gay and his boy friend would drop him off every morning. The student never came to class without a black eye or a beat up face. Come to find out he was a victem of abuse at the hands of the boyfriend.
Back when I was first on aol in 95 a friend of mine would go to the gay chatrooms and harass them. One day he pretended to be a young teenage gay kid looking for a first time. The main responses I remember him getting was "Watch out little brother, a lot of the older guys like to hurt you."
Then there are the countless serial killers with homo tendancies Jhon Wayne Gacey, Jeffery Dahmer etc...Even Charles manson would have guys in the family do homo acts etc...DONT KID YOUR SELF.


 
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Is this saying that specifically gay/lesbian people have something EXTRA to offer that non-gay/lesbian people cannot?

Yes, it is saying exactly that.

Originally posted by: Tommunist
If this is what it means I find that to be very prejudiced.

Do males have something to offer, that females do not?
Do the elderly have something to offer, that youth do not?
Do grandparents have something to offer, that parents do not?

I would say the answer to the above questions is yes. People who have a certain set of experiences, skills, attributes, etc. have something different to offer than people with other experiences, skills, attributes, etc.. I don't think that acknowledging this is 'prejudiced' or bad.

-the male/female comparison is a physical difference so I don't find this one to be a good one.

-the elderly to youth is an amount of experience (attributed to time spent alive).

-grandparents to parents I'm not exactly sure - seems to be experience again so not a direct comparison.

I see what you are trying to get at but from my observations it seems strange to expect a gay person to posess some physical or experience difference that a straight person might not have. there is no physical difference and the experience difference is minimal compared to certain experiences that a straight person might have. you earlier pointed out the fact that alan turing was a homosexual - this partially shows what I am talking about - his being gay didn't cause him to do something that a straight person couldn't have done. I suppose I'll be convinced if you can come up with a situation where being homosexual gave someone some distinct advantage that a straight person couldn't have.


Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Tommunist
Someones sexuality shouldn't dominate their other characteristics and/or abilities.

It's not a matter of sexual identity dominating other characteristics. It's a matter of gay people being different to heterosexual people, and therefore having something different to offer.

what are the overall and underlying differences that you speak of (apart from their personal relationships)?

um, gay people are sort of half way between males and females in terms of their cognitive attributes (this is a generalisation, but it is more or less accurate).

in general, I think gay men are more creative than heterosexual men, hence the really high levels of gays working as composers, musicians, graphic designers, interior designers, fashion designers, architects, etc. Almost all of the greatest composers of the 20th century were gay men, for example. if you look at history's greatest artists - michelangelo, leonardo da vinci, etc. - what you have is a list of mostly homosexual men.

but there are heaps of other things that distinguish gay males from straight males.

Gay males are less violent than heterosexuals, rarely get into physical confrontations, rarely get violent when drunk. If you attend a gay bar or club, the thing you immediately notice is the lack of that sense of violence in the air (that you always get in a heterosexual environment where men are drinking). I've never seen a fight in a gay bar or club, ever. I've seen countless physical altercations between heterosexual men in straight venues, of course.

gays often don't have kids. many gay people invest their energy (that otherwise might have gone into child rearing) into community projects, volunteer work, etc. The level of volunteer work in the gay community is actually much higher than the level of volunteer work in the heterosexual community. In general, gays are more generous with their time than heterosexuals, less selfish, more willing to contribute to their community. 🙂

Another thing is the close platonic friendships that exist between some heterosexual women and gay men. I think a gay male can offer a female a type and quality of friendship that is totally different than what you'd get from a heterosexual man.

there's lots of other differences I could point out.

I think this sort of thinking is dangerous - if I were to go ahead and do a similar comparison between blacks and whites there would be some serious problems.

Would there be serious problems if you did a comparison between males and females?

If you're talking about personality attributes, there isn't any difference at all between blacks and whites, that I am aware of.

I think most people would acknowledge there are differences between the genders, however. I see gay people as a third gender, anyway. Quite distinct from heterosexual males and females.


Originally posted by: Tommunist
Some of your generalizations seem to hold in an general sense but saying that homosexuals are more generous?

Yeah, I think on average, gay men are more generous than heterosexual men.

What is generousity, other than the love of your fellow MAN, after all?

Originally posted by: Tommunist
perhaps openly gay men seem less violent but i really doubt this of the kind that are in denial...

You hear about the occasional gay basher who eventually acknowledges his homosexuality. But most gay bashers are heterosexuals. Heterosexual men are over-whelmingly more violent than gay men, in my opinion. 🙂

Another thing you can learn from gay men, perhaps, is how to enjoy sex without all the bullshit, hypocrisy and lies that you heterosexuals seem to insist go hand in hand with fvcking. 🙂


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i'm feeling too lazy to put in the correct breaks so i'll put my whole response down here:

male to female comparison: apparently there is a problem as that guy at Harvard caught serious flack for it.

diff between blacks and whites: i see as much of a difference here versus gay - mind you i think a large part of the difference is caused by societal pressures/influences.

the generous thing: you are just being silly now 😛

I think the violence thing is also largely caused by society - a homosexual should be capable of just as much violence as anyone else.

and back to a former post you made regarding gays being more creative: if you really want to go down this road you should start listing things that heterosexuals are apparently better at (since there is a difference they should be better at something right?). I just find this line of thinking you are taking to be destructive to goal of acceptance by society in general.

If you can get some real research on the matter of "what gays are better/worse" at I'd be happy to consider it and think critically about it but to make these blanket statements of - "well homosexuals are great at this or that more so than heterosexuals" is pretty prejudiced I think.
 
Why in the hell do they call it Homophobia?

I ain't afraid of no Fairies...

they should call it Homonausea.
 
Originally posted by: MCWAR
POSTED BY AIDANJM
QUOTE:
Gay males are less violent than heterosexual males, on average. If you attend a gay bar or club, the thing you immediately notice is the lack that sense of menace in the air (that you always get when you have a heap of drunk heterosexual males in the one room). I've never seen a fight in a gay bar or club, ever. I've seen countless physical altercations between heterosexual men in straight venues, of course.
---------------------------------------------

I am not totally convinced.
multiple examples: My female cousin Stacey (a female\lesbian) used to get me to go with her occasionally to a local gay bar. True, the one thing I liked was the lack of menace like you feel at other clubs where some asshole is just looking for a fight. YET, I saw multiple fights caused by lovers spats and cheating and jealousy. Dont kid yourself.

I've never seen a physical fight in a gay bar. The worst I've seen is a bitchy or angry verbal exchange. Gay men, on average, express hostility differently than heterosexual men. We are more like women, in that we will tend to express hostility verbally instead of physically, or express hostility by ostentatiously ignoring someone, etc. Lesbian bars can be a bit different.

Originally posted by: MCWAR
then one time in highschool there was a janitor named therman (a flaming homosexual). Some of the jackass kids would call him sperman therman. One day a kid said it to his face when all of the sudden he picks up a board and beats the shite out of the kid. It was actually quite funny.

Well, good on him. But that seems to me to be an unusual occurrence, it is certainly not the norm among gay people. If you ask a bunch of gay men and straight men how many physical fights they have been in over their life, you find the straight men have been in statistically significantly more physical fights than the gay men.

Originally posted by: MCWAR
When I was in a Votech coarse for electronics, we had a fellow studen who was gay and his boy friend would drop him off every morning. The student never came to class without a black eye or a beat up face. Come to find out he was a victem of abuse at the hands of the boyfriend.

Domestic abuse occurs in the gay community, as it does in the straight community. I don't think anyone has done a head to head comparison of rates of abuse in the respective communities, tho.

Originally posted by: MCWAR
Back when I was first on aol in 95 a friend of mine would go to the gay chatrooms and harass them. One day he pretended to be a young teenage gay kid looking for a first time. The main responses I remember him getting was "Watch out little brother, a lot of the older guys like to hurt you."

Gay teenagers are vulnerable to pedophiles. They can't come out at school, they don't get to develop normal boyfriend/ girlfriend relationships at school like the other kids, and they are often not out to their parents, so they are emotionally isolated and often lonely, and therefore are very vulnerable to adult sexual predators who pick up on their loneliness and isolation. However in my experience most gay men are supportive of gay youth, and are willing to be mentors and supporters of gay kids. Most gay men are not sexual predators. I don't see gay men as being more likely to be sexual predators than heterosexual men.

Originally posted by: MCWAR
Then there are the countless serial killers with homo tendancies Jhon Wayne Gacey, Jeffery Dahmer etc...Even Charles manson would have guys in the family do homo acts etc...DONT KID YOUR SELF.

There are not "countless" homosexual serial killers. There is a smallish number of very well-known cases of homosexual serial killers. (And an even smaller number of "gay" serial killers). However the number of heterosexual serial killers far outweighs the number of homosexual serial killers. Also, consider sexual predators in general. I believe a woman is raped in the US every 18 seconds... certainly heterosexual men have the monopoly on crimes of sexual violence such as rape.

You've provided a few examples of exceptional cases - pedophilia, serial killing, domestic violence. I'm not talking about the exceptional cases, I'm talking about the behavior of gay men, on average, compared to the behavior of heterosexual men, on average. There is no doubt in my mind that gay men are less likely to express hostility or anger through violence than are heterosexual men. I'm not saying there are no gay men who express anger and hostility through violence, however I think the proportion of gay men who behave in this way is lower than the proportion of heterosexual men (who behave in that way). I think it could be partly biological, and partly cultural - but gay men are more inclined to express hostility and anger verbally than physically, imo.

You see a similar difference between women and men. In general, women are more likely to express hostility verbally, than physically, than are men. If you look at the studies of e.g., bullying in the school yard, whereas the boy bullies will use physical confrontations, hitting or bashing the victim, etc., the girls will be more likely to use "bitchy" tactics like ignoring the victim, gossiping about the victim behind their back, excluding the victim from activities, etc.


 
Originally posted by: Tommunist
male to female comparison: apparently there is a problem as that guy at Harvard caught serious flack for it.

All psychologists would acknowledge the existence of average differences between men and women on a range of tasks. The differences are not necessarily huge, but average differences between men and women definately exist:

"Differences between men and women in cognitive pattern are now well
established. On average, men outperform women on a variety of spatial
tasks, with the largest difference occurring on tests of spatial
rotation and manipulation, where an object must be identified in an
altered orientation, or after certain imaginary manipulations such as
folding. Men also excel at tests of mathematical reasoning, with the
differences between sexes especially marked at the higher end of the
distribution. Women, in contrast are generally better able to recall
the spatial layout of an array of objects, to scan perceptual arrays
quickly to find matching objects, and to recall verbal material,
whether word lists or meaningful paragraphs.

Some of these differences are found early in development and last
throughout the life span. The sex differences in verbal memory and in
spatial orientation and math reasoning have been found across
cultures. Most researchers in this field attribute the differences to
our long evolutionary history as hunter-gatherers, in which the
division of labour between men and women was quite marked. Men more
often travelled farther from the home base during hunting and
scavenging, whereas women gathered food nearer home. In parallel with
nonhuman studies, this would tend to select for different navigational
strategies, with men, for example, relying more on geometric cues, and
women more on landmark cues."

http://www.sfu.ca/~dkimura/articles/constraints.htm

Originally posted by: Tommunist
diff between blacks and whites: i see as much of a difference here versus gay - mind you i think a large part of the difference is caused by societal pressures/influences.

What's interesting about the differneces between men and women on various tasks is that they exist cross-culturally, suggesting they could be biologically mediated.

Originally posted by: Tommunist
the generous thing: you are just being silly now 😛

I could give a serious, science-backed explanation of why gay males are more likely to be friendly towards other men than heterosexual guys are, tho.

Originally posted by: Tommunist
I think the violence thing is also largely caused by society - a homosexual should be capable of just as much violence as anyone else.

Should? We are talking about what is, not what "should" be.

Also, I am not saying gay men don't express anger or hiostility, I'm saying they express it in different ways than heterosexual men do. I think gay men are more likely to express their hostility verbally than heterosexual men. (I think heterosexual men are more likely to express hostility physically, than are gay men.)

Are women as violent as men? Should women be capable of just as much violence as men? In fact, studies indicate women do express anger and hostility in less physical ways than do men (they are less likely to resort to physical violence). I am saying I observe a similar effect with gay men. I'd guess gay men are in-between women, and heterosexual men, in terms of their tendency to resort to physical violence as a way of expressing frustration, anger, hostility. Of course, I am talking averages here, and their are always exceptions to the general rule. Of course their are women and gay men who employ physical violence, and of course their are many heterosexual men who eshew violence altogether.

Originally posted by: Tommunist
and back to a former post you made regarding gays being more creative: if you really want to go down this road you should start listing things that heterosexuals are apparently better at (since there is a difference they should be better at something right?). I just find this line of thinking you are taking to be destructive to goal of acceptance by society in general.

Why is it destructive to acceptance to point out that gay people are different than straight people? I am not arguing for different treatment, I think all people, gay, straight, male, female, should be treated equally before the law. However this topic was about seeing gay people as having something valuable and distinct or unique to contribute to society. I am simply pointing out that gay people do seem to bring some abilities to the table, which everyone can benefit from.

I think there are many things that heterosexual men are better at. E.g., fighting, making war, expressing beligerance and aggression, reproducing, over-populating the planet, religious hypocrisy, sexual hypocrisy, sports, football, building things, torturing people and animals, dominating and subjugating women, etc. The list goes on. 🙂

Originally posted by: Tommunist
If you can get some real research on the matter of "what gays are better/worse" at I'd be happy to consider it and think critically about it but to make these blanket statements of - "well homosexuals are great at this or that more so than heterosexuals" is pretty prejudiced I think.

Prejudicd, or simply acknowledging the facts?

All I am saying is that gay men are different to heterosexual men on average, and that the differences might prove to be an advantage under certain circumstances or when engaged in certain endeavors.

There is actually a growing body of evidence on the cognitive differences between gays and heterosexuals.

These differences are small, and they are AVERAGE differences, but they are statistically significant:

Gay men read maps like women
Gay men employ the same strategies for navigating as women - using landmarks to find their way around - a new study suggests. But they also use the strategies typically used by straight men, such as using compass directions and distances. In contrast, gay women read maps just like straight women, reveals the study of 80 heterosexual and homosexual men and women. "Gay men adopt male and female strategies. Therefore their brains are a sexual mosaic," explains Qazi Rahman, a psychobiologist who led the study at the University of East London, UK. "It's not simply that lesbians have men's brains and gay men have women's brains." The stereotype that women are relatively poor map readers is borne out by a reasonable bulk of scientific literature, notes Rahman. "Men, particularly, excel at spatial navigation." The new study might help researchers understand how cognitive differences and sexual orientation develop in the womb, he says.

There's heaps of other differences, which I don't have time to google for right now:
-gay boys, when they are kids, are MUCH less likely to engage in "rough and tumble" play than are boys who later become heterosexual.
-gay men have better verbal fluency and verbal IQs than heterosexual men; also, gay men speak more than heterosexual men (say more words in a day)
-heterosexual men are better at throwing objects to a target than are gay men
-there are differences in voice/ speaking characteristics between gay and heterosexual males (differences in pronounciation)
-gay men are slightly more likely to be left-handed

Researchers talk about a sex "cross-shift" in the cognitive attributes of gay males, by which they mean gay male's have cognitive attributes that are slightly feminized, or part-way between males and females.









 
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