Doesn't it suck when your RA is hitting on the girl you like (and winning)?

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her209

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Originally posted by: BowlingNut
reply heres an equally fun situation
one the RAs on my floor is extremely fine. i've been flirting with her for awhile, and i take her to this party. we have a few drinks, and she hooks up with my best friend.
yeah....

I'd kill him and st@b her.
 

her209

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Originally posted by: NozlerAtClemson
I guess I need to state this: All posts are nice to read except those that suggest violence.

My post was not meant to be taken literally.
 

"I figured that but I still am not amused to read it"

It's nice to read a real man's words. I was tired of the boys who thought that it was funny! It is not the least bit funny, not to speak of appropriate. If you keep standing up like this, you'll get a much better woman and even more physically attractive woman than the dorm lady. ;)
 

"Then you will lose. I assure you of that."

No, then you lose. There are beautiful women like myself who appreciate true gentlemen. I assure you that if you're a guy, I would not give you a second of attention. And the other guy gets my attention. Disrespect with lame joke is not acceptable.
 

her209

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Originally posted by: luvly
"Then you will lose. I assure you of that."

No, then you lose. There are beautiful women like myself who appreciate true gentlemen. I assure you that if you're a guy, I would not give you a second of attention. And the other guy gets my attention. Disrespect with lame joke is not acceptable.

May I ask what your definition of a "true gentleman" is?
 

zippy

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Originally posted by: NozlerAtClemson
That seems to be coming true. I am amazed by women that like guys that are jerks, especially when they are jerks to them.
I am too. However, I finally found one that has tried that before (bad experiences) and is smart enough not to like guys like that any more... :)
 

Storm

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Originally posted by: NozlerAtClemson
I know she likes me b/c she has said it. We have had a long converstation about this. ***This conversation was before she ever met the RA, this is our second RA this semester.*** Sex is not an issue. I have had sex, I enjoy sex but that is not what I am after (SSRIs calm those cravings). She is waiting for marriage so that takes sex out of the equation. The RA is methadist, which is a hell of a lot closer to her's than mine. She doesn't try to convert me but she does answer any questions I have about her religon and I don't try to convert her. I believe a lot of people need religon but it is not for me.

luvly: I think I am somewhere between like and love. I have not been able to spend enough time with her to qualify for I think love is. I will not lie to her about what I believe. If I did go to mass with her, she would believe that I have converted b/c she knows that I would rather shoot myself in the foot than listen to religon for an hour but I can't do that to her.

SuperTool: I know it won't work. I want her to be happy but I don't like to watch her and the RA be happy right in front of me.

Heres my two cents. Dont go after this gal. With the complications such as religion and you own admission that you're in between like and love I dont think its going to happen. I think you're better off finding someone with your common interests and views (including religion). If and when you find that special lady you'll be able to better gauge between like and love. As for this gal that digs the RA she sounds like a really good friend, I suggest you stick with that friendship. Even if the RA ends up being her future bf are you gonna disown her as a friend? You're stupid if you do.
 

ed21x

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Originally posted by: luvly
"Then you will lose. I assure you of that."

No, then you lose. There are beautiful women like myself who appreciate true gentlemen. I assure you that if you're a guy, I would not give you a second of attention. And the other guy gets my attention. Disrespect with lame joke is not acceptable.

you have a very high opinion of yourself.
 

fluxquantum

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bummer. look at it this way. there are tons more females at your school. don't let one get ya down.
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: Hoober
Originally posted by: SuperTool
Don't bother. If she is devout Catholic and you are an atheist, it's not going to work.

Most good girls just need a little introduction.

This is true. Trust me. ;)

 

Piano Man

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Dude she's catholic. She may seem to have a tough exterior of morals, but like all good catholics, she will be powerless against temptation. Christ, look at their history! :D
 

kt

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Originally posted by: NozlerAtClemson
Short story:
There is a girl that lives on my floor (no I am not a freshman, I am junior and I like the honor's dorms) that is a perfect match for me. We both really like each other but she is cathlic (sp?) and I am nontheist. So she won't consider going out b/c it could never lead to marriage (she thinks this far ahead). Last night my RA hits on her and she responses possitivly. I just needed to vent. If there any comments or ideas, please post.

What's a nontheist? Or do you mean atheist? And it's "Catholic". So, is your RA Catholic or something? You can always convert.
 

rgwalt

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RA's shouldn't date students on their floor. It is a conflict of interest.

Just my 2 cents...

Ryan
 

PsychoAndy

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Originally posted by: NozlerAtClemson
I guess I need to state this: All posts are nice to read except those that suggest violence.

Then skip .5 of my previous post, since you can't take a joke. At least you get female RA's.