Doesn't it suck when.... [girl problem]

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BCYL

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<< You could try out an idea I had....start dting men, but just don't put out. Think about it! You'd get free dinner, drinks, get to do guy things, and if he goes to kiss you, just say "sorry...I'm just not ready for that yet."


It could work :)
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Ewwww.... that's so disgusting.... the thought of it makes me shiver.. :eek:
 

BatmanNate

Lifer
Jul 12, 2000
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<< You could try out an idea I had....start dting men, but just don't put out. Think about it! You'd get free dinner, drinks, get to do guy things, and if he goes to kiss you, just say "sorry...I'm just not ready for that yet."


It could work :)
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LMAO


That's friggin hilarious.
 

amnesiac

Lifer
Oct 13, 1999
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<< I used to mean the world to her.... now she's found someone so much better after we kinda broke up. >>



That's the kind of attitude that will keep you hurting. If you always think there's someone better for your girl, you'll never hold onto them.

I made some mistakes and got dumped by my first g/f, and she's totally in love with her new b/f, but I know I'm still way better than he could ever be in every way.

But then again, I'm perfect, so I have a rather skewed frame of reference...
 

Orsorum

Lifer
Dec 26, 2001
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<< I used to mean the world to her.... now she's found someone so much better after we kinda broke up. >>



I dated a girl for a year or so, we were extremely close... she started dating a guy a week and a half after we broke up... she became engaged to him within a month or so. I was really tempted to be hurt, but then I realized something, and it's something you should realize, too...

She's the problem, not you. My gf had major issues, that eventually made this new guy break up with her. Bets are, this new guy'll do the same thing for her.

 

NikPreviousAcct

No Lifer
Aug 15, 2000
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<< .....After breaking up, the girl that you've fallen in love with doesn't love you anymore and falls extremly in love with the next guy?


I've had this happen to me just recently. I used to mean the world to her.... now she's found someone so much better after we kinda broke up. And she's soo in love with him.


GRRRRR
I hate girls.

I need to move on :(
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There's no better way of showing how deep and passionate your relationship was and how much it meant to her than for her to quickly hook up with someone else, huh. Well, it's something that you simply have to deal with. If you truely love her, all you can do is stand back and let her do her thing. Yeah it hurts, but that might be part of her plan. To hurt you -or see how much you still care by your reaction to her dating someone else. And, don't worry about it. She's not in love with the other guy. Love takes time to develop. It's enfatuation at best. :)

nik
 

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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Nik: I was going to say pretty much the same thing. Love is a pretty deep emotion, and it doesn't come easily. However, the "appearance" of love, the infatuation and exhilaration, does.

When you get older, you learn to see through people like this.. (well, hopefully, anyway..)
 

PowerEngineer

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Oct 22, 2001
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<< .....After breaking up, the girl that you've fallen in love with doesn't love you anymore and falls extremly in love with the next guy?


I've had this happen to me just recently. I used to mean the world to her.... now she's found someone so much better after we kinda broke up. And she's soo in love with him.


GRRRRR
I hate girls.

I need to move on :(
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And the guy before you probably felt the same way too! :Q
 

NikPreviousAcct

No Lifer
Aug 15, 2000
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<<

<< .....After breaking up, the girl that you've fallen in love with doesn't love you anymore and falls extremly in love with the next guy?


I've had this happen to me just recently. I used to mean the world to her.... now she's found someone so much better after we kinda broke up. And she's soo in love with him.


GRRRRR
I hate girls.

I need to move on :(
>>



And the guy before you probably felt the same way too! :Q
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Good point. Going through things like this are practically a right-of-passage in a man's life. You either stumble through it time and time again, or you learn, see it coming, and know what to do with yourself when (not if) it happens. :) Everybody goes through it, UberDave; it's perfectly natural -although it shouldn't be. But life just isn't fair, and you've got to make the best of it. :) But don't do the same thing she did to you... show her that your relationship meant something.

nik
 

gtsukada

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Mar 7, 2001
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yeah i know what you mean, the best thing to do is not get hung up on it though. i used to mope around and not go out and it did nothing for me. i suggest you go out and have a good time, made me realize what i was missing
 

Alex

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Oct 26, 1999
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<< This just happened to me too.... pretty devastating but it happens... >>



i just hooked up with the next girl i could as fast as possible... in restrospect it was a desperate moove and i still don't have her name :p (this was a yar and a half ago) but at the time it makes ya feel a lot better...
 

Pastfinder

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Jul 2, 2000
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Eh well, sh!t happens.







Girls are not evil. Trust me on that, I go to UNC-CH. The ratio is 60 to 40

<---Happy at UNC-CH will well over 10,000 hot women :D
 

lawaris

Banned
Jun 26, 2001
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<< .....After breaking up, the girl that you've fallen in love with doesn't love you anymore and falls extremly in love with the next guy?


I've had this happen to me just recently. I used to mean the world to her.... now she's found someone so much better after we kinda broke up. And she's soo in love with him.


GRRRRR
I hate girls.

I need to move on :(
>>



The world is a small place !!!

this did not x-actly happen to me ....but my ex- told me yesterday that she is getting married!! : when I was actually thinking of a wonder / magis that's gonna bring us back together!!!

Life sucks man .........................well.........................sometimes