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Does the "act" of homosexuality/lesbianism bother you?

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Two men kissing bothers me but a little. Anal sex, however, I do find repulsive, even if it's between two women.
 
I think the reason some people feel this way is because they are not attracted to men. When I see a couple who I am really not attracted to, a really ugly couple kissing, I find it a little bit off putting, I imagine this is why some people don't like seeing gay couples kissing, because they are not attracted to them even remotely.
 
not so much the act, actually lesbians irritate me far more, gay men im fine with its women i cant stand..
why? because for example you are hitting on a girl you think is hot and then she says something like "im a lesbian"... and im just thinking, yea sure maybe u dont like men but u havent tried me yet, and shes just too close minded to think that maybe she just hasnt met the right guys!!!
 
Appledrop said:
not so much the act, actually lesbians irritate me far more, gay men im fine with its women i cant stand..
why? because for example you are hitting on a girl you think is hot and then she says something like "im a lesbian"... and im just thinking, yea sure maybe u dont like men but u havent tried me yet, and shes just too close minded to think that maybe she just hasnt met the right guys!!!
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So if a guy hits on you and you reply you aren't gay, maybe you just haven't found the right man?

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Smoblikat said:
Actually its the opposite of natural. I dont mind watching two hot lezbos going at it, but I might throw up if I ever see two guys kiss.
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nat·u·ral/ˈnaCHərəl/
Adjective:
Existing in or caused by nature; not made or caused by humankind.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_displaying_homosexual_behavior

Ergo, it's natural for animals (which we are) to have homosexual sex and even partnerships. Our biological relatives in the primate family have documented homosexual, and bisexual, individuals (source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexual_behavior_in_animals#Bonobo_and_other_apes). Also, it was common in ancient human societies to have homosexual sex. So what exactly is "the opposite of natural" about it?
 
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My neighbors. One lady maybe 300+ #s.
The guy, skinny 150# at best.
Talk about repulsive thoughts of two doing it.
But actually I never think that way in the first place.
Not until this post forced me to make an off the cuff comparison.
Anyone that imagines other people doing it, regardless, are very...well...strange indeed.
Thats like looking at the neighbors male dog and then entertaining the thought of doing it with the dog. Then feeling repulsed by your own repulsive thoughts.
I guess it takes all kinds.
But if the thought of two guys doing it doesn't settle in your mind. Keep up that thought process. Maybe eventually you'll imagine two that favorability fit your curiosity.
Think of it as your quest..... 😀
 
we'll cover this again:

I don't want to see two fat people kiss, cuddle or hump in public.
I don't want to see two hot people kiss, cuddle or hump in public.
I don't want to see two ugly people kiss, cuddle or hump in public.
I don't want to see two gay people kiss, cuddle or hump in public.


The problem is that so many gay people want to bring their private lives into my private life. Leave your private lives in your house and I don't care. Take it into public and I do care.
 
in asian countries and the middle east, dudes hold hands with other dudes and put their arms across each others shoulders all the time. its a sign of friendship, nothing homo. the western media has warped everyone's mind about what is friendly and what is ghey
 
I was walking around near work one day during lunch... and there were these two cute 18-20ish girls holding hands walking down the street. They stopped a few feet in front of me and locked lips. Best day of my life.... ever.
 
Im in the same boat. I think its because straight guys are not attracted to men so seeing them kiss is a bit icky. But we dont care if they do as we want freedom for all.
 
AMCRambler said:
As long as they're not trying to do it to my butt. They can do whatever they want and I dont even want to know about it.
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/this

whatever someone does in the bedroom (long as legal, not like fucking kids) has nothing to do with me. so i don't care
 
Arkitech said:
First off let me first state that I do not hate anyone who is gay. I can't stress that enough, I won't try to qualify that by saying I have a best friend or a family member who is gay. But I honestly do not have any ill feelings towards any person who is gay. However I do find the idea of 2 men kissing or anything else to be repulsive. (oddly enough I don't feel that way about 2 women doing the same, that's probably incredibly wrong on my part) But the real point of this post is that if a person feels repulsed by gay lifestyles (for lack of a better term) does that make them a bigot or a hateful person?
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It doesn't make you a bad person. It makes you a product of your upbringing. Now if you want to murder, hurt, discriminate, or do other bad things to someone simply because they are not like you (and their lifestyle is not hurting you in any way) then your a bigot and hateful person.

I don't see the attraction of gay sex and I find it pretty disgusting. However, I want them to have all the same rights I do.

To be fair, I also don't see the attraction to drinking miller light and calling people "bro", but I also don't wish them any ill will.
 
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I find the act of gay sex to be very troubling... uncomfortable, even. It just hurts, y'know? To think that two men are having intercourse is painful to think about, frankly.

If only there was a way to slowly desensitize myself to the act.
 
Two whale-level-fatties kissing is more repulsive to me than two fit dudes having anal. Meh, I kissed my gay roommate on his birthday during college.

pelov said:
I find the act of gay sex to be very troubling... uncomfortable, even. It just hurts, y'know? To think that two men are having intercourse is painful to think about, frankly.

If only there was a way to slowly desensitize myself to the act.
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Lube, dude. Lots and lots of lube.
 
I don't have a problem with people's gender choices at all.

What I do have a problem with is them advertising it and making sure the entire world knows (parades etc).
 
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