does it make me a bad person if *my conscience is now clear*

gigapet

Lifer
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I continue seeing and sleeping with a girl I know i dont want a relationship with and I have communicated that I don't want anything serious, although I know that she is really into and it is what she wants.

Should I feel guilty even though I've been honest and have not lead her on.

EDIT

poll results

yes
9 votes 17.31 (%)
no
17 votes 32.69 (%)
STFU GIGAPET YOUR STUPID AND YOUR HAND DOESNT WANT A RELATIONSHIP IDIOT!
26 votes 50.00 (%)


My conscience is now clear
 

sixone

Lifer
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Helping her delude herself is no different than lying to her. Giving her false hope is the same as leading her on.

If you want a whore, pay for one.



 

Juice Box

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Originally posted by: gigapet
I continue seeing and sleeping with a girl I know i dont want a relationship with and I have communicated that I don't want anything serious, although I know that she is really into and it is what she wants.

Should I feel guilty even though I've been honest and have not lead her on.

haha in all seriousness im going thru the same thing right now, but we both know its just a summer thing so theres to be no attachment involved....if its someone you care about meaning you dont want to hurt her you might want to talk to her about it more
 
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even though you are being honest, it still is going to be hurtful to her. the fact that you know this and continue anyways means that, yeah, its probably bad
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: Juice Box
Originally posted by: gigapet
I continue seeing and sleeping with a girl I know i dont want a relationship with and I have communicated that I don't want anything serious, although I know that she is really into and it is what she wants.

Should I feel guilty even though I've been honest and have not lead her on.

haha in all seriousness im going thru the same thing right now, but we both know its just a summer thing so theres to be no attachment involved....if its someone you care about meaning you dont want to hurt her you might want to talk to her about it more

i really have no attatchment to this girl at all at this pioint. just another toy in the playchest.
 

Juice Box

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Nov 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Juice Box
Originally posted by: gigapet
I continue seeing and sleeping with a girl I know i dont want a relationship with and I have communicated that I don't want anything serious, although I know that she is really into and it is what she wants.

Should I feel guilty even though I've been honest and have not lead her on.

haha in all seriousness im going thru the same thing right now, but we both know its just a summer thing so theres to be no attachment involved....if its someone you care about meaning you dont want to hurt her you might want to talk to her about it more

i really have no attatchment to this girl at all at this pioint. just another toy in the playchest.

well what Im asking is if you would feel bad if you did lead her on and ended up hurting her? If not...go right ahead...if you are afraid youl hurt her you might want to talk to her about it. Just be like 'where do you think/want this to be going?
 

meltdown75

Lifer
Nov 17, 2004
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posting that you are getting some is immediate and ultimate self-pwnage. always my favourite.

btw, shens, and you're still the man now, dog.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: Juice Box
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Juice Box
Originally posted by: gigapet
I continue seeing and sleeping with a girl I know i dont want a relationship with and I have communicated that I don't want anything serious, although I know that she is really into and it is what she wants.

Should I feel guilty even though I've been honest and have not lead her on.

haha in all seriousness im going thru the same thing right now, but we both know its just a summer thing so theres to be no attachment involved....if its someone you care about meaning you dont want to hurt her you might want to talk to her about it more

i really have no attatchment to this girl at all at this pioint. just another toy in the playchest.

well what Im asking is if you would feel bad if you did lead her on and ended up hurting her? If not...go right ahead...if you are afraid youl hurt her you might want to talk to her about it. Just be like 'where do you think/want this to be going?

I know what she wants we had a conversation at dinner the other night.....

her: "I am tired of the whole dating scene, I want to settle down again"

me: "haha, good luck. I don't think I will be settling any time soon."


Maybe she thinks she can change me or somehting?
 

Kelemvor

Lifer
May 23, 2002
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If both of you just want the sex, then whatever floats your boat. But just make sur eyou aren't leading her on...
 

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Pepsei
pics of the said vagina container.

dont worry your not missing out on much. shes nothing to write home about.

So, in other words, you're fvcking an ugly/fat girl because you can't do any better at the moment?
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Pepsei
pics of the said vagina container.

dont worry your not missing out on much. shes nothing to write home about.

So, in other words, you're fvcking an ugly/fat girl because you can't do any better at the moment?

pretty much

no in seriousness she could lose about 10 pounds. And she isnt ugly just not my type. But she got the biggg bewbbbs 36D!
 

lancestorm

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Oct 7, 2003
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Pepsei
pics of the said vagina container.

dont worry your not missing out on much. shes nothing to write home about.

So, in other words, you're fvcking an ugly/fat girl because you can't do any better at the moment?

pretty much

no in seriousness she could lose about 10 pounds. And she isnt ugly just not my type. But she got the biggg bewbbbs 36D!

you are an ass... and your avatar makes me want to punch you in the face.
 

733SHiFTY

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Jun 22, 2005
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Originally posted by: gigapet
I know what she wants we had a conversation at dinner the other night.....

her: "I am tired of the whole dating scene, I want to settle down again"

me: "haha, good luck. I don't think I will be settling any time soon."


Maybe she thinks she can change me or somehting?

look man, regardless of wether or not you feel like a db for leading the girl on, the amount of greif that she will give you is DEFINETLY not worth it. On the other hand, if she doesnt give you any greif, than she probably gets around.

(speaking from experience)
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: lancestorm
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Pepsei
pics of the said vagina container.

dont worry your not missing out on much. shes nothing to write home about.

So, in other words, you're fvcking an ugly/fat girl because you can't do any better at the moment?

pretty much

no in seriousness she could lose about 10 pounds. And she isnt ugly just not my type. But she got the biggg bewbbbs 36D!

you are an ass... and your avatar makes me want to punch you in the face.

excellent. my work here is done.