I understand how and why clutches wear; so why is it that the dual clutch automatic transmissions have "lifetime" clutch packs? According to VW my clutches should never need replaced at any point in the cars lifetime and as far as I know the similar transmissions have the same idea. What is different about these vs a standard manual transmission clutch?
Not really much of a difference in the clutch itself. Lots of manual transmissions will run for a decade before the clutch needs to be replaced, and sometimes it never needs to be replaced throughout the life of the car. As long as you're at least
trying to match rpm when shifting, a manual clutch will last a long time. The bulk of the wear is done when starting the vehicle from a stand still, driving like a retard (resting your foot on the clutch even when you're not using it), and "power shifting" where you keep giving it gas while shifting instead of letting the rpm drop while shifting.
Clutches in an automatic transmission wear out a lot faster because the transmission will "power shift" every time. If you floor it and the thing is revving up to 6k then dropping to 4 while your foot is still hamming the gas, that right there was a power shift and it just put a lot of wear on the transmission. Even when you're just lightly touching the pedals, you're still touching the gas while it's shifting. That's why this thread exists; I want to know if low speed low power gear hunting will destroy the transmission or if the wear is negligible.
Your dual clutch system is more like a rev-matched manual. Two gears are always engaged and it switches from one to the other. There's no synchro time or synchro grinding. Your car will shift in 10 miliseconds and it has continuous power, but mine has a looooong upshift time and it's stressing the clutches that whole time.