NJ is super crappy along the turnpike in the Newark/Elizabeth/Jersey City area, especially where the oil refineries are. unfortunately, that's the only part of the state that 99% of out-of-towners ever see, given that their only time spent in the state is driving down the I95 corridor or in a cab going from Newark airport to NYC.
outside of that area, and Camden/Trenton/Atlantic City, most of the state is pretty nice. it varies widely from urban areas like Hoboken/Jersey City to farm country in central/southern Jersey.
NJ tap water tastes like grandma's squirt
It's not anywhere near that simple. That's equivalent to saying you would always be better off eating at the cheapest restaurant. I've lived in quite a few states that were cheaper than NJ, i.e. Indiana, Maryland, Rhode Island. I wouldn't trade NJ for any of them. You can live cheaper in just about any southern state... but then you would have to live in a southern state. There are states I would trade New Jersey for, but not surprisingly the cost of living is high in all of them.
