I understand what you are saying, but I have to ask you, what are you doing in an off-topic forum then? They are ALL the same, every thread, not just YAGT, and not just here but the across the entire web, across every thread, in every off-topic forum that has ever been created, all the way back to the BBSes (like Roadkill Cafe) in the 80's, and party phones before that. This is the human experiance. We are all individuals, with individual experiances, just like everyone else.
The only reason to hang out here, is in the hope, however small, that SOMEONE out there will listen and not make as big a flub of it as you did, and maybe, just maybe, in doing so perhaps make the hell you went though have a little meaning.
Either that, or to get a few cheap laughts, and kill a few unproductice hours. Really it's a toss up.