That's not what Jaskalas is saying at all. bozack, you simply don't seem to understand the concept of true friendship or of community. There are any number of folks I could call on for help if I really needed it. In turn, I have been there for many of them when they needed some assistance.
For instance, before I was married and it was just me and I was moving from one apartment to another, along with other folks, eight of my buddies with pick-up trucks showed up. Eight! It was impressive even to me seeing them lined up down the long lane to my place. To have a friend you simply need to be a friend.
I happen to like people.
Also, I have always "gotten involved" and come to the assistance of anyone I've come across looking like they could use a helping hand. The way I'm wired, I simply couldn't not.
In fact, it's funny but now, in this age of cell phones, I've finally learned that I needn't get out of my car when I see someone broken down on the side of the road because they've already called for assistance. I roll down my window and ask anyway. Why the fusk not? I don't even begin to understand all those who don't.