What I look for in a post is whether it contains ideas and insights I haven't thought of that strike a cord. Such a post can broaden my understanding and it has happened countless times to me on this forum. One of the key insights that came to me elsewhere was the result of a search for proof that good exists.
This search lead to the death of my core sacred beliefs. This paved the way for new thoughts and insights I could not have had in any other way.
One of the features of the loss of certainty, no tile above, no place below to place my foot, something that Zen opened my eyes to as an apt analogy of where I wound up, was that the loss of all of my sacred beliefs meant also the loss of all my sacred rules.
I don't give a fig if someone's post is long, if the spelling and grammar are correct, if it contains many or no paragraphs, and all the other horse shit I have seen on this forum like Capital letters used to drive people nuts. They called it screaming. People are funny and amazing, including amazingly superficial. I watched Laura Ingraham express the fact that she was pissed at the job Republicans had done in failing to win the Georgia senate race:
After Fox News declared Raphael Warnock the winner in Tuesday's Senate runoff, host Laura Ingraham went on a diatribe against Senate Republicans.
www.sfgate.com
What an amazingly self important clown, like the dead should roll over in their graves because she had a bad hair day.
"My life is too important and my time too limited to waste it on this or that kind of post as I waste my live away clinging to my ten thousand pounds of cabbage."
A king once sent his son to study with a Sufi where the son of a beggar and a beggar himself was also sent. In no time at all the son of the beggar had far outpaced the King's son on The Way. The King demanded an explanation from the Teacher. He answered, "He has a lot farther to travel than the beggar's son." Dump the cabbage if you can.