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do you usually call your chick if she gets mad?

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Woman sounds unbalanced...

Believe it or not...my wife and I have never had a fight or even a heated disagreement (married 5.5 years). We are both pretty flexible people and I think we have realistic expectations of one another so things have gone great.

 
Man this just happened with me and my girl today. Waited a couple hours, no luck. Probably try again tomorrow. Came close to saying the F word multiple times too.

GL to you OP :beer:

Damn women, they drive you fking nuts!
 
Let her off. Dont' call her, wait till she calls you. Explain that she musn't get all stressy like that for no reason again. Sure you did something wrong, but screaming and crying about it is just a waste of your (and her) time. She could have got her point across by talking to you like a human. Tell her to stop acting like some spoilt brat and to treat you properly. You don't shout and get abusive when you're p!ssed, do you?

Having a girlfriend is very much like bringing up a child: you've got to teach her what is and what isn't acceptable. If you let her get away with sh!t she'll do it more and increasingly intensly. Stand firm, and don't take BS.
 
Wow! it seems you are all kinda clueless about girls/women.

Lemme say, that what YOU think is the best thing to do, is not necessarily the best way to go about handling the situation.

You all said, "wait" then call, etc, but let me give you a little hint: honestly, that makes it worse, most of the time.

Personally, if i got into a fight with s/o, even if he thought the whole thing was stupid, its better for the guy to approach the girl with even just a call, kiss, hug... Not even to say "i am sorry for _____" but just let her know that you are aware that something made her upset.

That really does make all the difference. Especially if you dont think the whole thing is a big issue, you will really make her feel good by not waiting to call her or let her know that her feeling mean something to you! 🙂
 
Originally posted by: loic2003
Let her off. Dont' call her, wait till she calls you. Explain that she musn't get all stressy like that for no reason again. Sure you did something wrong, but screaming and crying about it is just a waste of your (and her) time. She could have got her point across by talking to you like a human. Tell her to stop acting like some spoilt brat and to treat you properly. You don't shout and get abusive when you're p!ssed, do you?

Having a girlfriend is very much like bringing up a child: you've got to teach her what is and what isn't acceptable. If you let her get away with sh!t she'll do it more and increasingly intensly. Stand firm, and don't take BS.
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pick your fights.

the b/f and I hardly ever fight. But it we have a little spat... one of us will usually just say that it is not worth fighting over, even if we believe we are right. It is just not worth it. One of us always gives in just to keep the peace unless it is really important. In which case we yell, scream and curse for 10 minutes or so, then laugh about it and make up.

if it is gonna be a power struggle for every little thing, you will never get along.

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