"Do You Think She's Pretty?" - How Do You Respond?!

Kenji4861

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I swear, every girl my gf thinks is pretty, she'll ask "do you think she's pretty?"

This is what happens to me
If I say "Nah, she's not."
she says "don't lie. Why can't you tell me the truth... blah blah"
and ends up becoming an argument

If I say "yea, she's pretty"
it ends up being an argument

If I say "she's ok, but compared to you... I choose u anytime"
she says "...you don't have to try to make me feel better, I know when u say "ok" it means ur attracted.. blah blah"
it ends up becoming an argument.

SO.. WHAT IS YOUR ESCAPE ROUTE?!
 

gopunk

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ask her why she doesn't believe you... "i trust in you, why can't you trust in me?"
 

zzzz

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Ask her whether she is interested in having a threesome with the girl in question.
 

Kenji4861

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Originally posted by: gopunk
ask her why she doesn't believe you... "i trust in you, why can't you trust in me?"

That's exactly what the arguments about...
for ( ; ; )
{"why not trust me?" "I know u think she's pretty".. "I don't..." "it's okay, u can tell me"}
 

aphex

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Originally posted by: zzzz
Ask her whether she is interested in having a threesome with the girl in question.

I like the way you think...
 

gopunk

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Originally posted by: Kenji4861
Originally posted by: gopunk
ask her why she doesn't believe you... "i trust in you, why can't you trust in me?"

That's exactly what the arguments about...
for ( ; ; )
{"why not trust me?" "I know u think she's pretty".. "I don't..." "it's okay, u can tell me"}

maybe you should tell her it is annoying and insulting that she always thinks you're lying.

ok i admit, this is not a very good "escape" route :p but i just get really annoyed at how girls will do that just to test you. f*cking retarded.
 

rayma2

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tell her that those other girls dont matter cause you are with her and that is all that maters.
 

tom3

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tell her "does it matter whether she'e pretty? I don't love you for your looks alone"....
 

Eli

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My girlfriend doesen't ask such stupid questions.

It doesen't matter.
 

dman

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Originally posted by: Kenji4861
I swear, every girl my gf thinks is pretty, she'll ask "do you think she's pretty?"

And the safe response:

"What Girl?"

If she presses further (w/ sarcasm):

"No, but, that guy she's with/near is hot!"

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;):eek::|:Q:frown:
 

woolmilk

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Mine kept asking me this question, too. Its simply that
she wanted to know more of me, what I like and what I dont.
So you should look inside yourself and ask yourself,
what makes your heart leap. Lots of boys simply judge
by the clothes or choose girls that look like "easy and dirty".
Be sure there is no safe answer and answering with "yes"
or "no" will definately lead to the question "why?".
 

Tallgeese

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Originally posted by: Kenji4861
I swear, every girl my gf thinks is pretty, she'll ask "do you think she's pretty?"

This is what happens to me
If I say "Nah, she's not."
she says "don't lie. Why can't you tell me the truth... blah blah"
and ends up becoming an argument

If I say "yea, she's pretty"
it ends up being an argument

If I say "she's ok, but compared to you... I choose u anytime"
she says "...you don't have to try to make me feel better, I know when u say "ok" it means ur attracted.. blah blah"
it ends up becoming an argument.

SO.. WHAT IS YOUR ESCAPE ROUTE?!
I used to say:

"You think she looks good now? You should see her naked!"

Funny how my wife never asks me that question anymore...
 

FrancesBeansRevenge

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My response to my wife would be 'Why, do you want to do her?'.
And she would likely respond, 'Yes'.
And I would respond 'Why god am I not enough for you! Ahh the pain!'
and I would run off flailing my arms and screeching like a girl.
 

NakaNaka

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Originally posted by: FoBoT
that is annoying, dump her, find somebody that doesn't want to mess with you so much

amen. when i was w. my gf - if a guy/girl was hot and the other was wondering we would ask but we wouldn't say "God, wow, so much better looking then you" but we would be like "yes". Then I would have her kiss me :) ... What your gf is doing does not sound good my friend.
 

joohang

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If I were you, I'd give her my honest answers. If she doesn't trust my answer or gets too bothered, I would tell her that this is getting out of hand and that I feel extremely uncomfortable. If that doesn't solve the issue, she can suck it and grow up a few more years.

Nothing wrong with the question, but her attitude and (lack of) intention make me wonder how your relationship is even lasting.
 

whiteboyatcal

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HAHA... yeah my g/f catches me staring at hot girls all the time, LOL. But she just says "Oh, I bet you'd like to fvck her huh? Too bad you're in a relationship huh?" Then she procedes to laugh at me...
 

isasir

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Originally posted by: whiteboyatcal
HAHA... yeah my g/f catches me staring at hot girls all the time, LOL. But she just says "Oh, I bet you'd like to fvck her huh? Too bad you're in a relationship huh?" Then she procedes to laugh at me...

Ha ha! Your GF is cool.

 

Ulfwald

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"Honey, there many attractive women in the world, I can see attractive qualities in them, but you have all the qualities I look for in a lady. That is why I love you. You are not only very pretty, but what is on the inside of you, your heart, is what makes you the most beautiful woman to me.

Just realize that while there are lots of attractive women in the world, you are the one lady I chose to love and cherish.