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n yusef

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She has no right to lecture you on your language in your own apartment. If she does again, tell her that you pay rent, and she does not, so she can STFU or leave.

If you have any respect for your friend you'll voice your opinion of said fiance. If he's your best friend he should be able to take your opinion on his fiance civilly. If I were him, I would be angry that you waited so long to voice your opinion on this girl.

You don't have to get along with her, but if you are her fiance's friend, she needs to respect you and you need to respect her. If he's really your friend, you'll respect his choice of mate. The fact that neither of you understand the rules of your relationship is weird to say the least.
 

zanieladie

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Originally posted by: maddogchen
Yes you should tell your best friend what you think of his fiance. As best friends, on a decision as important as marriage to another person, advice from a best friend can be very helpful. Sometimes love blinds and it is best to get views of people close to you such as family and friends who have your best interest at heart.



Just try to tell him as nicely as possible...
 

tweakmm

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She is right you know.
You may as well rape the first person you see walking on the street when you drop the f-bomb. They are pretty much one in the same.
 

SViper

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See, I would have handled that situation differently. I would have said, "Who pays rent here? That's what I thought so STFU."

As a friend, you have an obligation to express your dislike of your friend/roommate's fiancee. Whether or not he takes it to heart and does something about it is up to him. You can be nice about it though, like talk over a beer or something.

I would suggest that you talk to him about it.