do you still keep in touch with your high school crushes?

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do you still keep in touch with your high school crushes?

  • yes, I still thirst for them. it never goes away.

  • yes, but she's a fatty mcfatty while im now a stud. don't hate me now

  • yes, but nothing is there anymore.

  • yes, we hook up occasionally still

  • yes, I am officially in stalker status

  • no. I am actively stalking them at the moment

  • no. I have no desire to do so


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BoomerD

No Lifer
Feb 26, 2006
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I haven't even seen anyone I went to high school with in close to 40 years. (but maybe they've seen me?) :ninja:
 

BUTCH1

Lifer
Jul 15, 2000
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1,769
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No, I was with a girl for about a year at 15, when we broke up I had to learn to just let go, it's just a time of life when your learning that people and their priorities can change, to try and keep track of her would have only made that acceptance more difficult than it already was. Sweet memories though, when you fall the first time it's an all-in deal, kind of like a narcotic, if I was within 20 feet of her today I probably wouldn't recognize her, but if I did I would thank her for those memories, they are priceless to me.
 

Bateluer

Lifer
Jun 23, 2001
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Nope, I don't keep up with anyone from high school. Last I heard, most of them of still in the same town and mostly pot heads.
 

Mai72

Lifer
Sep 12, 2012
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Humpy

Diamond Member
Mar 3, 2011
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596
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I haven't had any desire to see my high school crush ever since that night I was finally in position to get a whiff of her vagoo.
 

toughtrasher

Senior member
Mar 17, 2013
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Lol nope, college is supposed to be the real experience.

Plus if you've had bad memories of crushes, why not just move on and forget about it. So many women (well, for guys) out there :)
 

OVerLoRDI

Diamond Member
Jan 22, 2006
5,490
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It is always a trap.

My high school gf and I have such an incredible pile of drama, but the nostalgia is so freaking strong..... Sigh..

But then I remember she has a dog, and 20 something girls with dogs is the fucking worst. Stupid dogs don't get trained and these idiots girls structure their lives around their retarded muts.

I have strong feelings on the issue.
 

MtnMan

Diamond Member
Jul 27, 2004
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She still calls me several times a year (she lives 3000 miles away), and I shudder every time I think that I had a thing for her, and realize I really dodged a bullet.

She has gone completely bug fornicating crazy over religion. Every-time she calls all I can think of is Garth Brooks song "unanswered prayers"
 

Jeeebus

Diamond Member
Aug 29, 2006
9,179
897
126
Honestly, I can't even remember the last names of the girls I dated in high school/college, so remembering who my high school 'crushes' were is far beyond my current capabilities.
 

kranky

Elite Member
Oct 9, 1999
21,014
138
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Two high school classmates (women) work at the same place I do and they love to tell me what other classmates are doing, especially the ones I dated back then. Seems like they are all divorced now. I'm glad I'm not on FB because the coworkers have mentioned more than once that "people" would like to get in touch with me. I have zero interest in old crushes. I'm a lot different now, and I'm sure they are also.

It was awkward enough when I once got a phone call from some woman who asked me to guess who she was, and gave me the clue "this is the first girl you ever kissed." She was inviting me to a high school reunion event. Didn't go, never heard from her again.
 

yhelothar

Lifer
Dec 11, 2002
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Facebook stalk once in a while. It doesn't help that I'm fb friends with her and she shows up on my newsfeed every once in a while.
 

Pacfanweb

Lifer
Jan 2, 2000
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I'm friends on FB with my first HS GF. Nothing there at all, just old friends. She even came to our Christmas party this past December. She and the wife got along great.

My ex-wife did message me through FB a few years back. Boy, did I dodge a bullet with that one. Let's just say that she'd have to lose weight to see 240 lbs. But we're not friends on FB.

The girl I dated before my wife, (knew her in HS but never dated until after) and also prior to my ex-wife, lives nearby. See her around occasionally. Married, no kids, very nice person, we talk and there's no issue at all.

About the only one from HS I'd like to see isn't on FB, far as I can tell. Not friends with her brother, who I am friends with. I had my insurance with her Dad's agency for years, and he had pics of her and she was looking damn good still. Nothing there for me at all, just a person from my past that I wouldn't mind seeing.
 

Newell Steamer

Diamond Member
Jan 27, 2014
6,894
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I've been living in the crawl spaces of a house that just happened to be a former high school crush.


But, I didn't actively seek her out - just the luck of the draw,... which means,... we are meant to be.

:twisted: