Actually, drumming (and martial arts) is a great stress relief. You're concentrating on getting the rhythm down, putting fills together in your head, hitting things (really pissed = really loud 😀), etc. I've always enjoyed it. But I find myself drumming on hands, backs, legs or whatever when I hear a good song. Say we're driving down the road and a good song comes on the radio, I'll start drumming to it (most of the time, not consciously) and her hand happens to be under mine when I start drumming or my arm around her when I'm tapping away. She kindly reminds me that she's not a drumset.
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nik