Do you respect others' relationships?

Deeko

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I've noticed alot of people here have no regard for the relationship of another person. So what's your take?
 

NewSc2

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everybody talks like that, like i'd hit that shiz, but in reality i think most people approve and appreciate boundaries
 

Geekbabe

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I respect the relationships of others, I have enough grief in my own life without getting into any situation that might result in me getting my face rearranged
 

Deeko

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Originally posted by: NewSc2
everybody talks like that, like i'd hit that shiz, but in reality i think most people approve and appreciate boundaries

What I'm more referring to is when someone comes on here says "my girlfriend cheated on me" and someone else says "huh? you aren't married, she can get with anyone she wants, she has no obligation to you"
 

NikPreviousAcct

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If it's someone I'll care about, they get my opinion once if they're doing something that might not be so healthy. After that, or unless I don't know them on a very personal level, they don't get my opinion and I don't bring it up unless they ask me about it directly.

Otherwise, yes, I "respect" other people's relationships.

nik
 

KEV1N

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I'm still not sure what you mean. But anyways I met this girl I'm interested in, and I found out from another source that she has a long distance boyfriend. Should I proceed? Yes indeed. It's not like I'm stealing her from her boyfriend, I'm merely presenting myself as an alternative!
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: Deeko
Originally posted by: NewSc2
everybody talks like that, like i'd hit that shiz, but in reality i think most people approve and appreciate boundaries

What I'm more referring to is when someone comes on here says "my girlfriend cheated on me" and someone else says "huh? you aren't married, she can get with anyone she wants, she has no obligation to you"

:|

Sorry, sore subject. It has nothing to do with Chelsea.

nik
 

NewSc2

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Originally posted by: Deeko
Originally posted by: NewSc2
everybody talks like that, like i'd hit that shiz, but in reality i think most people approve and appreciate boundaries

What I'm more referring to is when someone comes on here says "my girlfriend cheated on me" and someone else says "huh? you aren't married, she can get with anyone she wants, she has no obligation to you"

well, i haven't noticed much of that, i think usually if somebody posts "my girlfriend cheated on me" people say "i'm sorry" or "she wasn't worth it"
 

Deeko

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Originally posted by: KEV1N
I'm still not sure what you mean. But anyways I met this girl I'm interested in, and I found out from another source that she has a long distance boyfriend. Should I proceed? Yes indeed. It's not like I'm stealing her from her boyfriend, I'm merely presenting myself as an alternative!

So you would pick choice b. Because you are in essence trying to steal her.
 

KEV1N

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Well I think it's not my business to judge the validity of anybody's relationship. If I'm interested in somebody, I don't front; I don't pretend that I'm not interested out of 'respect'. If their relationship is failing, then it's up to her if she wants to consider me. If their relationship is strong then it doesn't matter if I'm showing interest.
 

eakers

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i will never go after a boy or girl in a relationship again.
i learned the hard way, i regret so much what i did.
 

Deeko

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Originally posted by: KEV1N
Well I think it's not my business to judge the validity of anybody's relationship. If I'm interested in somebody, I don't front; I don't pretend that I'm not interested out of 'respect'. If their relationship is failing, then it's up to her if she wants to consider me. If their relationship is strong then it doesn't matter if I'm showing interest.

You don't have to pretend not to be interested, but I think that actively making advances on someone who is with someone else is just plain dispicable. But that's just me. And are you assuming that because that girl is in a distance relationship that it is failing?
 

Bluefront

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"All's fair in love and war". You all heard that before, right? You know what that means, right?

Unless a girl is a real dog, she's always going to have a few boy-friends, a husband, or a significant other floating around. You want something, you always have to take a chance.
 

LethalWolfe

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Well, this is a bit of a sore point w/me. For about 8 months I was in LA and my longtime gf was back in IN and even though everyone knew we were still together some of my so-called friends kept f**king hitting on her hardcore. And what made it worse is when I'd come back to visit the same "friends" were like "Hey man, it's great to see you again. Been too long... " blah, blah, blah....


f**kers...:disgust:


Lethal