Are these standards totally in relation to looks? I'd say I have high standards, but looks aren't the high requirement to meet. I don't want a "perfect" guy, but I want a guy who has the desire to try to be that perfect guy some of the time. Combine that with wanting a guy who will be honest and be himself, it works out to some pretty high standards. I consider it fair though, because those are the standards I'd try to live up to myself as a girlfriend.