Do you have a platonic relationship with a female?

HamSupLo

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they say that guys and gals can't be friends. do you have a female that you hang out with alot, yet haven't made a move on? Do you have thoughts of hooking up on the back of your mind?
 

gwlam12

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Yes I do have that platonic friend. I do not have thoughts of hooking up with her.
 

RCN

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Originally posted by: gwlam12
Yes I do have that platonic friend. I do not have thoughts of hooking up with her.
Is she that ugly? How many rungs down is she?

 

HamSupLo

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there's this girl that i hung out with a lot at the beginning of the school year and i guess i had her down a couple of rungs. Now i find her kinda attractive, but since i didn't make a move early on, i think it kinda kills it :(
 

DanTMWTMP

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Originally posted by: jiwq
Originally posted by: gwlam12
Yes I do have that platonic friend. I do not have thoughts of hooking up with her.

ya same here. It's not because they're not attractive or anything. I've known them for ages now, and it's fun hanging out w/ them lol. Also, they always can give the blah girls' point of view :confused: heh.
 

RCN

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Originally posted by: DanTMWTMP
Originally posted by: jiwq
Originally posted by: gwlam12
Yes I do have that platonic friend. I do not have thoughts of hooking up with her.

ya same here. It's not because they're not attractive or anything. I've known them for ages now, and it's fun hanging out w/ them lol. Also, they always can give the blah girls' point of view :confused: heh.
unpossible
 

OdiN

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I have some who are just friends and will always be that way and I don't want anymore from them.

I have some who are just friends and will always be that way even though I may want more.

I have some who are just friends who used to be GF's or that I have dated before.

I have some who are just friends right now but who knows about the future.
 

DanTMWTMP

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Originally posted by: OdiN
I have some who are just friends and will always be that way and I don't want anymore from them.

I have some who are just friends and will always be that way even though I may want more.

I have some who are just friends who used to be GF's or that I have dated before.

I have some who are just friends right now but who knows about the future.

oh ya, that too, hehe.

When a friendship gets a bit too close, that's when things can change hahaha.
 

RCN

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Originally posted by: HamSupLo
so i guess guys and girls can just be friends?

They can provided one of them is really ugly (relatively). If it happens to be the girl though the answer is probably still no........
 

OdiN

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Originally posted by: DanTMWTMP
Originally posted by: OdiN
I have some who are just friends and will always be that way and I don't want anymore from them.

I have some who are just friends and will always be that way even though I may want more.

I have some who are just friends who used to be GF's or that I have dated before.

I have some who are just friends right now but who knows about the future.

oh ya, that too, hehe.

When a friendship gets a bit too close, that's when things can change hahaha.

Actually one of my close friends knows that I find her attractive and would jump at the chance, but the interest is not there from her side. We are still good friends though. Doesn't make anything weird. Though obviously since I know there are no feelings from her other than those of a friend I'm not going to be trying to put the moves on her or anything. Depends on the girl and situation if that can happen though.
 

RCN

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Originally posted by: OdiN
I have some who are just friends and will always be that way and I don't want anymore from them. ugly]

I have some who are just friends and will always be that way even though I may want more. You are ugly to them

I have some who are just friends who used to be GF's or that I have dated before.One of you has moved up the ladder. Probably her.

I have some who are just friends right now but who knows about the future.Already friends?...... future not so bright

 

OdiN

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Originally posted by: RCN
Originally posted by: HamSupLo
so i guess guys and girls can just be friends?

They can provided one of them is really ugly (relatively). If it happens to be the girl though the answer is probably still no........

That is not true. Several of my friends are quite attractive physically.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: OdiN
I have some who are just friends who used to be GF's or that I have dated before.

I have a platonic relationship with an ex of mine. We're very close, but as far as romance goes, I've been utterly done with her for years.
 
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just because you would hypothetically bang one of your long time platonic friends doesn;t mean you can't still be friends...even though you probably wouldn't act on it while sober...well, alcohol was the reason i slept with a supposedly platonic friend both times it happened

 

RCN

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Originally posted by: OdiN
Originally posted by: RCN
Originally posted by: HamSupLo
so i guess guys and girls can just be friends?

They can provided one of them is really ugly (relatively). If it happens to be the girl though the answer is probably still no........

That is not true. Several of my friends are quite attractive physically.
All that means is that you are the ugly one.


or you lack money/ power.
 

OdiN

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Originally posted by: RCN
Originally posted by: OdiN
I have some who are just friends and will always be that way and I don't want anymore from them. ugly[

I have some who are just friends and will always be that way even though I may want more. You are ugly to them

I have some who are just friends who used to be GF's or that I have dated before.One of you has moved up the ladder. Probably her.

I have some who are just friends right now but who knows about the future.Already friends?...... future not so bright

1 - No they are not ugly.
2 - No. Things are much more complex than that.
3 - Uhm...no again.
4 - You have no idea what you are talking about.