Do you consider having a sexual dream involving someone other than your S/O cheating?

[vi edit]

Philisophical/Moral question of the day.

I'm sort of torn, because I tend to have more control over my dreams than most people I know. I can't say for certain what started the dream, but I do know that if I had wanted to, I could have stopped it...but didn't.

Your thoughts?

 

[minendo]

I'm too busy doing it to dream.

 

[Scouzer]

Uh, no. Thats absurd.

 

[Hayabusa Rider]

Originally posted by: vi_edit
Philisophical/Moral question of the day. I'm sort of torn, because I tend to have more control over my dreams than most people I know. I can't say for certain what started the dream, but I do know that if I had wanted to, I could have stopped it...but didn't. Your thoughts?

Relax Vi. The answer is no.

 

[yakko]

Nope.

 

[ATLien247]

Not just no... HELL NO!!!

 

[Starsman2]

"...too busy doing it to dream"

I'm inclined to agree with Minendo. Dude, if you're dreaming about it, you're not getting it enough and that is definitely the fault of your S/O! Find another lover!

lol, I hope you weren't looking for serious answers

 

Nope, not cheating. You can rest easy.

 

[Viper GTS]

Of course not.

Just don't tell the g/f.

Viper GTS

 

[HomeBrewerDude]

i wouldn't be feeling guilty...

 

[ATLien247]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Of course not.

Just don't tell the g/f.

Viper GTS

Words of wisdom...

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

If I had conscious control over my dreams and I let it happen, I would be upset with myself and would work to change whatever it is that seems to be making me unhappy in my relationship so that it doesn't happen again. But, since I don't have conscious control over what I dream, I would feel really really bad about it when I woke up and would probably work my ass off that day to be a better significant other, trying to make up for the guilty conscience.

But, really, since I don't have control, I don't consider it cheating.

nik

 

[vi edit]

Dude, if you're dreaming about it, you're not getting it enough and that is definitely the fault of your S/O! Find another lover!

I can assure you, that isn't an issue

Also - this wasn't any sort of an argument between me and my s/o. It was spurred on by an AIM conversation with a friend about having sex dreams with your buddy's wife/gf. Should the guy who's wife/gf was in the dream have any reason to be jealous. Then the cheating question came up.

 

[Fausto]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Of course not.

Just don't tell the g/f.

Viper GTS

And hope you don't cry out "Oh yes, Mrs Bush!! I've been a naughty student and need a good spanking!! No child left behind!! in your sleep.


That would be bad.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: ATLien247

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Of course not.

Just don't tell the g/f.

Viper GTS

Words of wisdom...

What if she asks? If your significant other asked you if you ever dream about other people, would you hide it from her or tell her the truth?

nik

 

[ATLien247]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

What if she asks? If your significant other asked you if you ever dream about other people, would you hide it from her or tell her the truth?

nik

Tell her the truth... but only if asked directly.

 

[vi edit]

What if she asks? If your significant other asked you if you ever dream about other people, would you hide it from her or tell her the truth?

I'd tell her.

 

[FoBoT]

how can you control your dreams?

seems to me if you have no control of what you think/dream about while unconsious, then it shouldn't count against you

 

[ATLien247]

Originally posted by: FoBoT
how can you control your dreams?

seems to me if you have no control of what you think/dream about while unconsious, then it shouldn't count against you

Lucid dreaming... pretty neat stuff.

It's happened to me a few times before. It'd be sweet if it would happen more often, though...

 

[Viper GTS]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: ATLien247

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Of course not.

Just don't tell the g/f.

Viper GTS

Words of wisdom...

What if she asks? If your significant other asked you if you ever dream about other people, would you hide it from her or tell her the truth?

nik

Why would I care if she found out?

I wouldn't go announcing it (common courtesy & sense), but it's not a big deal.

Viper GTS

 

[Skyclad1uhm1]

Don't worry, your hand probably doesn't mind.

 

[ndee]

Originally posted by: Starsman2
"...too busy doing it to dream"

I'm inclined to agree with Minendo. Dude, if you're dreaming about it, you're not getting it enough and that is definitely the fault of your S/O! Find another lover!

lol, I hope you weren't looking for serious answers

you have 4 posts since September 2000 and one of them is here? lol

 

[GoingUp]

Homer: God Himself told me I should seek a new path.
Rev. Lovejoy: [suspicious] Oh, really...
Homer: Yeah. He appeared before me in a dream, and I knew that was special because I usually dream about naked....... Marge



It's not cheating so relax. Do you consider everytime you talk to another woman cheating as well?

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: ATLien247

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Of course not.

Just don't tell the g/f.

Viper GTS

Words of wisdom...

What if she asks? If your significant other asked you if you ever dream about other people, would you hide it from her or tell her the truth?

nik

Why would I care if she found out?

I wouldn't go announcing it (common courtesy & sense), but it's not a big deal.

Viper GTS

It was just a question.

nik

 

[Aves]

No.