Be very careful in mixing and matching. Intel's new Dual-DDR chipset is very specific about the DIMMs having the same amount of memory, density of memory, "sidedness", etc. If all those things don't match, it switches both DIMMs to single-channel mode.
About the only thing you can mix up on them is speed, in which case it defaults to the slower of the two DIMMs for both channels.
The nForce2 may have similar requirements, though I don't particularly recall. In fact, your system will still run with mismatched sticks, and the OS will report the full amount of memory, but you just may not be aware it's doing it in single-channel mode. To play it safe, you're better off getting two completely identical sticks. If you're not sure, RTFM. 😉