well i dont think you have to enable the AA if you are not a hardcore gamer.
What's the point of enabling the AA if you are playing online game anyway?
I always have AA on when I'm playing online. I play rtcw and I don't even turn it off for clan matches. It actually helps my game having it on. Jaggies crawl as you move. If I see the jaggies moving out of the corner of my eye I have to turn my focus to them to make sure it's not an enemy I see moving. Especially with big open maps like assault. The assault map has high walls in the distance that enemies can run along. Without AA I sometimes momentarily mistake the jaggies crawling for enemies moving in the distance. As I'm turning to focus on the movement, which is just jaggies, I've got an enemy lining me up in his sites in another direction. With aa on I know if something is moving it's a person.
Rtcw is a game that also benefits greatly from aniso. The textures get blurry pretty close up without aniso.
I always see people saying things like that. "You only see the jaggies if you're staring at your screen looking for them." I can only assume these are people who are used to playing without AA. Believe me, If AA is off, I notice it right away. The same with aniso. I guess it's one of those things you didn't realize you needed until you actually used it. Once you have used it however, it's hard to go back to not using it. Like a microwave.