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Eeezee

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It's true, cable internet is faster than DSL. You'd get what, 1.5 mbps?

That's insane that you have 3 high-speed connections though, your family doesn't need that many. So the sister literally has a dedicated 3 mbps connection that is only used 3 months out of the year? Yeah, that's ridiculous.

Ideally, you should upgrade the DSL since it sounds more reliable. You don't want crappy download speeds being shared between 4 people. Your family would save a ton of money. If you cancel two high-speed cable accounts, that's probably $80+ per month that your family would save, since it depends on how many other cable services you're using (TV?)
 

Doboji

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Originally posted by: PowerMacG5
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: tfinch2
I don't know who the bigger idiot is, your parents for paying for two internet connections instead of using a router, or you for even really giving a fvck.

Correction, that is THREE internet connections.

I'm so confused, why am I the bad guy for not wanting my family to waste money on things simply because most of their purchases are emotionally driven? Is it wrong for me to look out for others? I try my best to help others by telling them not to do stupid ******, much like a parent but I get scoldid for it, it's really confusing.. Sure I'm not the parent, but does that mean I should be a self centered, money grubbing, wasteful little shitbag that people on this forum are so quick to call me?

And to the person who said amexs', huh? Basically every kid that went to college got their own credit card with apparently no spending limit (that I know of). They basically didn't get their own cars because they live back east and can't drive, only one can drive (excluding my self) and the one who can drive, got her own volvo at the end of her senior year, which she drives 1 month out of the year (when she comes home).

I see how these kids are all a bunch of little JAPS and I don't want them having this attiude that they can just waste my dad's money just because he has it (I fscking hate this mentality, of anyone who could relate, it should be atot).

AMEX = American Express.... so yeah you answered my question in the affirmative... and confirmed my suspicion at the end... bunch of fckin JAPS.... I HAAATE spoiled ungrateful jewish btches like that. God help whatever man is stupid enough to not realize what he's getting himself into with your sisters. My children will NOT get that treatment so help me god.

Where on the east coast are they anyway? Wait wait let me guess.... The George Washington University? or NYU?

-Max

You mind not being racist, and claiming all jews are spoiled, ungrateful, bitches? I know plenty of people who are not Jewish that are spoiled, ungrateful, bitches. Just because I happen to be Jewish, doesn't mean I am.

Man I would be such a hypocrit if I claimed all jews were spoiled ungrateful bitches.... seeing as how I am in fact Jewish...
 

Platypus

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Apr 26, 2001
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So move out and make your own way and don't follow what you think his mistakes are.

It's easy to sit around and bitch about things... do something about it.
 

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: tfinch2
I don't know who the bigger idiot is, your parents for paying for two internet connections instead of using a router, or you for even really giving a fvck.

Correction, that is THREE internet connections.

I'm so confused, why am I the bad guy for not wanting my family to waste money on things simply because most of their purchases are emotionally driven? Is it wrong for me to look out for others? I try my best to help others by telling them not to do stupid ******, much like a parent but I get scoldid for it, it's really confusing.. Sure I'm not the parent, but does that mean I should be a self centered, money grubbing, wasteful little shitbag that people on this forum are so quick to call me?

And to the person who said amexs', huh? Basically every kid that went to college got their own credit card with apparently no spending limit (that I know of). They basically didn't get their own cars because they live back east and can't drive, only one can drive (excluding my self) and the one who can drive, got her own volvo at the end of her senior year, which she drives 1 month out of the year (when she comes home).

I see how these kids are all a bunch of little JAPS and I don't want them having this attiude that they can just waste my dad's money just because he has it (I fscking hate this mentality, of anyone who could relate, it should be atot).

you're the bad guy because you come to atot and bitch about it. wtf do we care? we can't do anything about it.

plus you complain about the dumbest things. itunes and your mom, this with your family's net connections, keyboard risers, your dad not wanting to buy a german car.

 

Modular

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Jul 1, 2005
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Originally posted by: DobojiWow... your family is ridiculous...

Yeah you have a right to be frustrated... and your parents need to be smacked in the head.

Yeah, who the heck has three internet connections for 4 computers. You guys are literally burning money. I have Comcast cable (the cheapest btw) 3mb DL and 512 up and I've had 3 computers all playing online games at the same time with no issues at all.

A "cheap" internet connection will not be bogged down by 10 computers surfing the internet, let alone 2.


Have your dad cancel all connections but the DSL or cable (whichever you like the most). Then paypal me the $$ you save every month (should be about $100).

Thanks.
 

Dumac

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Originally posted by: PowerMacG5
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: tfinch2
I don't know who the bigger idiot is, your parents for paying for two internet connections instead of using a router, or you for even really giving a fvck.

Correction, that is THREE internet connections.

I'm so confused, why am I the bad guy for not wanting my family to waste money on things simply because most of their purchases are emotionally driven? Is it wrong for me to look out for others? I try my best to help others by telling them not to do stupid ******, much like a parent but I get scoldid for it, it's really confusing.. Sure I'm not the parent, but does that mean I should be a self centered, money grubbing, wasteful little shitbag that people on this forum are so quick to call me?

And to the person who said amexs', huh? Basically every kid that went to college got their own credit card with apparently no spending limit (that I know of). They basically didn't get their own cars because they live back east and can't drive, only one can drive (excluding my self) and the one who can drive, got her own volvo at the end of her senior year, which she drives 1 month out of the year (when she comes home).

I see how these kids are all a bunch of little JAPS and I don't want them having this attiude that they can just waste my dad's money just because he has it (I fscking hate this mentality, of anyone who could relate, it should be atot).

AMEX = American Express.... so yeah you answered my question in the affirmative... and confirmed my suspicion at the end... bunch of fckin JAPS.... I HAAATE spoiled ungrateful jewish btches like that. God help whatever man is stupid enough to not realize what he's getting himself into with your sisters. My children will NOT get that treatment so help me god.

Where on the east coast are they anyway? Wait wait let me guess.... The George Washington University? or NYU?

-Max

You mind not being racist, and claiming all jews are spoiled, ungrateful, bitches? I know plenty of people who are not Jewish that are spoiled, ungrateful, bitches. Just because I happen to be Jewish, doesn't mean I am.

I love how you call him racist yet only point out one of the racist comments he said because it was the one that affected you. Seems as if he left the Jewish one out, you wouldn't care.

By the way, I could tell he didn't mean it as an actual racist comment, since switching from Japs to Jews is just kind of silly.
 

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: Dumac
Originally posted by: PowerMacG5
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: tfinch2
I don't know who the bigger idiot is, your parents for paying for two internet connections instead of using a router, or you for even really giving a fvck.

Correction, that is THREE internet connections.

I'm so confused, why am I the bad guy for not wanting my family to waste money on things simply because most of their purchases are emotionally driven? Is it wrong for me to look out for others? I try my best to help others by telling them not to do stupid ******, much like a parent but I get scoldid for it, it's really confusing.. Sure I'm not the parent, but does that mean I should be a self centered, money grubbing, wasteful little shitbag that people on this forum are so quick to call me?

And to the person who said amexs', huh? Basically every kid that went to college got their own credit card with apparently no spending limit (that I know of). They basically didn't get their own cars because they live back east and can't drive, only one can drive (excluding my self) and the one who can drive, got her own volvo at the end of her senior year, which she drives 1 month out of the year (when she comes home).

I see how these kids are all a bunch of little JAPS and I don't want them having this attiude that they can just waste my dad's money just because he has it (I fscking hate this mentality, of anyone who could relate, it should be atot).

AMEX = American Express.... so yeah you answered my question in the affirmative... and confirmed my suspicion at the end... bunch of fckin JAPS.... I HAAATE spoiled ungrateful jewish btches like that. God help whatever man is stupid enough to not realize what he's getting himself into with your sisters. My children will NOT get that treatment so help me god.

Where on the east coast are they anyway? Wait wait let me guess.... The George Washington University? or NYU?

-Max

You mind not being racist, and claiming all jews are spoiled, ungrateful, bitches? I know plenty of people who are not Jewish that are spoiled, ungrateful, bitches. Just because I happen to be Jewish, doesn't mean I am.

I love how you call him racist yet only point out one of the racist comments he said because it was the one that affected you. Seems as if he left the Jewish one out, you wouldn't care.

By the way, I could tell he didn't mean it as an actual racist comment, since switching from Japs to Jews is just kind of silly.

was eh using japs as in japanese or japs as an acronym for Jewish something something something, like WASP? i assumed the latter.
 

Golgatha

Lifer
Jul 18, 2003
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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: goku
My sister
1. does not live at home
2. We're paying $50 a month for cable internet that is only 3MB,
3. Her cable internet is extremely unreliable and
4. Shes here only 3 months out of the year

Her internet has been cutting out ever since she got the cable but she refuses to switch to DSL, she has this mindset that cable is inherently faster despite the fact that she?s got the cheapest cable plan (3Mb). I try to convince my dad and her to just get DSL because it's only $13 a month. Every time I bring up the argument, they get very angry and should I say, "violent"?

My dad tells me to shutup and so does my sister, it's like as if I'm recommending her to get a boob job or lipo or something like this.. :roll: I just don't under stand, we have DSL in my mom's room, it's much more reliable and my mom never complains about it so I can't figure out why we can't just put my sister on the DSL plan. I just doesn't make any sense and them becoming EXTREMELY DEFENSIVE about it is just absurd.

Wait you have DSL in one room, and Cable in another?

Believe it or not, we have Two cable modems (from two different providers) and one DSL Modem. The women act like little princesses and think they deserve their own internet connection when it would have made sense to just share the one, 6MB cable with QOS control. The reason we have a 6MB cable and 3MB cable is because my sister, another 'little princess' wanted cable in her room and therefore she got her way. I told her to just go onto our router and I'll set it up for QOS control so the internet doesn't get bogged down, she didn't like the idea (of course) and got her own internet anyways. As the 'good son' that I am, I didn't get a separate internet but instead piggybacked onto my dad's cable internet.

To be honest, I hate the cable, the only thing I like about it right at the moment is the fact that I've got 1Mb upload speeds. The problem with my dad and sister is the fact that they've probably think I'm conspiring against them or some crap, they probably thinking that cable internet is inherently faster, they always try to pin this on me when it's them that should be asking the question (do I need this?).
I tell her DSL is plenty fast (which it is..) and much more reliable than her crapcast internet but she then complains and says "download speeds will be too slow, la la la i'm not listening", like that really matters whether or not it's true because YOU DON"T ****** LIVE HERE.

Wow... your family is ridiculous...

Yeah you have a right to be frustrated... and your parents need to be smacked in the head.

Wasting money on multiple high speed connections FTL!!!!

Don't they know they're sharing the same backbone on the cable connection? It's like taking a mono audio connection and splitting it to stereo to get better sound separation?
 
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Unless everyone in your family downloads stuff through torrents all day long, I can see why you are complaining.

I use to download around around 5GB a day on my 6mbit cable connection that I shared with my family of 4. No one complained, or even noticed that I was downloading stuff. There was bandwidth to spare. I can't imagine why you would have three connections for family of what sounds like 4.

Just upgrade to the fastest DSL connection, and drop the others FTW.

What a waste of money. That's like an extra $100 a month, right?
 

aux

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Mar 16, 2002
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You have the right to express your frustration on myspace, not here.
 

Doboji

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May 18, 2001
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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: Dumac
Originally posted by: PowerMacG5
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: tfinch2
I don't know who the bigger idiot is, your parents for paying for two internet connections instead of using a router, or you for even really giving a fvck.

Correction, that is THREE internet connections.

I'm so confused, why am I the bad guy for not wanting my family to waste money on things simply because most of their purchases are emotionally driven? Is it wrong for me to look out for others? I try my best to help others by telling them not to do stupid ******, much like a parent but I get scoldid for it, it's really confusing.. Sure I'm not the parent, but does that mean I should be a self centered, money grubbing, wasteful little shitbag that people on this forum are so quick to call me?

And to the person who said amexs', huh? Basically every kid that went to college got their own credit card with apparently no spending limit (that I know of). They basically didn't get their own cars because they live back east and can't drive, only one can drive (excluding my self) and the one who can drive, got her own volvo at the end of her senior year, which she drives 1 month out of the year (when she comes home).

I see how these kids are all a bunch of little JAPS and I don't want them having this attiude that they can just waste my dad's money just because he has it (I fscking hate this mentality, of anyone who could relate, it should be atot).

AMEX = American Express.... so yeah you answered my question in the affirmative... and confirmed my suspicion at the end... bunch of fckin JAPS.... I HAAATE spoiled ungrateful jewish btches like that. God help whatever man is stupid enough to not realize what he's getting himself into with your sisters. My children will NOT get that treatment so help me god.

Where on the east coast are they anyway? Wait wait let me guess.... The George Washington University? or NYU?

-Max

You mind not being racist, and claiming all jews are spoiled, ungrateful, bitches? I know plenty of people who are not Jewish that are spoiled, ungrateful, bitches. Just because I happen to be Jewish, doesn't mean I am.

I love how you call him racist yet only point out one of the racist comments he said because it was the one that affected you. Seems as if he left the Jewish one out, you wouldn't care.

By the way, I could tell he didn't mean it as an actual racist comment, since switching from Japs to Jews is just kind of silly.

was eh using japs as in japanese or japs as an acronym for Jewish something something something, like WASP? i assumed the latter.

JAP = Jewish American Princess...
 

kranky

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Oct 9, 1999
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The fact that they are paying for three separate broadband connections makes it clear why your logic is not getting through.

My advice: they are not going to understand, so let it drop.
 

DaShen

Lifer
Dec 1, 2000
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Originally posted by: MisterJackson
dude....seriously......go wash the sand from your vagina. Do you pay towards any of the service there? No? Then STFU and be grateful you're getting a free fvcking ride. Douche.

 

ruffilb

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Feb 6, 2005
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Can we just consolidate all of these threads into one mighty thread complaining about EVERYTHING?
 

AUMM

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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: tfinch2
I don't know who the bigger idiot is, your parents for paying for two internet connections instead of using a router, or you for even really giving a fvck.

Correction, that is THREE internet connections.

I'm so confused, why am I the bad guy for not wanting my family to waste money on things simply because most of their purchases are emotionally driven? Is it wrong for me to look out for others? I try my best to help others by telling them not to do stupid ******, much like a parent but I get scoldid for it, it's really confusing.. Sure I'm not the parent, but does that mean I should be a self centered, money grubbing, wasteful little shitbag that people on this forum are so quick to call me?

And to the person who said amexs', huh? Basically every kid that went to college got their own credit card with apparently no spending limit (that I know of). They basically didn't get their own cars because they live back east and can't drive, only one can drive (excluding my self) and the one who can drive, got her own volvo at the end of her senior year, which she drives 1 month out of the year (when she comes home).

I see how these kids are all a bunch of little JAPS and I don't want them having this attiude that they can just waste my dad's money just because he has it (I fscking hate this mentality, of anyone who could relate, it should be atot).

you're the bad guy because you come to atot and bitch about it. wtf do we care? we can't do anything about it.

plus you complain about the dumbest things. itunes and your mom, this with your family's net connections, keyboard risers, your dad not wanting to buy a german car.

lol, so why did you even enter the thread :confused: