I can pretty much guarantee I have it worse than you do. I can't watch my wife put in her contacts--I get shivers just thinking about it. Last time I went to the eye doctor, I told them that I react (technically I said "twitch") when they put stuff in my eye. They had to dilate my eyes, and I literally almost jump out of the chair every single time. The doc said "you call that a twitch!!", and stated that I would never be able to wear contacts...
Reading this thread is getting me sick. If I ever have something that requires me to put drops in my eyes, I will have to have people hold me down. I could never do it myself.