ok I spent years and years on meds...
I had a lot of sh!t to work out and the docs decided to medicate me instead of sending me to see a shrink. I started out on loframine in the UK and when I got back to the USA the docs never heard of them so gave me 40mg of Paxil. Said I was BiPolar. Said I was OCD. Said I had Depression. Said I was a lot of stuff... 3yrs on Paxil, I went flat on them and they tried me on loads of other stuff... wellbutrin, effexor, prozac, zoloft, Elavil, Lexapro, Norpramine... they even mentioned Lithium!!! I ended up in the ER with convulsions, sever nose bleeds and vomiting blood. Put me back on Paxil. I DO have a chemical imbalance, runs in the family, but ... well....
Bottom line.. if you have sh!t to work out... do it w/out meds. If you have a real chemical imbalance and need meds, take them. The bad parts are this....
the same meds do not work for everyone. So, you will have to try a few to see which one works for you. It can take weeks to see if it works or not during which time you might have sucky side effects. You will have to wean off one med to start taking another one... and it all starts again until you find the one that works for you... and dont let anyone tell you that they are not addictive, cause they ARE... but if it is a choice of taking a pill or slashing your wrists, take a pill.
In the end, I decided I did not want to go thru the hassle of having pills run my life... (OMG did i take it today? Did I miss a dose? Keep some in the car in case I want to go away over night. Keep some in my handbag, some in the bathroom, some on the night stand, some in the car.. just to be sure I always have them... )... so in the end... I spent the worst 8 months of my ilfe weaning myself off them and have been without them for about 2.5years.
I still have my insanity moments, but I have learned to read the signs, see them coming and brace myself accordingly.
Again, if it is a choice between a pill or jumping off a building... take a pill. But dont let any doc just hand them over. They should be the last resort, not the first. I believe that docs are real quick to write that perscription.