Discipline: "Hot saucing" vs spanking

[Klixxer]

Originally posted by: PlatinumGold

Originally posted by: Klixxer

Originally posted by: Shockwave
So me and the wife saw this thing on TV about "hot saucing". Apparently, instead of spanking some parents but a very small drop of hot sauce on the childs tongue when they cuss or talk back. The wife thought it was a viable alterntive to spanking, I thought it wasnt since hot sauce is by nature pretty damned hot.
So, what do you guys think? Is "hot saucing" a viable alterantive to spanking??

Put them up in a row, ALL of them, the spankers and the hot saucers and give me while with machinegun.

NO kid deserves physidal punishment, EVER.

Stupid parents deserve stupid kids, go on and keep hitting them and watch them turn out as stupid as you are.

Ornery

what were you saying about extremist?

Hit your kids where i come from and you will get arrested, we evolved.

 

[PlatinumGold]

why is it so many people think physical pain is the end of the fvcking world? my brother has his ENTIRE house lined with that cushion puzzle stuff that are usually used in kids rooms. the entire house has like a 1/4" cushion because he is afraid his 2 yr old will fall down. low and behold whenever my nephew goes outside, he walks extremely unsteadily (much more unsteadily than how he walks when IN the house) and falls more often outside. so much for cushioning everything.

physical pain is just one tool, only a fool thinks it is the only way of disciplining kids.

however, it does have it's place.

 

[Klixxer]

Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
why is it so many people think physical pain is the end of the fvcking world? my brother has his ENTIRE house lined with that cushion puzzle stuff that are usually used in kids rooms. the entire house has like a 1/4" cushion because he is afraid his 2 yr old will fall down. low and behold whenever my nephew goes outside, he walks extremely unsteadily (much more unsteadily than how he walks when IN the house) and falls more often outside. so much for cushioning everything.

physical pain is just one tool, only a fool thinks it is the only way of disciplining kids.

however, it does have it's place.

Because hitting kids is just a way to deal with your own phucked up mind, you know you can correct them without physical pain, you CAN actually talk to them and make them understand WHY, that way they might grow up to be responsible human beings and try talking to people rather than hitting them in the face when they don't agree.

I have teenage kids now, i raised them as a single father, i know what works for them and what does not, this worked for them, i have NEVER spanked, slapped or grabbed anyone of them hard, i can tell them NO and they know what i mean.

And, no, it isn't ok to spank or hit them because YOU got scared, you teach them why NOT to do it and they won't.

Every kid that has been raised this way wants to please their parents, so they will NOT do things that upsets their parents, because they respect them, kids who have been raised on pain will learn to respect pain, not their parents, they will grow up scared of pain which will make them weaklings, just like you, and they will also use the same tool to control those who they percieve as weaker than themselves.

This is basic child psychology stuff, i am surprised that we have a psychologist in this thread that seems to fail to understand the simple effects involved.

 

[ActuaryTm]

Began to read this thread after the anal beads story, and thought this was a BDSM debate.

 

[thraxes]

Where's the V-Chip option? 😀

Sauce wouldn't work on me... brought up with a steady diet of super spicey curry and hot sauces I was presented last year with a bottle of Sudden Death Hot Sauce, awesome stuff!!
The spanking method worked fine with me and didn't fvck me up too bad, I would have no qualms spanking my kid if he/she majorly stepped out of line.
My uncle disciplined my cousins through a good mouth wash with soap... well you can't mess with an army man.

 

[Linux23]

what if your kids are Mexican? would that still be punishment?:Q

 

[gururu]

Originally posted by: Linux23
what if your kids are Mexican? would that still be punishment?:Q

If your kids are Mexican, it would be a reward!