Idk... I'm either working or I'm not. There's really no "in between".
If I agree to "punch the clock" at all I'm doing the job to the absolute best of my ability no matter what other workers think about it. And that means doing whatever needs to be done while in the process.
The day I decide to quit, (or VERY shortly thereafter lol) you'll be able to tell easily because I won't be there.
That's the difference between a proactive vs. a reactive work ethic. My own career success has never been about any specific
job, but rather, my personal work ethic. One of my core work values is having a "growth mindset". This is in reference to the concept American psychologist Carol Dweck rolled out in her 2006 book "Mindset", which is that in any given situation, we can have one of two mindsets:
1. A
fixed mindset, which says "I can't & let me explain why I can't"
2. A
growth mindset, which says "I can & I will be persistent in finding a way, despite the inevitable barriers that will crop up"
I've read up a lot on the "quiet quitting" thing & the "act your wage" movement & all of the memes on the Antiwork subreddit. They all have very valid points & are fighting against systems that are in dire need of improvement, but looking at it through the lens of the two different mindsets:
1. We can choose to complain & shoot ourselves in the foot through inaction
2. We can choose to shift gears & find a way to improve our lives through our choices & efforts over time
I have one friend in particular, early 30's, who has adopted the modern "victim" mindset, i.e. "complain & then do nothing about it". Works at Amazon (voluntarily) but curses Jeff Bezos. Yet absolutely
refuses to get more training (OJT, trade school, technical school, night classes, online classes, etc.) to make his life better. It's always someone else's fault, or the system's fault, or the world is just a terrible place, or whatever. His primary hobby is doom-scrolling on his phone & whining on social media.
He's a smart dude with a fantastic work ethic, very loyal, but it just hasn't clicked in his head that the world is
always going to be filled up with both great & terrible opportunities. Nothing is stopping him from applying to a different position, finding a different employer, going to night school, etc. other than he doesn't see that as a valid option for improving his own life. In his view, the world needs to be a perfect place in order for him to be happy & successful, so he can't
possibly be truly happy because those things are out of his control, which is straight-up fake news!
I've talked to him about his situation numerous times, but it's like AA: the first step is recognizing that you have a problem, because as with any journey, if you're not willing to take the first step, you'll never be willing to take the second step! He's content to stew & ruminate, rather than taking proactive action to improve his own situation. There are over 12,000 unique types of jobs in American & the BLS posted that there are over 10 million job openings in America. For people who are willing to get selective, get trained, relocate if necessary, and have good work ethic, the world always has been & always will be their oyster!
I'm a huge whiner myself, so I keep this silly meme to remind myself that I can complain all day & stay stuck, or I can recognize that sometimes my problems are my own fault & sometimes they're other people's fault & sometimes bad stuff just happens, but it's up to me to get back up on that bike & get rolling again, rather than getting stuck feeling bad about things, because it's SO EASY to do that!
Again, there are some really serious & difficult situations in the economy right now, so this isn't about ignoring those situations or downplaying them. If an individual wants to become a labor organizer or a protestor or whatever else, they're free to choose to do so, but if they want to make their personal lives better, then learning how to operate independently of the garbage of the world is one of the best ways I've discovered to do that! But that's a hard pill to swallow because consistent effort (by choice & out of the norm of the requirements of our lives, such as going to night school to get more education to become more valuable in the workplace in order to change our job positions or swap companies) is a
really difficult thing to master, and that's typically what's required to escape garbage jobs!
