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[nativesunshine]

this reminds me of my friend's apartmentmate...he's got a gf yet he hooks up (pretty much every other day) with the girl who lives across the hall. I don't know how the gf doesn't know..but my friend and I pretty much decided that they prolly have an open relationship.

It really disturbs me to see gf there one day..cuddling and stuff...and then girl from across the hall another day..cuddling and stuff. I dunno..I guess I just don't look too kindly on cheaters...but who am I to say anything.

so yea...my point? Just stay out of it....maybe you are being a good friend and whatever..but it's not your business. If the roomie (who's ex's w/ the girl) has a problem with this roomie hooking up with her as rebound...then THEY can settle it themselves. You shouldn't butt in where you're not wanted (especially if dude got mad at you for saying something to the girl).

 

[JulesMaximus]

So, you told this chick that your friend is on the rebound but you don't even know what that means? Man, I hate it when people use expressions when they clearly don't know what it means.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
So, you told this chick that your friend is on the rebound but you don't even know what that means? Man, I hate it when people use expressions when they clearly don't know what it means.

Fo shizzle my wizzle!

- M4H

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: fumbduck

Originally posted by: Jzero
Rebound is only bad if the other party wants something more.

BTW, I was "on the rebound" when I met my fiancee.

Oh, and I'm a little confused. If your buddy came to you, why did you ever rat him out to the girl?
Or is the girl your buddy?

I ratted him out because he lied to me straight to my face. We have been good friends for 3 years, then he lies to me eyes to eyes over a girl he has known for a month. (Note that he straight out started talking to me when he lied, I made no prior contact, I even said it wasn't my business).

So, once I figured out he lied to me, and on top of that, he wouldn't take no as an answer for going after this girl (STUPID, He must enjoy ass beatings), I went to her to stop it.

What, exactly, did he lie to you about?

You're not telling us the whole story, but you're getting pissed when people jump to conclusions....

 

[fumbduck]

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: fumbduck

Originally posted by: Jzero
Rebound is only bad if the other party wants something more.

BTW, I was "on the rebound" when I met my fiancee.

Oh, and I'm a little confused. If your buddy came to you, why did you ever rat him out to the girl?
Or is the girl your buddy?

I ratted him out because he lied to me straight to my face. We have been good friends for 3 years, then he lies to me eyes to eyes over a girl he has known for a month. (Note that he straight out started talking to me when he lied, I made no prior contact, I even said it wasn't my business).

So, once I figured out he lied to me, and on top of that, he wouldn't take no as an answer for going after this girl (STUPID, He must enjoy ass beatings), I went to her to stop it.

What, exactly, did he lie to you about?

You're not telling us the whole story, but you're getting pissed when people jump to conclusions....

Did I ask people to make judgement calls on my decision? No. Did I ask people for their opinions on what I did? No.

I asked people what exactly was rebound. You sure I'm the one in the wrong here?

To all the people responding with mind my own business... that is pretty hypocritical. Are you minding your own business by delving into mine and telling me to mind my own? I didn't ask you do. I always stay out of other peoples business, My friend came to me, I told him what I thought. I then found out he lied to me.
My other roommate and his ex-girlfriend are very close. He could easily destroy roommate A if he wanted to. He doesn't even know any of this is going on since they are being so secretive about it.

I'm not one to cockblock, but he shouldn't even be trotting on that territory to begin with.

AND PLEASE, Stick to the thread.

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: fumbduck

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: fumbduck

Originally posted by: Jzero
Rebound is only bad if the other party wants something more.

BTW, I was "on the rebound" when I met my fiancee.

Oh, and I'm a little confused. If your buddy came to you, why did you ever rat him out to the girl?
Or is the girl your buddy?

I ratted him out because he lied to me straight to my face. We have been good friends for 3 years, then he lies to me eyes to eyes over a girl he has known for a month. (Note that he straight out started talking to me when he lied, I made no prior contact, I even said it wasn't my business).

So, once I figured out he lied to me, and on top of that, he wouldn't take no as an answer for going after this girl (STUPID, He must enjoy ass beatings), I went to her to stop it.

What, exactly, did he lie to you about?

You're not telling us the whole story, but you're getting pissed when people jump to conclusions....

Did I ask people to make judgement calls on my decision? No. Did I ask people for their opinions on what I did? No.

I asked people what exactly was rebound. You sure I'm the one in the wrong here?

To all the people responding with mind my own business... that is pretty hypocritical. Are you minding your own business by delving into mine and telling me to mind my own? I didn't ask you do. I always stay out of other peoples business, My friend came to me, I told him what I thought. I then found out he lied to me.
My other roommate and his ex-girlfriend are very close. He could easily destroy roommate A if he wanted to. He doesn't even know any of this is going on since they are being so secretive about it.

I'm not one to cockblock, but he shouldn't even be trotting on that territory to begin with.

AND PLEASE, Stick to the thread.

You most certainly did ask us to delve into your business. You did that by posting your story here.

You are cockblocking.

I don't know why you are so concerned about this in the first place. You need to get a life dude and stop worrying so much about the decisions other people make with theirs.

If your friend lied to you then I would tell you that you need to find a new friend. And stop meddling in the affairs of others.

My .02

 

[fumbduck]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: fumbduck

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: fumbduck

Originally posted by: Jzero
Rebound is only bad if the other party wants something more.

BTW, I was "on the rebound" when I met my fiancee.

Oh, and I'm a little confused. If your buddy came to you, why did you ever rat him out to the girl?
Or is the girl your buddy?

I ratted him out because he lied to me straight to my face. We have been good friends for 3 years, then he lies to me eyes to eyes over a girl he has known for a month. (Note that he straight out started talking to me when he lied, I made no prior contact, I even said it wasn't my business).

So, once I figured out he lied to me, and on top of that, he wouldn't take no as an answer for going after this girl (STUPID, He must enjoy ass beatings), I went to her to stop it.

What, exactly, did he lie to you about?

You're not telling us the whole story, but you're getting pissed when people jump to conclusions....

Did I ask people to make judgement calls on my decision? No. Did I ask people for their opinions on what I did? No.

I asked people what exactly was rebound. You sure I'm the one in the wrong here?

To all the people responding with mind my own business... that is pretty hypocritical. Are you minding your own business by delving into mine and telling me to mind my own? I didn't ask you do. I always stay out of other peoples business, My friend came to me, I told him what I thought. I then found out he lied to me.
My other roommate and his ex-girlfriend are very close. He could easily destroy roommate A if he wanted to. He doesn't even know any of this is going on since they are being so secretive about it.

I'm not one to cockblock, but he shouldn't even be trotting on that territory to begin with.

AND PLEASE, Stick to the thread.

You most certainly did ask us to delve into your business. You did that by posting your story here.

You are cockblocking.

I don't know why you are so concerned about this in the first place. You need to get a life dude and stop worrying so much about the decisions other people make with theirs.

If your friend lied to you then I would tell you that you need to find a new friend. And stop meddling in the affairs of others.

My .02

Lol. You must know everything. I need to get a life? I post maybe 3-4 posts a day, tops. I do have a life, but I am in college, so my life is limited by studying and work.

Thank You, but blow me.

 

[kami333]

You keep on repeating that he lied to you but from what you are telling us, all we can say is that YOU are the one who is being inappropriate. If you want us to agree with you, why not explain exactly how he lied to you? Did he say he was going to break it off and kept on going with her in secret?

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: fumbduck

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: fumbduck

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: fumbduck

Originally posted by: Jzero
Rebound is only bad if the other party wants something more.

BTW, I was "on the rebound" when I met my fiancee.

Oh, and I'm a little confused. If your buddy came to you, why did you ever rat him out to the girl?
Or is the girl your buddy?

I ratted him out because he lied to me straight to my face. We have been good friends for 3 years, then he lies to me eyes to eyes over a girl he has known for a month. (Note that he straight out started talking to me when he lied, I made no prior contact, I even said it wasn't my business).

So, once I figured out he lied to me, and on top of that, he wouldn't take no as an answer for going after this girl (STUPID, He must enjoy ass beatings), I went to her to stop it.

What, exactly, did he lie to you about?

You're not telling us the whole story, but you're getting pissed when people jump to conclusions....

Did I ask people to make judgement calls on my decision? No. Did I ask people for their opinions on what I did? No.

I asked people what exactly was rebound. You sure I'm the one in the wrong here?

To all the people responding with mind my own business... that is pretty hypocritical. Are you minding your own business by delving into mine and telling me to mind my own? I didn't ask you do. I always stay out of other peoples business, My friend came to me, I told him what I thought. I then found out he lied to me.
My other roommate and his ex-girlfriend are very close. He could easily destroy roommate A if he wanted to. He doesn't even know any of this is going on since they are being so secretive about it.

I'm not one to cockblock, but he shouldn't even be trotting on that territory to begin with.

AND PLEASE, Stick to the thread.

You most certainly did ask us to delve into your business. You did that by posting your story here.

You are cockblocking.

I don't know why you are so concerned about this in the first place. You need to get a life dude and stop worrying so much about the decisions other people make with theirs.

If your friend lied to you then I would tell you that you need to find a new friend. And stop meddling in the affairs of others.

My .02

Lol. You must know everything. I need to get a life? I post maybe 3-4 posts a day, tops. I do have a life, but I am in college, so my life is limited by studying and work.

Thank You, but blow me.

Asshat.