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Did you try to have kids?



<< what do you think the odds would be to get a girl pregnant? >>



That depends a lot on what point in her cycle your partner is at. My wife and I aren't planning on having kids, but if it happens, it happens.

good luck, if you're trying. 😀
 
The odds? Way to many variables to calculate without know any details. Did you think you knocked a chic up? Just rememeber, If you're not going to bag it, go home and whack it!
 
say, she was on the eighth day of her period, and a friend of mine didnt wear a condem and finished inside her.....
 
sbastedo1983,
Don't be sad. The longer the wait the better chance that you will meet the "perfect" one🙂
 


<< I am sad I am going to be 19 in a week and I have never had a girlfriend 🙁 >>

dude.. stop kickin yerself... i was 18 when i had my first kiss... you'll find someone.. as long as you look 😀
 


<< sbastedo1983,
Don't be sad. The longer the wait the better chance that you will meet the "perfect" one🙂 >>



bs, by the time he gets a gf, we'll be able to genetically design the

<< "perfect" >>

one 😉
 
I wouldnt worry about it, while you can get pregnant during your peroid or shortly after, its very rare, more likely 2 weeks to 1 week prior to having it is your highest potency.
 
Hell NO. I love 'em, but man, my 'now wife' was on the pill BOTH TIMES.

Makes me wonder if I really should have taken that job at that nuclear power plant (super swimmers) j/k

EDIT: funny thing is, we were completely reckeless and unprepared for the 6 years prior to the first pregnancy. As soon as I got settled in to a good job and she was about done with college, it just happened...I know we are blessed 🙂
 


<< say, she was on the eighth day of her period, and a friend of mine didnt wear a condem and finished inside her..... >>



it does depend on a lot of variables, but the eighth day in the period (whichever that is in her cycle) is better than other time. it sounds like both parties involved should've had a bit more communication on the schedule for that evening... 😉
 
well im expecting my first child in July.

I own my own business and used to work lots of hours (50-70 a week) with the downturn in the economy business slacked off.

I decided to go back to college. with the free time i have me and my wife decided to get off birth control. We werent trying to have kids but we werent trying to prevent it either =)

But im happy and looking forward to it!
 
I get scared around girls, I can barley talk to the ones I like most of the time. I usually end up makeing some stupid remark if I do try to talk to them. I lost 80 lbs in highschool because I thought it would better my chances. but since I never got a date, tried a few time always turned down, when I got to college this fall I became depressed and now I am back up like 45 lbs. Its a very hard life when you don't feel you have a place.
 
<------ 19 here without having a gf ever, don't feel bad

I want a chica, time will hopefully be on my side🙂
 
I'm sure it won't make you feel better, but I'm going to try.

I'm 21, and I've never had a kiss or a date. Much less an actual girlfriend. There are those out there that are "more pathetic" than you...I guess.

Seriously, what do you want a girlfriend for anyways? Just becuase your friends do. Unless you are looking to get laid (which you shouldn't be at 19) just be friends with girls. It's much less complicated.

I have lots of female friends, and it's great. Girls are good for alot more than "girlfriendness".
 
I want someone to be able to hold and snuggle with and be closer with than my friends. You know like snuggle up to watch a movie together on a Saturday night.
 
Hmm.. I imagine when that happens, it will be a planned thing with my current girlfriend and I.. just because that's the way we are, lol.

If it did happen by accident, that would be okay too, though. Just not anytime soon.... lol

It's definately possible, but the chances are more slim. When did the deed happen? There's always the morning after(72 hour) pill.

Everybody should know about it.



<< Seriously, what do you want a girlfriend for anyways? Just becuase your friends do. Unless you are looking to get laid (which you shouldn't be at 19) just be friends with girls. It's much less complicated. >>



The instinct to find a mate is very strong in humans... He wants to have someone to cuddle up with, love.. and be loved. Don't give up dude, you'll find sombody.

My first girlfriend was when I was 19. She didn't really last very long, and honestly didn't really mean much, except first kiss. Wasn't a real relationship.

I didn't find somebody else until just a few months ago, I'm almost 21. It was well worth the wait, I never thought I would find somebody like my girlfriend. 🙂
 


<< I'm sure it won't make you feel better, but I'm going to try.

I'm 21, and I've never had a kiss or a date. Much less an actual girlfriend. There are those out there that are "more pathetic" than you...I guess.

Seriously, what do you want a girlfriend for anyways? Just becuase your friends do. Unless you are looking to get laid (which you shouldn't be at 19) just be friends with girls. It's much less complicated.

I have lots of female friends, and it's great. Girls are good for alot more than "girlfriendness". >>




what should he do at age 19? knit?😕
 
thanks for the confidence booster, but I really need to do something about my depression and weight. I am on welbutron for ADHD and it is suppose to help for depression too but it isn't working to well.



<< what should he do at age 19? knit? >>


haha stay on AT forums all night 😉

I am also going through sort of a halfway to middle age break down as well, which may contribute to the problem. I don't knwo what I want to do with my life and picked the wrong college for me, luckily I am going to move to East Lansing next fall and live with my best friend, I will be attending MSU instead of MTU, which will probably help me out in that area a little.
 
well......just dont get fat again, you have a hell of a lot better chances of finding a good looking chick by being in good shape.(im sure someone will come in here and say that you can find chicks while being huge and all, but from what i've seen your chances are just a lot better if you're in shape =)...plus umm you will like live longer and all that other stuff hehehe.............)***FLAME SUIT ACTIVATE***
 
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