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What role in finding god is played by the sense of belonging to a group of like-minded people? >>
Ah, you see I have never fit in very well anywhere.
That's precisely why I don't go to church... it's a club.
Every church I tried... even metaphysical churches, even the Wiccan crowd... they all were about social hierarchies and I never could play the game right (mostly because I just can't play social games well.).
Ha, I can't even get accepted to Club Elite here!
SuperSix, yes, I know Idlewild. I went to St Mary's as a kid, you know the one with the priest and the gay sex scandal?
Mr Isla was emotionally and mentally abused by his mother in the name of God. He used to be an "on fire for Jesus Christ" kind of Christian, but really he was a very angry and hurt young man. Now he is an agnostic. That wasn't MY doing, it had to do with the way his mom twisted God around to give her power to belittle, reject, and control him. I lived with her for a year and saw her behavior first hand. She calls herself a Prophetess of God, a true Christian saint. I call her selfish, sadistic, and deluded. He doesn't have much to do with her anymore, and consequently doesn't really care to have much to do with God, either.
He would have probably embraced atheism, but I think being married to me made that hard for him to do. I'm a spiritual woman, just not a religious one. I don't call myself a Christian but I do call myself a follower of Christ. Buddhist philosophies are also a big part of the way I try to live my life. He is, slowly and on his own, coming to his own conclusions about God without any interference from me or anyone else.
I really think you have to find God for yourself, and that if you are really seeking, you will eventually find what you are looking for.
For me, it is a sense of peace.
edit: Thanks, tagej.
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When you see someone battle incredible odds and personal tragedy and have the strength to help others in their life, you will understand God, regardless of what religion you choose to adhere to >>
Well said.