Originally posted by: erub
I'm going to Texas A&M University, while a state school, #14 in engineering. Recruiters are all over the place around here, and if I wanted to, I'm sure with my ~3.7 GPA in EE and extracurriculurs I could have received a very solid job offer..people I know are tossing around 55-60K with lesser GPAs, and most of these jobs are in TX. I'm trying to go to another STATE school for graduate school, being Georgia Tech. I don't think I should have any problem getting a job after graduating from there either.
Yes, I probably could have gone to at least some of the Ivys for undergrad, but I don't resent that decision at all. I have enough scholarships to cover my entire tuition bill..that 120-150K my parents saved on my education, they told me I can use for a business one day..
My sister, OTOH, went to Pomona College (very prestigious liberal arts college in CA) and my parents paid $$ for her education. She ended up at UT Medical Branch in Galveston for Medical School, sitting next to classmates who attended Texas A&M..my parents have since told me that they wished that they had saved the money on her undergrad
I actually could have gone to Texas A&M for more or less nothing, but I wanted to remain in the Northeast for my education.
Oh, my parents were very opposed to me going to an Ivy League, they didn't believe there was a superior education or opportunity but did know that Ivy Leagues were far more expensive. One of my parents didn't graduate high school however, and niether finished college, but through careful money management and investment they've become upper middle class. Their goal for me had always been to attend a state university with a full ride.
The valevictorian at my high school was always worked hard her entire life with the intentions that she would go to an Ivy League. She went to Yale with about $25,000/year in scholarships.
2nd in class rank at my high school was always told he could look foward to a job in hard labor. Thanks to his summers working at sewer plants and on the NJ highways, he learned he wanted better than that so he went to Rowan on a full ride as well. If he didn't have a full ride, he would have gone into the military.
3rd in class rank basically has the motto of "The world belongs to the hard working." He's not especially smart, but has always worked hard and participated in many extracurriculars, and is now going to Princeton for CS. (I wonder if I would have been accepted to Princeton if I had applied for CS instead of EE)
My best friend who was right above me in class rank was in a similar situation to me, except his family isn't as economically well to do. He's also going to Rowan on a full ride.
And then there was the kid two spots above me who was always taught that nothing matters in life except doing well in high school so that he'd get accepted into an Ivy League and earn prestige back in his home country. He basically became a complete recluse devoted to his studies in high school (math and science anyhow, he didn't care about liberal arts grades) and got accepted to all the top Ivys. He's now going to Seoul University for about $5000 a year for pre med. He says it is a superior school to any Ivy League, and if he hadn't gotten in he would have settled for MIT and a major in physics. (which actually suits his interests more, he's only doing pre-med because he feels it will bring him recognition and happiness)