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mobobuff

Lifer
Apr 5, 2004
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Originally posted by: edro13
"Well, were going to have to find you someone then." = ASK ME OUT YOU FVCKTARD!
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I really hope you don't walk around asking out girls who have boyfriends.

SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. She was fvcking writing his name over and over on her notebook (which given is very juvenile and may just be superficial, but still, she's not dumping this guy any time soon). Which is why I suggest attempting to kick it in the friend zone for a while, IF you have the patience.

"We'll, were going to have to find you someone then." DOES NOT = "SCREW ME NOW! OH YES I WANT YOU!". If you think that then I feel extremely sorry for you (I'm glad the OP had the sense to not think that). Girls love being matchmakers, in fact, she'll probably try to hook you up with her friend if she doesn't have a boyfriend.

What would be good for you to figure out is how long she's been with this Bret guy.
 
GrumpyMan

GrumpyMan

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May 14, 2001
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I have found through the years that women are predatory with each other and tend to like men that are with other women. Some think to themselves,"that woman must of found something really good about him (money, penis, whatever)". Use the girls to go out with and I guarantee that other chicks will hit up on you. And when this happens this chick you like will try to get you too, unless of course she really likes this other guy. Don't over think it, just enjoy being young and single for now. :beer:
 
edro

edro

Lifer
Apr 5, 2002
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Originally posted by: mobobuff
Originally posted by: edro13
"Well, were going to have to find you someone then." = ASK ME OUT YOU FVCKTARD!
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I really hope you don't walk around asking out girls who have boyfriends.
SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. She was fvcking writing his name over and over on her notebook (which given is very juvenile and may just be superficial, but still, she's not dumping this guy any time soon). Which is why I suggest attempting to kick it in the friend zone for a while, IF you have the patience.
"We'll, were going to have to find you someone then." DOES NOT = "SCREW ME NOW! OH YES I WANT YOU!". If you think that then I feel extremely sorry for you (I'm glad the OP had the sense to not think that). Girls love being matchmakers, in fact, she'll probably try to hook you up with her friend if she doesn't have a boyfriend.
What would be good for you to figure out is how long she's been with this Bret guy.
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You've got a lot to learn about women. No single woman, is ever single. All women have a "boyfriend" or someone they are dating, or someone they have "been with" lately. You can never date a truely single woman.
 
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phatj

Golden Member
Mar 21, 2003
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dude, that's awesome, hot girls have hot friends. they are gonna hook u up phat!
 
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kreb

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Oct 23, 2002
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Originally posted by: sniperruff
think postitve. you made a new close friend that you can depend on. i was once like you.
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Exactly. Just think of yourself as a low-post player boxing out waiting for the rebound.. :evil:
 
rh71

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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Originally posted by: ActuaryTm
Material to read and understand thoroughly.
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I don't know if it's explicitly explained, but the ladder theory only applies to people who like to f*ck. For girls who want a real relationship, much of it is false. Such as:
A girl says any of the following to you:

"You're like a brother to me"
"You're like a big teddy bear"
"I feel like I can talk to you about anything"
"You're so nice"
"Can you help me with my homework"

Ladder Theory Explanation: You are on the friends ladder. So Sorry.
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Most of those are excuses to want to be with the guy longer and/or build a good foundation for their life together.
 
mobobuff

mobobuff

Lifer
Apr 5, 2004
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Originally posted by: edro13
Originally posted by: mobobuff
Originally posted by: edro13
"Well, were going to have to find you someone then." = ASK ME OUT YOU FVCKTARD!
Click to expand...
I really hope you don't walk around asking out girls who have boyfriends.
SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. She was fvcking writing his name over and over on her notebook (which given is very juvenile and may just be superficial, but still, she's not dumping this guy any time soon). Which is why I suggest attempting to kick it in the friend zone for a while, IF you have the patience.
"We'll, were going to have to find you someone then." DOES NOT = "SCREW ME NOW! OH YES I WANT YOU!". If you think that then I feel extremely sorry for you (I'm glad the OP had the sense to not think that). Girls love being matchmakers, in fact, she'll probably try to hook you up with her friend if she doesn't have a boyfriend.
What would be good for you to figure out is how long she's been with this Bret guy.
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You've got a lot to learn about women. No single woman, is ever single. All women have a "boyfriend" or someone they are dating, or someone they have "been with" lately. You can never date a truely single woman.
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Sorry, I missed the part where you have a point that refutes anything I said.
 
Koing

Koing

Elite Member <br> Super Moderator<br> Health and F
Oct 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: GrumpyMan
I have found through the years that women are predatory with each other and tend to like men that are with other women. Some think to themselves,"that woman must of found something really good about him (money, penis, whatever)". Use the girls to go out with and I guarantee that other chicks will hit up on you. And when this happens this chick you like will try to get you too, unless of course she really likes this other guy. Don't over think it, just enjoy being young and single for now. :beer:
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I'd definately go with that.

Good luck Mark.

If you don't want to be friends don't. Just hang out with your other friends. Just don't be a d!ck to them. Just be 'nice'.

Koing
 
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kalster

Diamond Member
Jul 23, 2002
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Originally posted by: Mark
About 2 months ago(first day of class, Geograpy 2 here at the local college), I met this great girl. She's everything I could ever want in someone, beautiful, great personality, funny, overall great vibe to her. To be honest, the only time iv'e ever felt this way about someone was back in the 8th grade(that was a long time ago, first real crush), and I had never felt the same about anyone until I met this girl in my class. She and her friend would always talk to me in class and I would talk to her(just about everyday stuff). Because she did talk to me so much, I thought she might be interested in me so I was pretty happy at the time. At the time, I didn't want to ask her out because I didn't know too much about her(whether or not she was in a relationship) so my plan was to wait for her to bring up whether or not she was in a relationship or not. About 3 weeks ago, I guess she got bored in class and started writing little "Judy(her name) loves Brett" noted all over her notepad, so I was pretty down after I saw that, but she would continue to talk to me alot so I was thinking maybe I still have a shot at her(I was thinking maybe she was unhappy with her current bf because she would talk to me in class so much so I thought she was interested). Fast forward to today, teacher doesn't show up so all 3 of us(me, her, and her friend) decide to go to the cafeteria. They ask me if I have a gf, I say not right now, and tell them I just got out of a relationship 7 months(to give you an idea, I was with my ex for 3 years and I never once felt the same way I do for this girl now) ago because my ex-gf moved away. Then after that, the girl that I like uttered the 10 words I did not want to hear:



"Well, were going to have to find you someone then."




I feel like such an idiot now. I guess she just wanted to be "friends" all along. I have enough friends as it is, I'm not really looking to make anymore right now. The worst part of it is I'm in a group project with them so were gonna have to start working together soon. Since they don't like the class, I've decided I'm just gonna do the entire thing myself and slap thier names on it. I really don't want to talk to either of them anymore because the more I do, the more depressed about this whole thing I'm gonna get. This really sucks.
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i hate how girls always manage to get this stuff done
 
SociallyChallenged

SociallyChallenged

Elite
Mar 22, 2002
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*Sigh* You're so much of a whimp. You coulda been like "I'd prefer you" or somethin like that as a fleeting comment, which would in reality plant the seed that you like her. You could seriously talk about it later if you get the balls. You need to not whimp out, and you just need to go for it. It's not gonna come around again. Go for it.

+Brent
 
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Ricochet

Diamond Member
Oct 31, 1999
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Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3
"A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired."
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:thumbsup: I can't believe how close to the truth that analogy is.
 
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dragonballgtz

Banned
Mar 9, 2001
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About 2 months ago(first day of class, Geograpy 2 here at the local college), I met this great girl. She's everything I could ever want in someone, beautiful, great personality, funny, overall great vibe to her. To be honest, the only time iv'e ever felt this way about someone was back in the 8th grade(that was a long time ago, first real crush), and I had never felt the same about anyone until I met this girl in my class. She and her friend would always talk to me in class and I would talk to her(just about everyday stuff). Because she did talk to me so much, I thought she might be interested in me so I was pretty happy at the time. At the time, I didn't want to ask her out because I didn't know too much about her(whether or not she was in a relationship) so my plan was to wait for her to bring up whether or not she was in a relationship or not. About 3 weeks ago, I guess she got bored in class and started writing little "Judy(her name) loves Brett" noted all over her notepad, so I was pretty down after I saw that, but she would continue to talk to me alot so I was thinking maybe I still have a shot at her(I was thinking maybe she was unhappy with her current bf because she would talk to me in class so much so I thought she was interested). Fast forward to today, teacher doesn't show up so all 3 of us(me, her, and her friend) decide to go to the cafeteria. They ask me if I have a gf, I say not right now, and tell them I just got out of a relationship 7 months(to give you an idea, I was with my ex for 3 years and I never once felt the same way I do for this girl now) ago because my ex-gf moved away. Then after that, the girl that I like uttered the 10 words I did not want to hear:



"Well, were going to have to find you someone then."




I feel like such an idiot now. I guess she just wanted to be "friends" all along. I have enough friends as it is, I'm not really looking to make anymore right now. The worst part of it is I'm in a group project with them so were gonna have to start working together soon. Since they don't like the class, I've decided I'm just gonna do the entire thing myself and slap thier names on it. I really don't want to talk to either of them anymore because the more I do, the more depressed about this whole thing I'm gonna get. This really sucks.
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I was in the same situation and the girl said the same thing to me. Next thing I know we had sex in her car.
 
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