Originally posted by: Azurik
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Me: Asian, 23 y/o, just graduated college
Her: White, 21 y/o, entering her Senior year in college
Relationship Overview:
Dated Since: October 30th, 2002
Current Length: 2 years, 9 months
Situation Analysis:
We are back together and on good terms. Last night, we laid outside on the beach talking from 9PM-1AM about where we are heading and more or less understand each other's thoughts. It was a very constructive conversation. The dilemma in this relationship is this...
I started to date her my sophomore year of college, when she was just a freshmen. I got out the majority of that wanting to be "crazy and wild" during my freshmen year and was ready to settle down. She set out to find a good boyfriend entering college and got it. However, she was never single during college, and now the typical feeling has happened. The feeling that you may be missing out. It's her last year of college.
Paraphrasing her, she said, in a perfect world where she can freeze time, she would go out and just live it up so she can be ready to settle down with me. She doesn't want to do this because she loves me and knows she's throwing away a good thing. She knows I won't stop her either way because I want her to be happy, but she does realize she would be losing me in that process and does not want to do that.
It was a very mature conversation and we left it on a good note. She almost got too emotional and was about to cry at the end, but I cheered her up. Even said goodnight with a little beach oral action😉 (I'm tryign to emphasize it was a positive convo here!!!). She wanted me to think about what we discussed and I'm seeing her tonight to talk about it. I'm still a bit confused on how to handle this though.
ATOT thoughts?
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Originally posted by: tami
she only wants you for your money.
and you have yet to reply to any PMs asking for advice. :|
Originally posted by: Azurik
Originally posted by: tami
she only wants you for your money.
and you have yet to reply to any PMs asking for advice. :|
Tammy, I got your PM's recently. I don't check it that often.
Originally posted by: scorpmatt
Originally posted by: Azurik
Originally posted by: tami
she only wants you for your money.
and you have yet to reply to any PMs asking for advice. :|
Tammy, I got your PM's recently. I don't check it that often.
he just doesn't like you tami. just ignore him
Originally posted by: Azurik
Originally posted by: scorpmatt
Originally posted by: Azurik
Originally posted by: tami
she only wants you for your money.
and you have yet to reply to any PMs asking for advice. :|
Tammy, I got your PM's recently. I don't check it that often.
he just doesn't like you tami. just ignore him
That's not true. Stop putting things in her head🙂 I haven't had time to evaluate it totally yet.
Originally posted by: scorpmatt
Originally posted by: Azurik
Originally posted by: scorpmatt
Originally posted by: Azurik
Originally posted by: tami
she only wants you for your money.
and you have yet to reply to any PMs asking for advice. :|
Tammy, I got your PM's recently. I don't check it that often.
he just doesn't like you tami. just ignore him
That's not true. Stop putting things in her head🙂 I haven't had time to evaluate it totally yet.
yeah right, stop toying with her.
Originally posted by: tami
haha ok
well then 😛
sorry azurik. 🙂
be good, boys. I AM BREAKING UP THE FIGHT!
p.s. i just reformatted
Originally posted by: BrokenVisage
How is this a repost?
Originally posted by: scorpmatt
Originally posted by: BrokenVisage
How is this a repost?
its not, the other thread he created is the repost
Originally posted by: suse920
i liked this thread