delete this thread please

[Stumps]

nah, just do what a lot of my "sophiscated" friends think I do to pull chicks, grab my club, leave my cave go out bonk one on the head and cart her back to my cave and have my way with her.
It's funny, some of my better of friends think this way about me, but I'm the one who always seems to have a hot girlfriend, not them, despite my "limited" financal means, lack of "sophiscation".
You just need to tell her straight, you like her and you would like to do something about, if she feels the same way she will come around, if not ditch the bitch, go get smashed and pick up another one.

 

[badmouse]

Female advice: you're thinking too much.

You don't have an "us" or anything - you haven't gotten that far. You're just two ships that passed in the night, file her under missed chances and go on to other things. You acted stupid, but that's not unusual. Why not hang out with her friends - you might really like one or more of them?

It is acceptable to call her like once a month for a few months just to see if she sounds happy to hear from you. Any more than that would be non-productive.

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: badmouse
Female advice: you're thinking too much.

You don't have an "us" or anything - you haven't gotten that far. You're just two ships that passed in the night, file her under missed chances and go on to other things. You acted stupid, but that's not unusual. Why not hang out with her friends - you might really like one or more of them?

It is acceptable to call her like once a month for a few months just to see if she sounds happy to hear from you. Any more than that would be non-productive.

I get it. To understand how a woman thinks, you simply don't try to think about it. Oh my god ..... I solved the age old riddle. I officially know everything about women now. Everything in my past relationships make sense. My wife makes sense. oh my god. This is like a spiritual experience.


.....


Wait, I must not understand. I'm thinking to much about it. I guess trying to understand women is a catch 22. Because in trying to usderstand them you simply have to fail because it requires thought and to think about it is to not understand. So even if you think you know, you really don't because you had to think about why you know therefore you can't.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: badmouse
Female advice: you're thinking too much.

You don't have an "us" or anything - you haven't gotten that far. You're just two ships that passed in the night, file her under missed chances and go on to other things. You acted stupid, but that's not unusual. Why not hang out with her friends - you might really like one or more of them?

It is acceptable to call her like once a month for a few months just to see if she sounds happy to hear from you. Any more than that would be non-productive.

Agreed.

 

[Stumps]

yeah, date one of her friends and make her jealous..that will work

 

[skace]

From your post it seems like she doesn't want to deal with you at all but she is non-confrontational and won't say it to your face. Time to move on.

 

[Stumps]

go and get a hooker!

 

[MrChad]

Originally posted by: Stumps
we went to to movies which was fine, I did the gentleman thing and paid for both of them everything was fine till about 3 quarters the way through when my GF's friend put her arm around me, I was sitting between them, anyway my GF had a fit of rage and stormed out, I promptly followed and managed to smooth things over.
The next day her friend came to visit me at lunch, which was ok except for the clothing she was wearing, I gave subtle little hints that I wasn't interested in her(she was pretty hot though) but she just didn't get the message after work she was waiting for me, I politely told her I was busy and went off to see my GF. I thought everything was fine.
The visits went on for a week or so and I kept quiet about it to my GF as I didn't want to make trouble, but when her friend went and told her she intended on stealing me, well.....CAT FIGHT!!!!!!!
I was quite flattered by all this attention, and it made me look good in front of my work mates.
Now they barely talk to each other and if my GF and I are together and we see her, it still causes issues between us.
I did try to tell them that there was enougth of me to go around but..you know women, they don't listen!

That's what happens when you're 23 and you go after 16 year olds.

EDIT: Just realized it was a 7 year difference.

 

[Red Dawn]

Be persistent, just don't be a sniveling little asswrap doing it.

 

[MacBaine]

You're not going out with her. You lose.